I'am confused BDSM or LTR?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

I'am confused BDSM or LTR?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Switch >> I'am confused BDSM or LTR?

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 3/16/2013 2:13:26 PM

MysticBoy

Posts: 2
Joined: 3/11/2013
Status: offline

Hello all first let me introduce myself.I'am 23 years old boy switch 1,84 cm 70 kg good looking like a personality goodhearted,funny,dreamer,smart,honest,vain, and little freaky.I have a fantasy from some weeks but it is not in something a Pro Domme can do or I to trust her.And I'am absolutely sure they won't like it.Now I want to ask if someone has done this before and what is his/her opinion.
My arms and legs in chains with blindfold on my eyes to her bad naked.

I don't want to see her only to feel her touching,breath and voice.To hug me hard,bite me and to ride me as a horse.To order me when to stop or cum.Is this BDSM or LTR and is it something often?

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 3/16/2013 2:48:41 PM

LadyPact

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

It certainly isn't a Long Term Relationship.

I suppose you could consider it BDSM for the bondage factor. (Tied to the bed.)

Really though, to Me, it's kinky sex with some bondage and a blindfold thrown in. Basically, you want to be sexually serviced by somebody and since you're tied up, you really don't have to give anything in return.

(Not sure why that puts it in the Ask A Switch category, but that's another subject.)

Unless you have a pro in mind that engages in sexual intercourse for money, you are right that you're not going to find a pro to do it. You've got as much chance as the next guy walking up to a woman and asking her if she'd like to fuck you without knowing you or having a relationship with you.

Good luck with your sex scene.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to MysticBoy)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 3/16/2013 4:23:43 PM

DarkSteven

Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline

Dude, you live in Alabama. Why use metric?

That said, you are describing a simple bondage scene. LTR is Long Term Relationship, which may or may not include kink. BDSM is the entire kink spectrum. A scene within BDSM can include bondage but doesn't have to.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to LadyPact)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 3/16/2013 6:44:31 PM

MysticBoy

Posts: 2
Joined: 3/11/2013
Status: offline

LadyPact and DarkSteven thanks.DarkSteven we moved with my family to Alamaba from Serbia 3 weeks ago.

< Message edited by MysticBoy -- 3/16/2013 6:47:38 PM >

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 3/17/2013 6:59:37 AM

DarkSteven

Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline

Well, welcome to the US!

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to MysticBoy)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 4/4/2013 5:34:48 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

Posts: 2756
Joined: 11/4/2011
From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MysticBoy
I'am 23 years old boy switch 1,84 cm 70 kg

FYI, that's 6 feet & 1/2 inch and 154 lbs for those of us who aren't great with metric. I looked it up on Google.

And, yes, welcome to the U.S.

NBMG

_____________________________

I'm now SweetlySadistic1 on CollarSpace. NBMG is an old profile, please see my new one.

(in reply to MysticBoy)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: I'am confused BDSM or LTR? - 4/5/2013 12:17:15 AM

saundrakitty

Posts: 148
Joined: 9/11/2012
Status: offline

Welcome to CM and the US. Plus you will find a interesting and active BDSM community. But they are right tho- its not going to be easy to just jump into that kind of lite Bondage play right off the bat. I would leave that for later first and take the time to learn new things and attend the classes first. And by the way Welcome from another person from Alabama.

(in reply to NiceButMeanGirl)

Profile

Post #: 7