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Introducing Femdom to a Vanilla Partner - 6/22/2006 9:42:16 AM

yournicholas

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I suppose that is ironic that I have been so aware of my submission (both its nature and its intensity) for such a very long time, yet I have never had the courage to discuss it with my wife.

I have seen all the websites devoted to wife-led relatoinships (www.aroundherfinger.com probably being the most popular, but also Lady Misastos RWDDH site and Elise Sutton's female superiority site), and while I get a lot out of these sites, I still find myself unwilling to pull the trigger. I guess I still think that my wife is different, that somehow she will just see this desire to submit to her as a weakness, as opposed to the expression of love that I know it to be.

Would anyone care to share their own experience? Are there other men out there that shared their submission with wives that they believed were completely vanilla? How did it go? Any positive or negative experiences would be welcome.

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RE: Introducing Femdom to a Vanilla Partner - 6/22/2006 10:49:07 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_89314/mpage_1/key_vanilla%252Cwife/tm.htm#89314
introducing your vanilla partner

http://www.collarchat.com/m_69381/mpage_1/key_vanilla%252Cwife/tm.htm#69381
how to introduce power exchange to vanilla spouse?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_221509/mpage_1/key_vanilla%252Cwife/tm.htm#221509
vanilla so and the lifestyle

http://www.collarchat.com/m_180804/mpage_1/key_vanilla%252Cwife/tm.htm#180804
how do you convert a vanilla?

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RE: Introducing Femdom to a Vanilla Partner - 6/22/2006 11:13:33 AM

MasterDyke

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Check out all the web links LuckyAlatross gave you...They all look Great...
Everyone is Diffrent

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RE: Introducing Femdom to a Vanilla Partner - 6/25/2006 12:00:32 AM

MistressDREAD

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Dammn but Your a sexie pot Dyke!!
I could handle a hug from those arms and Im basically a straight and narrow kinda Gal.

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I guess I still think that my wife is different, that somehow she will just see this desire to submit to her as a weakness, as opposed to the expression of love that I know it to be.

have you ever heard the saying that all men want their wifes to NEVER change and all wifes want their men to all change to what THEY want them to be. I think this saying applies to your thoughts OP but in a *flipped* application.

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RE: Introducing Femdom to a Vanilla Partner - 6/29/2006 12:28:27 AM

NCplayPARTY

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Thank You Ma'am...I love your hair
< wink >

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