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sophiewet92 -> new girl (4/3/2013 11:02:42 AM)

I'm 20. I'm new here sexually inexperienced and slightly overwhelmed. I'm horny which doesn't help but I am really seeking a dominant daddy to train me. But it seems to be very few nurturing men here. I just am frustrated and ugh idk... :(



peppermint -> RE: new girl (4/3/2013 11:16:13 AM)

Welcome to the forums. 

If you don't mind I'll give you some quick advice.  Just because some guy checks a box on a web site does not mean he is really a Dominant.  Since you are new you will most likely be getting mail that says that everyone believes you are a man, you might be dropped from Collarme, and you need to prove you are a woman on cam.  Just delete and block that mail.  It's a regular thing sent out by idiots who just want cam shows.  Take your time.  Do a lot of reading.  Try to figure out what you want so that you can choose a Dom who will satisfy those wants.  Do not settle for the first Dom who says he wants to slap a collar on you. 

If you have any questions, the Ask A Submissive forum is a great place to ask them.  You may not get the answer that you want but you will get answers based on the advice of submissives who have years of experience. 



MasterCaneman -> RE: new girl (4/3/2013 11:37:43 AM)

Welcome. I perused your profile, and you may be able to weed out the weirdos with a fuller description of you expectations and desires. A couple of pics won't hurt, nothing nasty and if you need to conceal your face it's understandable. It just lets potentials know that you're a tangible entity, rather than a construct. Just my two cents worth. Good luck and welcome again.



JeffBC -> RE: new girl (4/3/2013 4:51:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sophiewet92
I'm 20. I'm new here sexually inexperienced and slightly overwhelmed. I'm horny which doesn't help but I am really seeking a dominant daddy to train me. But it seems to be very few nurturing men here. I just am frustrated and ugh idk... :(

Good luck in your search.

For the record, you have come to a sex site which largely discussed sex stuff with a focus on sex and you've brought up how young and horny and female you are. There's an element of "throwing chum in the water" to that act. It wouldn't be how I would lead if I were looking for a "nurturing man".



DarkSteven -> RE: new girl (4/3/2013 5:45:53 PM)

In addition to what Jeff above said, I'd remove any reference to training. That generally means a no-commitment way for an HNG to get his jollies.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: new girl (4/3/2013 6:04:21 PM)

Everyone above has made excellent points. The words horny, young & inexperienced are NOT going to attract the best element. Also, the term " Daddy Dom" has several connotations and you may want to narrow it down so that you attract the type you are looking for. I live in MD. I highly suggest Black Rose which offers a "Newbie 101 " type course once a month in DC Whuch will give you a better taste of what you like & are interested in



veritas723 -> RE: new girl (4/3/2013 7:32:31 PM)

If you do live in the washington DC area I would highly look into the Black Rose organization. In NYC there is TES.org unless i'm mistaken those are two of the longest running most respected BDSM groups, having one that meets in your area is a great way to learn, experience, or meet people in a very safe, educational manner.

I know I learned a great deal attending lectures, and demos at Tes meetings. Met some friendly and ...vastly knowledgeable folks. From people I know in DC. Black Rose is very similiar.


That being said. As far as your profile and what you're looking for. You may want to try and think on exactly it is you are searching for. By nuturing? do you mean... training? emotional/love, or mentoring? do you want to learn the more rigid "protocols" or experience a total control/24/7 type arrangement. Are you looking to explore boundaries with age, pain, sense deprivation, bondage, clothing/costume elements, servitude, animal-totem type play. Think about what you might want, and what you might have to offer.

Also, i would suggest not fixating on any on particular thing. ...is a "daddy" someone that has to be older? very much so older? or are you looking for a personality type, or behavior/treatment ideal.

And not to be overly insensitive, but if you are inexperienced sexually, you may want to take some time at self exploration, introspection. At least in the sense, to develop the personal vocabulary of what pleases you.

best of luck in your search



ARIES83 -> RE: new girl (4/4/2013 1:38:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: sophiewet92
I'm 20. I'm new here sexually inexperienced and slightly overwhelmed. I'm horny which doesn't help but I am really seeking a dominant daddy to train me. But it seems to be very few nurturing men here. I just am frustrated and ugh idk... :(

Good luck in your search.

For the record, you have come to a sex site which largely discussed sex stuff with a focus on sex and you've brought up how young and horny and female you are. There's an element of "throwing chum in the water" to that act. It wouldn't be how I would lead if I were looking for a "nurturing man".



Yes, not the best way to find a nurturing man...
Good way to lose the inexperience though! [:D]

**Welcome, best of luck!**



ashjor911 -> RE: new girl (4/4/2013 5:02:35 AM)

Welcome To CM



OohAahMrs -> RE: new girl (4/4/2013 6:56:32 AM)

Not a problem sop, just come to the UK and i'll quite happily go to work on you with a stick or two of rhubarb!



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