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Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 1:14:05 AM   
softcandy


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Hi there, I'm Samantha, Sammi or Whatever just fits your mood is fine with me ;p hehe. I was wondering, My first master died. It's kinda a long story but in short he had this gorgeous long hair. I mean I was attracted to long hair since forever but is that weird if I'm just not really attracted to anyone with short hair?
Thank you so so much!!
<3 \m/
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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 1:28:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, it's not strange.  You have a preference and you like what you like.  It's the same as liking blondes or someone tall, or blue eyes. 

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 1:35:41 AM   
softcandy


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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 1:41:53 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		No, it's not weird. I happen to like long hair on guys, Myself. If I really pushed the definition, it's as close as I come to a fetish.

I tend to see long hair on male D-types more often than I do male s-types, so you've got better chances than I do.


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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 1:42:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		we like what we like because we like it.... no need to think its weird... I only have trouble when people are rude or nasty to those they dont find appealing.(too skinny, too fat, ugly, etc.)

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 2:30:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like women who like to be spanked. Which preference looks weirder to a vanilla?

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 2:32:29 AM   
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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 2:58:20 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		Not weird at all. Probably somewhere in your sub-conscious long hair is associated pleasure, safety, love.. We all have our preferences. Don't worry, it balances...I only am attracted to short-hair (it is one reason I like career military men..), you like the long hair men...everyone is happy

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 8:32:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Not weird at all. Probably somewhere in your sub-conscious long hair is associated pleasure, safety, love.. We all have our preferences. Don't worry, it balances...I only am attracted to short-hair (it is one reason I like career military men..), you like the long hair men...everyone is happy


I'm going to second this. But, I'm also going to warn you that you should make sure that you're not making your new partner compete with your deceased partner.


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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 8:56:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Not weird at all. Probably somewhere in your sub-conscious long hair is associated pleasure, safety, love.. We all have our preferences. Don't worry, it balances...I only am attracted to short-hair (it is one reason I like career military men..), you like the long hair men...everyone is happy


I'm going to second this. But, I'm also going to warn you that you should make sure that you're not making your new partner compete with your deceased partner.



Really good point from Oside. OP - If you just think guys with long hair are hot, then go with it. We all have our tastes. But if you think you are looking for a copy of your late Master it's time to take some time out to take care of your feelings. Your profile says you are 18. That's a very young age to be dealing with something as life-changing as losing your partner. I assume that because you are 18, this must have happened very recently too. Don't be afraid to seek help to make sense of your loss before getting involved in another relationship.

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 9:52:51 AM   
Greta75


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Status: offline 		I love men with long hair, it's one of my biggest weakness.
That's why I love metalheads, airheadedly gorgeous, that hair melts me.

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 10:32:52 AM   
softcandy


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Status: offline 		Ohh well I listen to Death, black, prog...yes major weaknesss haha :p

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 10:59:43 AM   
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I assume that because you are 18, this must have happened very recently too.


According to her profile her Master died 2 years ago. 

I'm sorry, softcandy.  I don't get your profile at all.  How can an 18 year old be so expert as so many things?  At your age how can you have a Phd in philosophy, physics, chemistry, and psychology plus be an expert at so many physical activities to boot?  When did you have time to for snorkeling, skate boarding, scuba diving, gynmnastics, dance, horses, and aerobics, and running while you were studying so hard at all the academic expertise that you have? 

It would have taken me several lifetimes to be an expert to only a fraction of the activities you claim expertise.  Are you really an 18 year old female whose master died 2 years ago?

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Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 11:02:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's not strange, we all have different things that attract us. My last M died also and he also had gorgeous long hair. =P so i can relate in a couple of ways i guess.
i am attracted to some shorthaired and/or clean cut guys, but I do have a soft spoy for long hair, and i had that before the Fella passed away. Nothing weird about it at all.

PS - sorry for your loss by the way...

< Message edited by LillyBoPeep -- 3/28/2013 11:03:16 AM >

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 3:33:26 PM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		peppermint, It's true, she didn't say she had any degrees. I take it that anyones, of any age, of either stripe, whose an expert in that much is probably just a little concieted.

I'm sorry for some of the things that have happened to you, softcany, but I have to tell you, your profile wll get deleted if you talk about your Master of 2 years ago and list your age as 18.It's against TOS

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 4:44:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		softcandy, while your primary photo is lovely, I found it far too difficult and stressful to read the black on dark brick background red to read. I gave up half way through.

Good luck!

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/28/2013 7:33:42 PM   
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RE: Is this weird? - 3/29/2013 2:01:14 PM   
Kana


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It's a sad sad world out there.
Cold, too.

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/29/2013 6:30:43 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: softcandy



Hi there, I'm Samantha, Sammi or Whatever just fits your mood is fine with me ;p hehe. I was wondering, My first master died. It's kinda a long story but in short he had this gorgeous long hair. I mean I was attracted to long hair since forever but is that weird if I'm just not really attracted to anyone with short hair?
Thank you so so much!!
<3 \m/


(I'm thinking you had a question?)

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RE: Is this weird? - 3/29/2013 6:47:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: softcandy



Hi there, I'm Samantha, Sammi or Whatever just fits your mood is fine with me ;p hehe. I was wondering, My first master died. It's kinda a long story but in short he had this gorgeous long hair. I mean I was attracted to long hair since forever but is that weird if I'm just not really attracted to anyone with short hair?
Thank you so so much!!
<3 \m/


(I'm thinking you had a question?)


There's her question, Nook.

OP, no it isn't weird. I enjoy the longhairs myself.

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