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Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/27/2013 7:09:34 PM   
lovers4subxgirl


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Status: offline 		Just curious, there are a few good dating sites out there. The majority may not cater to just alternative lifestyle. We were just wondering, other than collarme, what others you have used, or using at the moment, that are FREE and actually good or ok??

If you want to just pm me that would be good. thanks for the help!
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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/27/2013 7:46:53 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


Posts: 2756
Joined: 11/4/2011
From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
Status: offline 		Besides CM, I'm on www.Fetlife.com and www.OKCupid.com. OKC is not specifically for kinksters but I've found, if I put certain buzzwords in my profile that other kinksters would know, I can get some good results now and then.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/27/2013 8:46:13 PM   
LillyBoPeep


Posts: 6873
Joined: 12/29/2010
Status: offline 		I've tried okcupid and match i think, but i've never had much luck with dating anyway. I'm not too excited about trying to explain to vanilla folks, though.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/27/2013 8:53:27 PM   
Spiritedsub2


Posts: 3316
Joined: 7/18/2012
Status: offline 		I tried OKCupid briefly, but my heart wasn't in it and I closed the profile down after a short time. My number one match that came up on there after I answered a whack of those questions they give you is a very vocal and visible poster on the CM forums, which made me feel a bit like I was spinning in circles!

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 5:14:10 AM   
Pyramus


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Joined: 5/14/2010
Status: offline 		I think these are the top four D/s "social" sites (three of which have been mentioned already), collarme, alt, fetlife, & bondage.com

Googling, I was astounded at the number of hits just now for D/s forums (these were just a few of the hits)
http://www.smplace.com/forum/
http://www.bdsmforum.info/
http://www.bdsmpassions.com/
http://www.bondagecompanion.com/bondage-forum/
http://www.planetsuzy.org/f153-bondage-bdsm.html
http://mydungeonspace.com/index2.php
http://www.rapeboard.com/forumdisplay.php?f=14

And, these appeared to be the best D/s erotica sites:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=306646


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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 5:16:50 AM   
Pyramus


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus
http://mydungeonspace.com/index2.php


For some reason, the forum has this link disallowed, so I'll break it up for you:
hotpotato my dungeonspace dot com slash index2.php

Note: I'm not sure why that one was singled out by the automated censors.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 5:40:07 AM   
subinsilicon


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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 6:24:59 AM   
Charles6682


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From: Saint Pete,FL
Status: offline 		I also use Fetlife myself.As for vanilla sites, www.PlentyofFish.com is a free dating site.

< Message edited by Charles6682 -- 3/28/2013 6:25:16 AM >

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 11:02:04 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		I've met some talented sadists here on CM but more relationship-minded men on OKCupid, which has fetish-friendly questions and quizzes. See http://www.okcupid.com/profile/FetlifeOKC/questions

I was completely Out on OKC. I say "was" because I have met someone and disabled my profile. I almost didn't meet him because his profile was completely in the closet about being kinky and he was evading my questions because he didn't want to discuss kink in writing before he met me.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 1:18:05 PM   
pompeii


Posts: 934
Joined: 1/4/2007
From: Silicon Valley, San Jose, California
Status: offline 		For the findommes, there is always a sugar daddy 'free dating' site.

http://www.sugardaddyfinder.com/sugar-daddy-sites
http://wealthy-dating-websites.no1reviews.com/sugar-daddy-dating-websites.html
http://sugardaddie.com/best_dating_site.htm
etc.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 5:24:23 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		The op is actually part of a couple looking for a unicorn. And that changes everything.

Single women don't usually want to be the third in the relationship. So no online dating site is going to be geared towards you.
Your best bet is for the two of you to go to munches together and make friends with single women. Ask them out on dates, both as a couple and one on one.

But expect it to take years to find the perfect someone that both of you will fall in love with.

If you just want another female body in the bed for the night, hire an escort.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 5:55:44 PM   
LookieNoNookie


Posts: 12216
Joined: 8/9/2008
Status: offline 		If you're a chic, I've found the BEST site around is....www.IwannaDateLookieNoNookie.com


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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 7:22:21 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		None now.

When I was single: bondage.com, here, match.com, americansingles, plentyoffish.

Those are what I can think of off the top of my head. I'm sure there were plenty of others that just don't come to my mind right now.

ETA: Oh, the sugardaddie comment reminded me of two more:

sugardaddy.com and a sight that was for millionaires seeking a partner. I can't remember the name of it anymore.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 3/28/2013 7:23:35 PM >

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/28/2013 8:00:05 PM   
tsatske


Posts: 2037
Joined: 3/9/2007
From: Louisville, KY
Status: offline 		It's been mentioned several times, but I like OKCupid. There are about 3000 questions, and you can view them, or narrow them by - important to me, important to them, we disagree, ect, and it gives a percentage of match. I like it.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/29/2013 3:08:21 AM   
descrite


Posts: 459
Joined: 5/14/2012
Status: offline 		Found partners and unicorns on FL and OKC. So far, nothing here.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/29/2013 9:17:42 AM   
Snitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

The op is actually part of a couple looking for a unicorn.


What does that mean?

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/29/2013 9:28:50 AM   
Hillwilliam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Snitch


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

The op is actually part of a couple looking for a unicorn.


What does that mean?

Around here, "unicorn" is slang for a cute, young bisexual submissive woman who is willing to move in with a couple.
They're called that because they are so rare as to be of almost mythical status.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/29/2013 10:53:59 AM   
Thaz


Posts: 617
Joined: 4/28/2012
Status: offline 		POF and OK Cupid have found me friends and play partners, as has here and Fetlife

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/29/2013 11:00:13 AM   
freedomdwarf1


Posts: 6845
Joined: 10/23/2012
Status: offline 		~FR~

I have used PoF in the past with great success and it's completely free.

I have also used AFF (AdultFriendFinder.com and various other portals like Passion.com) to find many play partners.
Although it's a pay site, you can use the IMC to chat with people and there are many group chatrooms for free.

I didn't like OKC at all and I can't get Fet to work here so can't comment on those.

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RE: Other Dating sites you use?? FREE ONLY - 3/29/2013 12:16:21 PM   
ResidentSadist


Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline 		. . . what others you have used?
Over the years, I have used them all (including pay sites) except eHarmony. eHarmony rejected me . . . they said they would be unable to find a match and refused to take my money or issue a membership.

. . . using at the moment?
CollarMe.com (forums and meeting new people)
FetLife.com (social networking and finding old friends)

. . . that are FREE and actually good or ok?
I have met lovers and found a few LTR partners (years not months) on several sites including my current partner whom I met on CollarMe. Bondage.com, Alt.com and even AOL.com was cool back when dinosaurs roamed, they had a Le Chateau chatroom and I ran the lechateau.com web site. But not anymore.

To be honest, you may hear about several upstart BDSM sites but they just don't have the traffic CollarMe & FetLife do. Might be run by the best people and software but there won't be a membership base. CollarMe gets 200,000 unique new vistors every month. 1 in every 5,000 North American internet users visit collarme.com daily. 1 in every 22,155 global internet users visit collarme.com daily. FetLife's stats are even a bit higher.

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