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Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/9/2004 6:12:49 PM   
LadySonelle


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From: Santa Fe NM
Status: offline 		My beloved slave k and I are having our 20th anniversary (wedding/collaring) in Las Vegas on Dec 1st (we will be staying at the Flamingo Hilton between Nov 29th and Dec 5th) and next year she turns 60 years old.

She has told Me that she feels that she is no longer young enough or strong enough physically, for BDSM play (other than mental, roleplat etc) and we have agreed upon something special... She will retire as My physical slave and acceed to the title (with capital letters) of First Servitor in which capacity she will become My assistant in scenes and will still be my beloved and collared slave, but no longer will she be physically played with.

Has anyone else experienced or known of such a situation? What sort of gift ought I to give her to mark her Accession to rank of First Servitor in My household? Is there some sort of precedent?

Since she is to become a non-playing slave to Me, I will be looking more actively for someone to do scenes with. I am in the Southwest (see My profile) and will be in Las Vegas with My beloved at the times mentioned above. If I could, I'd buy her a diamond collar! She is My life and My adored joy! While I shall not replace her I do want to boraden both out horizons.

Lady Sonelle
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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/9/2004 7:44:48 PM   
velvetvixen


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Status: offline 		I don't know about the protocol or precedent for this type of milestone. I am sure someone will have the appropriate answer for you.

I do agree with you that a very special gift is appropriate. I would think any piece of jewelry selected by You for the ocassion would be perfect. Why not do something with the 20 year anniversary item which is china traditionally but platinum within the last decade, I believe. Of course Your original thought of diamonds is never a bad choice.

Congratulations and much continued happiness,

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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/9/2004 8:16:11 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

My beloved slave k and I are having our 20th anniversary (wedding/collaring)


Congratulations Lady Sonelle and slave k!!

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She has told Me that she feels that she is no longer young enough or strong enough physically, for BDSM play (other than mental, roleplat etc) and we have agreed upon something special... She will retire as My physical slave


I realize this is a personal choice of hers and not knowing her physical limitations i can't really comment on it, and please don't take this as a criticism. I am 58 and Hubby is 61 and we feel like we are just getting started in this lifestyle. I can't imagine giving up the physical side for many years to come. We both have some joint problems but we work around them. I do wish we had discovered BDSM at a much younger age, but without the internet and both of us leading sheltered lives, it didn't happen.

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Has anyone else experienced or known of such a situation? What sort of gift ought I to give her to mark her Accession to rank of First Servitor in My household? Is there some sort of precedent?


How about a piece of BDSM jewelry with your names engraved on the back. Another thought is a special tatoo that signifies her position somehow.


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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/9/2004 9:27:32 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		In ancient times a slave rising to the rank of major domo or some similar position of trust and honor was quite common. In the modern context I am sure that it happens but I have known no such couple to have done so and therefore allow me to add my hearty congratulations to those already presented. There was once a jeweler who was involved in the bdsm lifestyle who had adapted islamic harem jewelry - which is essentially highly ornamental shackles - as an alternate to the traditional leather collars used by so many in the scene. Alas, I lost the link to her website years ago and have not been able to find it since. However, I should think that some simple ornament such as a collar, necklace, or bracelet which symbolises your feelings toward such a beloved partner will do quite nicely.

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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/9/2004 10:05:10 PM   
TaurusMCMLVIII


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Has anyone else experienced or known of such a situation? What sort of gift ought I to give her to mark her Accession to rank of First Servitor in My household? Is there some sort of precedent?

First, I know that I shouldn't respond being a dominant but sometimes I can't resist "sneeking" in the Dom perspective. Although I have not had a personal experience similar to yours, I would still advise you to make sure you get her a really, really good gift, i.e., expensive, thoughtful, fabulous. She sounds like a great partner and you are damn lucky to have her.

(Disclaimer: I do not know your partner and she did not pay me to post this opinion. LOL)

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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/10/2004 9:20:27 AM   
Destinysskeins


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Status: offline 		Greetings,

Perhaps choose something to symbolize the new existence and thereby her placement of the role First Servitor which is slave k's personal favorite? Hmm...ok, to clarify the jumbled thoughts spilling out of my head...

There has never been a First Servitor in Your Household before nor would there be such if slave k was not the precious treasure that she has been to You. Therefore i suggest incorporating some personal favorite of her's (whether that be a fav color, design, style, etc) as a sort of uniform or symbolism to depict this new Station. *shrugs* my feeling is that it would be a way to continually show that it was her devotion which made this possible for both of You (though don't get me wrong, it speaks volumes of Yourself that this relationship has evolved in the manner that it has as well!). Also, this theme might be continued as the years go by to commemorate the occassion as well.

Well wishes & Heartfelt Congrats!!

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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/13/2004 7:02:28 PM   
LadySonelle


Posts: 280
Joined: 8/24/2004
From: Santa Fe NM
Status: offline 		As I mentioned elsewhere, things change! She will accede to the position of First servitor, *and* will begin her new life as a ponygirl! She says that that aspect of play has always fascinated her and it will be easier on her, physically... she is to be a show pony which does not require lifting or heavy exercise... if we find a good *safe* cart, she may try being a coar pony again *with* either another pony in the hitch as well OR a lighter groom or Dom/me (or this will motivate Me to shed pounds! Always a good thing!) and on smooth surfaces.

When she was so ill a month ago with asthma I feared I might lose her altogether! But now she is back with zest! Yes. I will commemorate her accession to First Servitor and also My beloved Little Grey Mare!

Thank you all for your suggestions! I think I'm going to have a gorget crafted for her, or a special piece of pony tack!

I LOVE it when she surprises Me like this! :D

Lady Sonelle

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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/16/2004 3:52:22 PM   
XXXPlayfulXXX


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Status: offline 		Diamonds are Foreever, A Nice Setting with appropriate words on the ring, or a diamond choker, nothing makes a woman smile brighter than something she can show off especially when it is nice and shiny.

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RE: Retirement / Accession of Beloved Slave - 11/17/2004 12:10:59 AM   
LadySonelle


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Joined: 8/24/2004
From: Santa Fe NM
Status: offline 		After a bit of prodding, she has told Me what she wants. A wide plain gold wedding band!

What she wants, that she will have! In Las Vegas, we will find a good jeweler and she shall have the very nicest ring we can afford.

Lady Sonelle

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