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masterandmilky -> what is wrong with this? (3/23/2013 5:07:02 PM)
master hooked up with another woman and told her: I am looking for a woman to share with milky...... do you get the impression he is looking for himself first and then me?

lizi -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/23/2013 5:10:50 PM)
Hard to say from what you have written. Seems to me like YOU think he's looking for himself first, why not ask him what's up?

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/23/2013 5:29:53 PM)
Well...you need to look at the dynamic that you two have agreed on...many will tell you that, as master, it is his right to do so. If you two have that type of interaction, then you must decide if he has changed or if you did. And there is no shame in that--many of us get into a relationship & change what we are looking for. I you feel he is no longer concerned with your safety and happiness then you need to move on

stef -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/23/2013 5:48:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterandmilky do you get the impression he is looking for himself first and then me? This sounds like a *wonderful* question for you to ask him. No one here is a psychic.

LafayetteLady -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/23/2013 10:08:23 PM)
Well, let's see....your profile says that you meet ONLY as a couple, and he is meeting women without you. Do you really not know the answer to this question? By the way, badmouthing users in your journal is against the TOS. But no worries, I reported the entry for you, so the mods will take care of it.

Kana -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/24/2013 6:39:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masterandmilky master hooked up with another woman and told her: I am looking for a woman to share with milky...... do you get the impression he is looking for himself first and then me? And if he is looking out for himself first, what's so wrong with that? I mean, hey, aren't his needs/wants/desires supposed to come first? Isn't that kinda the whole point of BDSM? WTF? And if you really wanna know, my very first impression is, "Why should I care?"

slaveboihere -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/24/2013 8:09:20 AM)
Erm - well, your profile says he's looking for another woman to share with you.......not sure if that means he or you are the one getting her! You've got a nice bod for your age, although personally I can't see other women being attracted by your profile pics. guys yes; women no. At his age, maybe the randy old goat should concentrate on satisfying the one he's got! Unless the other gal is intended for you; in which case its going to take a far better profile to catch one of those. And different pics. Evening dress; tight jeans; and one of the guy in the background - they will want to see him too. Ahem; nice tits tho.........

theshytype -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/25/2013 8:26:25 AM)
My guess would be yes. If you're searching as a couple, I would think you meet as a couple. But, I don't know the dynamic you have and agree that this question would be best posed to him.

LPslittleclip -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/25/2013 4:42:30 PM)
you are a part of the dynamic if you are uncertain the discuss it with him none of us will know his answer

kalikshama -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/25/2013 7:09:33 PM)
quote: I can't see other women being attracted by your profile pics. guys yes; women no. This bisexual woman agrees that you should rethink the pictures. And stick to meeting as a couple as you state in your profile.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: what is wrong with this? (3/26/2013 8:10:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady Well, let's see....your profile says that you meet ONLY as a couple, and he is meeting women without you. Do you really not know the answer to this question? No shit! NBMG

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