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MHOO314 -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/22/2006 7:43:32 PM)

If the Doninant is exactly what you need, then they will understand that you are a poor student and would think no more of asking you for money than flying to the moon---its called a tribute and 99% of the time its a scam--- use some of that book learning and make a wise decision---don't walk---Run--and if you refuse to heed the advice here---ce la vie.




BuxomGoddess714 -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/23/2006 4:49:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F

What attracted me was the potential note of sincerity in the message. It was very long and detailed and the persons reasons for wanting to make this exchange seemed to be based on building trust and committment more than anything else, and thats what made it a difficult decision. Thank you all for your words of advice. it has helped me a lot.


Honey, con men always sound sincere and they play on your needs and desires to get what they are after.  Their long and detailed letters (I found out the hard way) are sometimes one time compositions that are cut and pasted, or memorized "lines" that are said over and over again without meaning to people they feel nothing for.  Things I thought were precious heartfelt meaningful feelings, I have seen with my own eyes repeated over and over again verbatim to strangers who had nothing in common with me.  People who want to use you will stop at nothing to manipulate your feelings and its sad and disgusting.  They can be very convincing to an honest soul who has no agenda, but its all an act.  I looked at your profile...  you, my pet, dont need to offer anyone anything except yourself, and be very careful who you give of yourself to, you are precious.  Hold out for someone true and real.  These decievers will only give you momentary pleasure, and a lifetime of heartache.  They are like heroin; don't even get started with one.

Be blessed,
Goddess





Evanesce -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/23/2006 7:15:19 PM)

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my Eyes Are One Hundred Per Cent Open Now! i am sure that without absolute sincerity from this person, i will send nothing. i have read with interest all of these posts and i have had my suspicions reinforced.


I'm glad you've taken the advice offered to you to heart.  I can't add much of anything to what's already been said, but this individual was looking at you as a financial transaction, not a partner, and you can probably get better quality for less money at your local adult bookstore.
 
I hope you find what you're seeking, and keep paying attention to your instincts.  They were spot on with this one.




jonathan -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/25/2006 8:40:11 AM)

Yes, run away as far and as fast as you can. This person is a complete fake.




aellea -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/25/2006 8:52:57 AM)

oh just open the window and throw the requested amount of money out for someone else to enjoy... it's about the same here.  sheesh




feastie -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/25/2006 11:32:21 AM)

Send you a picture in exchange for cash?  Ok, this is really simple...

If a stranger tells you to send him/her cash, cc number, check, some type of payment for anything, walk away.




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/26/2006 5:10:29 PM)

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CuteIrish...Just stick around the boards.  You will learn, and things will get easier. 
No, you shouldn't send money. Not even in exchange for photos.  I do not ever contact a boy in the first place.  This basically sounds like a busines offer, and she is simply trolling for buyers.  You might get the pictures, but that is all you will probably get.  You seem like a smart fellow.  She sounds like she has a smart marketing line. 
'nuf said.




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Initial Contact by a Dominant (6/26/2006 5:14:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littlesubjess

interestingly, i have been approached ina  different way ....

although i am sub, myself, i have received an email from another sub saying he wants me to humiliate him by taking his money off him and laughing at him. and make him do embarassing things etc. i told him i wouldnt go unless i could bring my Owners with me. he told me he would pay £3000 ($5340 roughly) for us three to do that to him, but he wants no sexual contact, just pure humiliation.

Is this genuine ? cos £3000 is a lot of money that would fund a nice holiday. im scared that theres a catch though and that i may be opening myself up to something that could be, potentially, very dangerous .... anyone got any ideas ?

jess xxx




littlesubjess,
I could be very genuine.  And as long as your Dominant is also welcome and you are in a safe situation, there is no real reason not to consider this, unless the idea of it is distasteful to you.  You have been approached with an offer for some specific Professional Humiliation.
You should probably see about checking the potential client out a bit, and then make a decision from there.  Just be sure to have a good handle on his expectations in the humilation department.  There are wealthy people who are willing to pay for this, and it might be a lot of fun for you as well as fund that holiday.
 




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