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peterK50 -> Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 5:33:30 AM)

Sirs...If A Master Says He Is Straight But Then Uses A Male Slave for Oral Sex, Is He Actually Bi Or Merely Using Property?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 5:53:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peterK50

Sirs...If A Master Says He Is Straight But Then Uses A Male Slave for Oral Sex, Is He Actually Bi Or Merely Using Property?

Depends on why he's doing it.  If he's doing it just to use the property, then it doesn't matter whether he's using a dildo or a person.  If he's doing it because he's attracted to and wants a male to do the job, then likely there's some bisexuality in the orientation.

The act itself tells you nothing.




stef -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 6:46:49 AM)

Why does it matter?

~stef




sissysuzee -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 7:01:40 AM)

As a submissive sissymaid I have served a few Dominant couples where the man was straight and liked to be serviced by a sissygirl like me.  I think such an arrangement avoided the colateral issues that a couple may face with a female submissive.  In addition, I feel the couple enjoyed my fetish outfits.  Of course, it's always nice to have a sweet French Maid in the household.
Submissively,
sissymaid suzee




Wildfleurs -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 8:14:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peterK50

Sirs...If A Master Says He Is Straight But Then Uses A Male Slave for Oral Sex, Is He Actually Bi Or Merely Using Property?


Definitely bisexual

C~




PlayfulOne -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 10:04:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

Why does it matter?

~stef


Exactly




Lashra -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 11:54:34 AM)

Bisexuality: in human sexuality, sexual interest in and attraction to members of one's own and the opposite sex. A bisexual is thus a person with both heterosexual and homosexual desires

So sayeth the Encyclopedia Brittanica

~Lashra




Tamerofwild1s -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 12:04:58 PM)

recently I posed this very question to a few people that I converse with regularly . my question was more along the lines of can a Male Master have a gay male serve him without being gay or bi himself ... I was told as long as no sexual transactions happen then yes . as long as the dynamics are understtod right from jump street . so I think in my opinion . if a straight Male has a male sub serve him orally then yes he is Bi or has bi-sexual tendencies
 
BUT . thats just MHO




MasterBuckeye -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 5:39:55 PM)

 


quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

recently I posed this very question to a few people that I converse with regularly . my question was more along the lines of can a Male Master have a gay male serve him without being gay or bi himself ... I was told as long as no sexual transactions happen then yes . as long as the dynamics are understtod right from jump street . so I think in my opinion . if a straight Male has a male sub serve him orally then yes he is Bi or has bi-sexual tendencies
 
BUT . thats just MHO



I have to agree, as a Male Master, I do NOT engage in Anal Penetration, but I do consider myself Bi, because I honestly believe that Men can service orally better than any woman.   




LokisBrat -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 8:34:41 PM)

I find this a rather interesting question because it raises so many other questions. 

1) In such an accepting alternative lifestyle group as CM, what does it matter what ones sexual preference is?
2) Why is it that males accept and find bisexual women to be "hot", but cannot give the same consideration for male bisexuality?
3) Why is it that we always want to put a label or classification on people or thier kinks?
4) Is not experimentation the key factor in deciding what we like or don't like?

I will add this:  Who else but the same sex would know more ways of pleasing someone orally?

LOKI




FangsNfeet -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 10:23:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peterK50

Sirs...If A Master Says He Is Straight But Then Uses A Male Slave for Oral Sex, Is He Actually Bi Or Merely Using Property?


I'd say he's just bi curious and merely testing your and mabye his limits. However, he may be closing his eyes and pretending you to be someone else.




TolerableCruelty -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 11:05:49 PM)

To Me curious would be asking Myself..." hmm, I wonder what it would be like for a dude to blow Me"....

If I actually had the guy blow Me... that kind of oversteps the curious boundary in My book.

Anyone ever hear the story of the bridgebuilder ?

T.R.




Estring -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/23/2006 11:55:03 PM)

He is bi.




LeatherBentOne -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 3:26:32 AM)

From a lesbian's point of view:

If he looks like a duck and quacks like a duck.  Then, he's a duck.




slaveofdarkhold -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 4:02:48 AM)

(fast reply)
what difference does it make?
Gay, straight, bisexual.... they're all just words and labels. Human sexuality is far too complex to just sort people into boxes. This sounds like a case of trying to justify something you or this hypothetical Master is uncomfortable with. I've known people claim to be bisexual when they have no real interest in the same gender, just because they think it makes them more appealing to the opposite sex. I've known people who are only interested in members of the same sex call themselves bisexual because 'homosexual' is a scary label to them. People twist these terms to justify their behaviour to themselves and other people. If I sleep with 100 men, and kiss one girl on the lips, am I bisexual? There is no simple answer, I could argue it any way I wanted to. But whatever label I chose or have inflicted on me, it makes no difference. I will still act the same, feel the same, look for the same qualities in my partner. Forget the labels. Only you know who you are attracted to and what is right for you at the time.




maturecpl -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 6:10:31 AM)

The difference it makes is...as a bi sub you tend to only message bi or gay Doms. If posted straight Doms are apt to use a male sub then it broadens your opportunity for connections....capice?




slaveofdarkhold -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 8:43:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maturecpl

The difference it makes is...as a bi sub you tend to only message bi or gay Doms. If posted straight Doms are apt to use a male sub then it broadens your opportunity for connections....capice?


so.... you're saying that this question isn't so much 'how does this person identify?' as 'can I justify hitting on straight men too?'. Fair enough. I hadn't looked at it that way.




michaelGA2 -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 10:33:49 AM)

well, if i were approached by a Master and he ordered me to do that i would say "Bye Master"

so my answer would be

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!


[8D][8D][8D][8D]





jeffanddee -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 1:27:09 PM)

As far as a power move, that seems simply what it is, a show of power.  But, if the guy wants to be bi, then what is the issue?  If you dont like the rules, then dont play the game.  Both Dee and I are bi.  We have times that we enjoy our sexuality with others, but with our subs it is a different story.  Many times we demand the challenge as this seems to be one of the greatest difficulties to overcome with a sub.





LordDominik -> RE: Bi-Masters? (6/24/2006 1:45:49 PM)

IMHO, If a man engages in an act of sexuality with another man, then this would define them as being bi-sexual.  If a man engages in play with another man, with play being defined as and act of BDSM but not sexual (i.e. flogging), then this would not make him bi-sexual.  Just My personal thought.
 
~ LD




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