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Pyramus -> Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 7:20:42 AM)

When it comes to fetish porn, I believe I've probably seen as much as any other horny married man looking for outlets ... and, well ... having read the thread about Femdom porn not being close to realistic, I looked at a few videos in order to ascertain what subtleties clued us in where the 'real' kink lifestyle differed in porn from reality.

A few items were listed (9-inch heels, leather corsets, fishnet stockings, penis-centric Dominas), when WHOA! I just noticed something odd. Huh? Yep. Now that's interesting. Why would it be?

Likewise, having read the threads on cock-shot profiles, it slowly dawns upon me, the revelation, that almost no collarme profiles have uncircumcised cocks either. Hmmm... there must be a reason for this, as, I was under the impression that more than half the sexual appendages in the world were original makes and models.

Given that observation, I ask:
QUESTION: Why is it that almost no (I've never seen any) CM profiles and/or fetish porn shows an uncircumcised cock?




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 7:35:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus
Likewise, having read the threads on cock-shot profiles, it slowly dawns upon me, the revelation, that almost no collarme profiles have uncircumcised cocks either.


You are absolutely wrong on that.
Over the last 2 weeks or so, I've seen literally hundreds of cocks, if not well over a thousand, on CM profiles because of a survey I started because on of the other cock related threads.

I can assuredly tell you that uncircumcised cocks are not at all rare on CM. I haven't tallied up the percentages (though I probably could if you really wanted me to, though it would make the poll results take yet even longer to be tallied up completely so I can publish them) but on a quick guess, I'd say that at the very least a third of the cocks I've seen are uncircumcised.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 7:39:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

When it comes to fetish porn, I believe I've probably seen as much as any other horny married man looking for outlets ... and, well ... having read the thread about Femdom porn not being close to realistic, I looked at a few videos in order to ascertain what subtleties clued us in where the 'real' kink lifestyle differed in porn from reality.

A few items were listed (9-inch heels, leather corsets, fishnet stockings, penis-centric Dominas), when WHOA! I just noticed something odd. Huh? Yep. Now that's interesting. Why would it be?

Likewise, having read the threads on cock-shot profiles, it slowly dawns upon me, the revelation, that almost no collarme profiles have uncircumcised cocks either. Hmmm... there must be a reason for this, as, I was under the impression that more than half the sexual appendages in the world were original makes and models.

Given that observation, I ask:
QUESTION: Why is it that almost no (I've never seen any) CM profiles and/or fetish porn shows an uncircumcised cock?


This may be true, but way, way more than half of the guys on CM are from the US, where circumcision is extremely common, so that's gonna skew your statistics. Collar me is not a representative sample of world-wide penises. Likewise (I would guess?) that most of the porn you are watching comes from US sites because you're in the US yourself and your search parameters are likely to bring up US sites. US sites are likely to show penises representative of their viewers, since porn is aimed at the penis-holder. The women are hairless and busty because that is what a good proportion of the target market enjoy. If a good proportion of their target market are circumcised, then they might want to see those women impaled on a cock that looks like theirs, because that lets them imagine that a) it could be them and b) cut cocks are the epitome of sexual-attractiveness.

I'd also guess (and it really is just a guess) that in some areas where uncut is the norm, it may be more taboo to access sites like this and/or actually censored in some countries, so again, the view you get is distorted. This is also an English-speaking site. If you can find an equivalent site in the native language of another country which doesn't have many circumcised men - let's say Finland - you might find a startlingly different array of penises.

Short answer - it's a self-selecting group.

Oh, and not to mention most porn and cock-shots show erect penises. Depending on the individual guy, it can sometimes be hard to tell once erect. You may be seeing more foreskin that you realise.




LadyPact -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 9:26:52 AM)

My uneducated guess is that it relates to the money shot.

The money shot is the term used in the porn industry about what actually 'sells' the flick, being the orgasms. Same reason for all of the pulling out, cumming outside, rather inside of anyone. Yes, the uncircumcised guys could pull out, pull the foreskin back, and get the same shot, but that leads to increased chance of 'missing' the shot, thereby increasing film costs. For most males, there's no insta-fix for a spent orgasm. Even when you get a multi-orgasmic male, the second is never going to be as, shall we say, powerful as the first, and there will be less ejaculate.

I'm basing this guess on things that I've read, rather than what I've seen. I seem to be way on the smaller end of the scale compared to the folks who, a person would think, spend an enormous amount of time watching porn.







Hillwilliam -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 9:30:33 AM)

Here's my theory on why most porn, not just BDSM porn, features circumcised units.

Most porn in made in the US.
Most American males are circumcised.

finit




Cilicia -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 11:10:24 AM)

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porn is aimed at the penis-holder. The women are hairless and busty because that is what a good proportion of the target market enjoy.


That's a great point!

The women in almost all porn (except when using the keyword 'hairy' in the search, are as hairless as the day they were born!

This isn't representative of the normal population?




Pyramus -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 1:12:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I seem to be way on the smaller end of the scale compared to the folks who, a person would think, spend an enormous amount of time watching porn.


You're not a married male not getting anything from the wife, least of all kink.
For that, there is only porn, prostitutes, and the priesthood and/or divorce.




PeonForHer -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 2:08:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Over the last 2 weeks or so, I've seen literally hundreds of cocks, if not well over a thousand of a survey I started


Yeah, right. [;)] Where do I sign up to start a survey on women's boobies?




