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Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/22/2006 3:52:40 PM

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Is it common for a Mistress to contact a sub (who states in her profile that she is only looking for Doms) and try and help her find a Dom? Is this weird, or was she just trying to help....Seems strange to me.

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/22/2006 3:59:47 PM

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I don't know whether it is strange or common but i do know i have had several Mistresses contact me with requests from Dom friends of theirs that arent registered on collar me. I havent followed any of them up though. Also had Mistresses asking if i would not consider taking a Mistress rather than a Master. Dont think this answer really helps you but at least you know you are not only one.

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/22/2006 4:07:54 PM

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I had a weird email like that, too. I assumed that it was likely a HNG trying to engage me in some hot email. "If you tell me what you like, I can match you with a man. Be specific.", "What's your dirtiest fantasy?", or "Oh, I have this dom in mind...he'd like to know about your bi experiences first...oh, and do you squirt?"

I just ignored it. Why would a domme take up her valuable time helping strangers who haven't even asked for her help? I'm not naive.

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/22/2006 4:18:30 PM

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We have helped servants who came to train with us on a temporary basis to vette potential owners when they were ready to go on, but never someone we didn't know already.

My first instinct says HNG in mistress clothing.

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/22/2006 4:27:36 PM

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Dear cuddleheart50, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I am of a time where it was bad form to contact slaves but, being that I'm as old as Moses, who is over the hill I'm under, I would know what that particular dominant was attempting.

However, as sweet as you are lass; I would enjoy joining the eyes and ears, that might find a gentleman to recommend as a possible prospect. Only thing though, you have to take it from the point of introduction and make sure they are right for you.

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/24/2006 11:50:39 PM

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~Waves at Hugs in the hillside visioning Her boufont full of dirt holding onto that staff of Moses for dear life.............~ anyhoo, see what such words can invoke in My weird mind Hugs!!
What many times Ive found online in the World Wide Web of things is there are many Men who play Woman and Woman who play Men and many times you feel you are speaking to more then one person when in all actuality it is just one person in all their personnas. Now I agree with Hugs in the protical thats mentioned as I too come from that time when such things were practiced and still actively practice such things My self but it is far and wide and long inbetween that I come across those such as Us who practice thus here online as opposed to the real world. And as Bladewing I to assist any who I teach in their search for an Owner or a slave once assimulated.........hehehehehehe

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/24/2006 11:53:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful

Why would a domme take up her valuable time helping strangers who haven't even asked for her help? I'm not naive.

And, personally, I wouldn't be that altruistic. lol

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/25/2006 10:02:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

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Why would a domme take up her valuable time helping strangers who haven't even asked for her help? I'm not naive.

And, personally, I wouldn't be that altruistic. lol

Yeah… like I don’t have enough on my plate in life that I’m going to take the time to start messaging strangers and trying to play cupid for them. Call me selfish, but I tend to concentrate on my own love life and let strangers do the same.

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RE: Mistress Contacting Sub. - 6/25/2006 10:05:42 AM

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That depends on the situation.... if she *knows* of a Dom who is looking for someone and your profile seems to fit, yeah, that'd be cool. If, on the other hand, she wants to help you in your search... that's just kind of weird IMHO.

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Is it common for a Mistress to contact a sub (who states in her profile that she is only looking for Doms) and try and help her find a Dom? Is this weird, or was she just trying to help....Seems strange to me.

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