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txpet -> Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 12:53:04 PM)

Ok, so y'all have heard the story a million times ... just make this a million and one for you then ...

It seems to me that if people want to even "play" at the lifestyle that there should be some rules that they should learn. Hmm, well, actually it seems to me that if soemone wants to "play" at interaction with other humans they should learn some of those things too ... like manners.
i don't think i am being rude when i explain the rules Master has for me about sharing pictures. Being told "aw, c'mon" does not inspire me to want to share those pictures. i tried to be polite and explain that i won't break Master's rules. When the person is upset about that and sends an email insulting Master, i was rather surprised.
OK, so maybe i shouldn't have been surprised.
i typed a single question and merely asked if the person understood anything about the lifestyle. When i hit send, i found that i was blocked.

i am actually finding it all rather amusing.
Is there really any legitimate reson that the people don't jsut cruise porn sites for pictures?
Amatuer porn sites are free and have a large variety of women pictured.

Just wanted to talk .. thank You for listening.

::smile::



LaTigresse -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 12:58:49 PM)

My personal opinion is that they gain some sort of power thrill from it. Like AH HA!! I got her to show me her (fill in the blank) when she said she wouldn't. Maybe it makes them feel special orrrrr, they are the ones that use those photo's to pretend to be women and lure women like me in, I don't know. But I like sending them something like.....a picture a friend of mine once had of a 400#+ naked guy sitting at his computer, orrrrrr another a graphic artist once made on photo shop by compiling a very curvy woman in a bikini with one of the female "ape" people from the movie Planet of the Apes. If they get pissy, hey they asked for a photo!!!! It was my choice exactly WHAT photo to send!



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:03:39 PM)

Never expect anyone online to have any sense of manners or social grace.

Be happily surprised when they do.



txpet -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:13:42 PM)

Ah! That's a great idea!
Next time maybe i'll send the picture i have of a padlock ::giggle::



txpet -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:16:04 PM)

True, true ... good advice.

i've met a lot of people here ... this is the first one that sent me an actual insult and blocked me. i guess that was why i was surprised.

It's all an interesting learning experience ::SMILE::



mnottertail -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:20:49 PM)

Now, I get alot of people that ping my profile.  Many women do not have pics on their profiles, and I can understand why.  Not too many back and forth chats even if we both establish we are not going to get together.  Don't matter.......I ask for pics.  Never the nudity ones.  Sometimes I get goodies and sometimes I don't, but I wanna see who I am talking too.

Even if they claim to be these lovely women who write me and tell me what a funny asshole I am and they are really 52 year old men that look like me.

Many womens profiles absolutely demand you send a pic on a note so they can ignore both.

Not everybody does it for tittie shots.

So.......having said that......anyone want to send me a tittie shot?

C'MON YOU GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL    



adommeforu -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:32:48 PM)

Manners fail those who do not get their way, not just regarding photos. When you are seeking a partner, and you are so tired of the wasters, and yet you still consider it polite to respond, to be insulted because you have rejected someone, is the icing on the cake for me. Then I have learned the joy of the "block" key.
Keep your standards when others have lost theirs and it will make you a better person. Don't let the bastards grind you down.



txpet -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:43:51 PM)

::SMILE::
Well, there is a pic on my profile and this person did specifically ask for tits and ass pics.
Maybe if i hadn't have explained what Master's rules were ... as it was, i just expected this person to go away not return with an insult.



txpet -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:46:09 PM)

Thank you.
Yes, manners and doing what is what you think is right are the most important things.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:48:51 PM)

quote:

So.......having said that......anyone want to send me a tittie shot?


Check your mail...



mox -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 1:54:41 PM)

Porn sites don't give the interaction and hope. They probally feel that you are more in reach then porn stars.

I'm glad those type of people ask for pics, gives you a very easy way to identify them.

-Mox



Arpig -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:16:45 PM)

I am with Ron on this. I like to have a face to attach to the people I am talking with.



iliv2servher -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:27:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: txpet

Is there really any legitimate reson that the people don't jsut cruise porn sites for pictures?  Amatuer porn sites are free and have a large variety of women pictured.



Not when they can harass a real person by trying to intimidate them into sending very private photos.

I'm glad you find it amusing, because most people don't know how to laugh at the absurd.

-iliv2



RavenMuse -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:30:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig
I am with Ron on this. I like to have a face to attach to the people I am talking with.


Ditto. If I want to see anything else it can wait till I'm going to be able to just look at it!



perverseangelic -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:37:08 PM)

Meh. I get exactly the same thing about pictures and webcams. Considering I have a -ton- of pictures on my profile, I point 'em there, and leave it at that.

If they harrass me, I tell them I'd appreciate it if they'd respect my Owner's rules, and if they want to "verify" I am who I say I am, we can meet for coffee tomorrow.



zumala -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:39:39 PM)

In a similar vein...  I received a note today on the other side that simply called me 'sweetie' and then proceeded to ask if I could orgasm in various ways.  I replied with a simple query as to if he addressed all strangers that way.  I then received a reply saying that this type of website seemed intended for such conversation, and he apologized if I had been offended.
 
So maybe crude behavior is perceived to be appropriate for a 'sex website' as this seems to be viewed.  Personally, I don't see it as just a 'sex site'.  If I did, I wouldn't be here.
 
zuma



GeorgiaBelle -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:46:49 PM)

My problem with the whole pic thing is when you send them three or four and they keep asking for more and when you ask for theirs, they never have any on "this computer", or they "just reformatted". I even had one Dom ask me if I thought it was submissive of me to ask for a pic in return. Then yes of course there is the nudie thing they seem to think it is their right to demand those too. <sigh>



peterK50 -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 2:55:39 PM)

Not surprisingly, no one begs for my pic



michaelGA2 -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 3:09:55 PM)

This topic makes me wonder if the beggers are on their knees when the beg for pics.

LOL



NikoB -> RE: Begging for pics? (6/22/2006 3:24:43 PM)

Sorry, just got this horrible image of people on sidewalks with laptops begging people that walk past to transfer pics...

Very disturbing...



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