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Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 12:43:04 PM   
deka1970


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Status: offline 		How can I focus my mind to stop making silly little mistakes
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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 12:54:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mistakes are normal.

Usually, re-doing and forming a habit will minimize mistakes....depending on what those mistakes are.

Honestly, you asked such a broad question that no one will be able to give you the absolute correct answer.

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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 3:07:52 PM   
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How can I focus my mind to stop making silly little mistakes



My guess is that either they are not silly to you...or perhaps they are not silly to your dominant partner?

Since you aren't being clear what your issue is, those of us reading don't know if these mistakes are the result of simply being human, nervousness or the result of inattention or... something else.

If you were to provide us with specific examples then we might be able to give you more specific advice.

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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 6:25:26 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		just do what he tells you? If he's not clear or you're unsure, talk to each other.

I'm also going to assume you're very young. If so then growing up with life experience will change that problem pretty quickly

If you're not young, then you should already know how to do this and I've just wasted typing.


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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 6:27:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		If this is a lifelong problem, then I suggest testing for ADD/ADHD and if diagnosed for it, seeking treatment. Both behavioral as well as medication.

If it's just because stuff is new to you, then you folks need to realize that it takes a full month to form a new habit if you do it that way every single time.

If you only meet him once a week and for six days you do things differently, yet he expects you to magically be different with him, then his expectations are unrealistic. Because it will take closer to a year to remember to do stuff differently than normal on the rare occasions you're with him.

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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 6:49:27 PM   
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It works for me.

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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/26/2013 9:36:48 PM   
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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/27/2013 7:08:34 AM   
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What do you do to stop making silly mistakes at work?

Do the same thing at home.

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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/28/2013 6:43:58 AM   
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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/28/2013 5:36:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: myotherself

You're 42 years old.

What do you do to stop making silly mistakes at work?

Do the same thing at home.



Mos; if it is ADD/ADHD then this is unfair. People with this disorder, if it's not too severe, can hold it together for a few hours in the day but don't have the ability to do so 24/7. Usually they do come home and it all falls apart because they're out of the enormous amount of energy it takes to handle it without medication.

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RE: Silly mistakes - 3/30/2013 4:02:16 PM   
itsapixie


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Your question is reeeaaally broad, and I see you haven't come back to expand on it.

What sort of mistakes are you making exactly? Is this bdsm related, sex related, work/everyday life related??

Are you not doing things correctly or are you missing the ball completely?? Are you really making mistakes or is someone just not satisfied with the way you are/the way you do things??

Anyways, lists are extremely helpful for me. Setting alarms for tasks on my cell phone has saved me from having a red rump more than once also.

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