SomethingCatchy -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 4:20:44 PM)

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QUESTION: Why is it that almost no (I've never seen any) CM profiles and/or fetish porn shows an uncircumcised cock?


You CLEARLY have not been watching gay (male) porn.

ETA -

Many gay (male) porn videos that I've seen feature men from the Eastern Hemisphere and I have to say that when I do watch porn that features men who appear to be American there's a startling contrast between foreskin and no foreskin. I think it is definitely safe to say that American culture supports circumcision.




Pyramus -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 8:19:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

You CLEARLY have not been watching gay (male) porn.



True. Quite true.




AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 10:59:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Over the last 2 weeks or so, I've seen literally hundreds of cocks, if not well over a thousand of a survey I started


Yeah, right. [;)] Where do I sign up to start a survey on women's boobies?



I tried to find that thread full of women's boobs we had a while ago, but alas, my search skills lack. Where's poise when you need her?




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/5/2013 11:21:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


I tried to find that thread full of women's boobs we had a while ago, but alas, my search skills lack.


http://www.collarchat.com/m_3303640/mpage_1/tm.htm




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/6/2013 12:00:40 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

My uneducated guess is that it relates to the money shot.

The money shot is the term used in the porn industry about what actually 'sells' the flick, being the orgasms. Same reason for all of the pulling out, cumming outside, rather inside of anyone. Yes, the uncircumcised guys could pull out, pull the foreskin back, and get the same shot, but that leads to increased chance of 'missing' the shot, thereby increasing film costs. For most males, there's no insta-fix for a spent orgasm. Even when you get a multi-orgasmic male, the second is never going to be as, shall we say, powerful as the first, and there will be less ejaculate.

I'm basing this guess on things that I've read, rather than what I've seen. I seem to be way on the smaller end of the scale compared to the folks who, a person would think, spend an enormous amount of time watching porn.




I prefer to leave them guessing.

There is some debate (and it's been discussed on multiple stages) as to whether or not my cock can actually cross state lines but....I generally ask for financial remuneration as to whether or not that is actual fact.




BambiBoi -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/6/2013 1:48:33 AM)

I submit that all the uncircumcised guys are too busy getting laid by women who want to "try" to see "if what they say is true."

I like to think that there are heavily correlative factors (fancy phrase for stereotyping). I address the prevalence of circumcision, which according to the gospel-truth-accuracy of wikipedia pins the numbers to "77% in US-born men, born from 1932–1974, including 81% of non-Hispanic White men, 65% of Black men, and 54% of Hispanic men, vs. 42% of non U.S. born men who were circumcised."

White: .81
Black: .65
Hispanic: .54
Non-US: .42
Total Avg: .77

I submit that the majority of participants here are white, which accounts for most CM profiles being circumcised. I also submit that the majority of fetish porn is aimed toward white audiences, or color neutral audiences, in which the modern (albeit racist) entertainment complex favors whites. There may even be a causal connection somewhere-something where circumcision causes sexual deviance. That'd be neat.

In short: Sheer numbers, pro rata numbers, and racism aim the industry toward whatever is standard for whites.




LadyPact -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/6/2013 8:55:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyramus
You're not a married male not getting anything from the wife, least of all kink.
For that, there is only porn, prostitutes, and the priesthood and/or divorce.
I'll give you part of that. I'm not male. It's actually *not* My husband that provides the kink.

Due to his career, though, we have been separated geographically for up to a year at a time. I've been celibate during a couple of his deployments. (During one deployment, I had a sub.) I also did a year of self imposed celibacy prior. I didn't watch porn during those time periods, either. I just don't get the appeal of something that you can't have.

I hope this doesn't sound patronizing, but doesn't the porn kind of make it worse? Sure, I would think it makes it easier to jack off *without* thinking/concentrating on the lack of sexual contact in your life. Other than that, I'd have to think it's similar to the alcoholic going to the bar, dying to have a drink, and watching other people enjoy themselves.





korata -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/6/2013 9:20:53 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
but doesn't the porn kind of make it worse? Sure, I would think it makes it easier to jack off *without* thinking/concentrating on the lack of sexual contact in your life.


It's nearly impossible to jack off to nothing.




Akrotiri -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/7/2013 12:21:04 AM)

Men just don't have the necessary imagination without visual aids!




UllrsIshtar -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/7/2013 12:36:27 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: korata


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
but doesn't the porn kind of make it worse? Sure, I would think it makes it easier to jack off *without* thinking/concentrating on the lack of sexual contact in your life.


It's nearly impossible to jack off to nothing.


Seriously?

That's sad.

Why not? Can't you just think of stuff and focus on that?




littlewonder -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/7/2013 7:23:47 AM)

It's a ratio thing. Most western culture men are circumcised. There are porn sites online though dedicated to only uncircumcised men.

ETA: You can't just jack off to your own imagination? Daydream? Most men I know do exactly that.

As to Pyramus, why not concentrate on making your wife happy? When she's happy, I'm betting everyone's happy. But we already know you refuse divorce which just really, really confounds me.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Why is it that an uncircumcized cock does not seem to be apparent in CM profiles & fetish porn?? (4/7/2013 9:40:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
Here's my theory on why most porn, not just BDSM porn, features circumcised units.

Most porn in made in the US.
Most American males are circumcised.


finit
^^ What he said. M




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