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sweets1966 -> RE: Keeping the site clean of fakes (3/17/2013 6:27:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

You don't look like Sofia Vergara.

So you're romantically unavailable, you don't have a bubbly personality, your kids are a major timesink that will always come first, and you aren't arm candy. What, exactly, do you have to offer a man on a kink site, other than a vagina? Your situation is automatically disqualifying the men who want you for more than your holes.

Are you rich?

If not, do at least one of:
1) Get a divorce
2) Find reasons to be excited about life
3) Send the kids to grandma's so you have date nights/play nights
4) Hit the gym
5) Lie.

Then you will be more likely to attract "true" dominant men. Hell, just a better calibre of men in general. Of course, if you engage in (5), they won't stick around very long.....


I dont look like Sofia Vergara (i admit i had to google, oh wait that is a different thread, pardon).
If anyone considers kids a major timesink then as my profile says, pass me by.
What exactly do i look like again? *looks around for the picture of me posted in order to give credence to that comment*
I had one up but i took it down some weeks ago.
I am excited about life, i shall have to work on that coming across in my profile.
Who said i didnt have play time available?

and my favorite....

if i were engaging in #5, then my profile wouldn't state i was married and had children, would it?
I go to great lengths to be honest. I do thank you for being honest also. The false presumptions i could have done without.

I have not changed my profile in the past few days other than to correct a typo.

So my previously mentioned, *here for the forums and looking for friends* would be a good decision at this time. What with the whole still married part (and yes.. don't be shocked... he knows).

I am not quite sure what i can do about my lack of personality however........ *smiles sweetly* Great signature by the way.


sexyred1 and JeffBC, thank you.

While i am at it.. what does the *FR* which sometimes appears at the beginning of a post... i keep trying to figure that one out but it is eluding me. i've been online for over 15 years but there is always something new to learn.




searching4mysir -> RE: Keeping the site clean of fakes (3/17/2013 6:58:35 PM)

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While i am at it.. what does the *FR* which sometimes appears at the beginning of a post


It means they are using Fast Reply (the box at the bottom of the page) to type their response to the thread. The forum software automatically attaches an "in reply to" the last poster but the post may not be directed at them but at the OP or the group at large.




sweets1966 -> RE: Keeping the site clean of fakes (3/17/2013 7:13:08 PM)

Thank you! *places an apple pie on the teachers desk*




RedMagic1 -> RE: Keeping the site clean of fakes (3/17/2013 7:32:59 PM)

Sigh. I saw a photo. Maybe it was still in the cache, and I saw it in error. I'll PM you a link to a face pic of yours, if you'd like. I found quite a few on the net when I searched just now.

If you're interested in building some long term success here, you don't need to be "defended"; you need to improve your written communication skills. Do you really think I'm the only man on the face of the earth who would read your profile in the way I did? I don't. However, I'm the man who answered the question you asked on this thread. I told you what I thought, clearly and directly, because I am more interested in getting you to fix a problem than I am in winning "he's so nice" points from you or anyone else on an online message board.

While there are far more male profiles than female profiles on this site, women outnumber men in online dating overall. In terms of CM, this means that once you subtract all the men who are looking for interactive porn, there are roughly the same number of men looking for some kind of relationship as there are women. There's a famous saying on these message boards: "Are you the person that the person you want, wants?" If you are, express why. If you aren't, change your expectations, or change yourself.




sweets1966 -> RE: Keeping the site clean of fakes (3/18/2013 4:02:54 AM)

I am sure your intentions are well meaning as I have taken the time to read many of your other posts. Your tone however came across as condescending and ... Pardon I am searching for a word and I need more coffee... Subjective.

Thank you for the time and effort. I needed confirmation and an honest opinion. I got one.

Perception is reality.




pompeii -> RE: Keeping the site clean of fakes (3/19/2013 4:32:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Wolf4lamb
Simply save the photo and to a Google image search


It's even easier.
Just right click on the profile photo and send it to your reverse image checker of choice (at least in Firefox).

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  • https://addons.mozilla.org/en-us/firefox/addon/googlesearch-by-image/
  • https://addons.mozilla.org/en-us/firefox/addon/who-stole-my-pictures/
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