RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions

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BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/9/2013 12:49:31 PM)
About the breasts: Attach nipple clamps, those attached to little weights, to her breasts for a 2-5minutes at a time, and let them weigh it down. Avoid using bras. You play on top of her flattening them. Happy you're both enjoying. M

Firefly2005 -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/11/2013 2:09:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: iamalive888 You say you can't control the sagginess, but this whole post is about controlling it. Altering your body in a negative fashion like gaining weight and then losing it quickly seems like it's a poor idea given a health standpoint. Obviously it's her body and she will do what she wants with it but I would say try to keep the perkiness because once it's gone, it's gone. Thanks for the thoughts. I think to be honest the gaining weight was mainly unintentional, and now she's just losing it at a healthy rate - 3lb this week, but some weeks it's only 1lb. I don't think she'll intentionally gain weight again, though I dare say she will when we have more children temporarily. I think it's the irreversibility of it that attracts her to be honest. I also feel I expressed myself badly in my last post. When I said we don't have control I meant that women are perceived not to have any control over the shape/sagginess of their breasts. She fantasises about being pitied for something that people will assume that she didn't want or cause, but secretly knowing it's something she has helped bring on herself. The psychology of it is strange, but I find it really interesting - especially the fact that she can share it with me :)

littlewonder -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/13/2013 8:04:38 PM)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_ironing

LafayetteLady -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/13/2013 8:40:15 PM)
I saw something about that on some show I was watching recently, although I don't remember which show. I don't think that will work for someone who is already developed though.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/13/2013 9:07:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Firefly2005 She has always been very proud of her appearance. The reason she wants this is for the embarrassment, and the perceived powerlessness - you can't control how saggy your breasts are. So the idea, or her fantasy, is of being pitied and somehow judged for this, with no-one knowing that she's done everything she can to help the process along. This fantasy and the fact that it's become a little bit more of a reality seems to turn her on more than anything I've ever seen - it's fanastic. She even talked about skin-sparing breast reductions, though that was strictly fantasy - she is not actually mad. Any other ideas- specifically anyone who has had experience of rope play or clamps at the base of the breast... Would appreciate their thoughts. For instance did they ever see any long term damage to shape of the breast? Which is what, in this case, she wants. Any comments from anyone who actually understands and appreciates the idea of the secret self humiliation that my wife wants to put herself through, or from dom/mes who've inflicted that... I'd be very keen to hear your thoughts aswell so that I can better fulfil her desires... I'm beginning to feel ambivalent about this. Usually, we're a bit cynical about someone new asking for play ideas, and details please! Not sure what to say. M

LafayetteLady -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/13/2013 10:30:46 PM)
I think about 10 years after she achieves her desired sag, she will start talking about a breast lift.

Firefly2005 -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/15/2013 12:59:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig quote: ORIGINAL: Firefly2005 She has always been very proud of her appearance. The reason she wants this is for the embarrassment, and the perceived powerlessness - you can't control how saggy your breasts are. So the idea, or her fantasy, is of being pitied and somehow judged for this, with no-one knowing that she's done everything she can to help the process along. This fantasy and the fact that it's become a little bit more of a reality seems to turn her on more than anything I've ever seen - it's fanastic. She even talked about skin-sparing breast reductions, though that was strictly fantasy - she is not actually mad. Any other ideas- specifically anyone who has had experience of rope play or clamps at the base of the breast... Would appreciate their thoughts. For instance did they ever see any long term damage to shape of the breast? Which is what, in this case, she wants. Any comments from anyone who actually understands and appreciates the idea of the secret self humiliation that my wife wants to put herself through, or from dom/mes who've inflicted that... I'd be very keen to hear your thoughts aswell so that I can better fulfil her desires... I'm beginning to feel ambivalent about this. Usually, we're a bit cynical about someone new asking for play ideas, and details please! Not sure what to say. M Well everyone has been really friendly and I've had some lovely PMs and useful comments. I made no secret of the fact that I joined to ask about this. It felt polite to answer each comment that was posted. As I said the surgical comment that you highlighted was strictly fantasy and will never happen. But by all means, let this thread slip down the rankings. I didn't mean to annoy anyone and my question has definitely been answered. Thanks a lot and sorry to have annoyed you.

xssve -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/16/2013 7:07:01 AM)
Nah, I've encountered it, but it is one those fetishes for which there is no Latin term already, I don't believe. Hair is no problem of course, so start there - as for the tits, I really don't know, you're just gonna have to use your imagination and work them puppies.

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/16/2013 11:26:04 AM)
OP: Something I don't think anyone has mentioned yet: this shows all the signs of being a humiliation fetish. Can you think f any other way to humiliate her? While I don't indulge in humiliation, many others here do and can give you advice. You are talking about two fetishes: the shaving and the sagging boobs. One of those is reversible, one is not. OK, so I have a stake in this. I really took to heart the anti-pollution theme of "Keep America Beautiful." So in my head I expanded it to the entire planet. You are talking about making a woman less beautiful. So I am being a good conservationist when I say: find another way to humiliate her. It isn't my place to determine what fetishes you can or cannot have. But I am very much against these ones.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/16/2013 3:41:28 PM)
I don't know what I said that made you think I was annoyed. I simply said, I was beginning to have reservations about how much you two have thought about this, and the potential for harm in taking things too far. Having said that, I thought I was among the respondents with ideas on helping sag her boobs. Heck, with weight, lying on them regularly, time, you will absolutely get your wishes. Good luck, M

Miyani -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/18/2013 9:41:03 AM)
Have her bind her chest when she's in private and not with you. Ace bandage, tight enough to make her look pretty "flat" without constricting breathing or making her back hurt. Transmen who've worn binders for long enough often get exactly that look.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/18/2013 10:33:10 AM)
Horseback riding at a trot without a bra...

njlauren -> RE: Hair and saggy boobs fetish - body modification questions (4/19/2013 6:13:15 PM)
Binding over time might do it, from my contact with F to M transmen they claim with binding that the breasts eventually sag and get floppy. I can't attest to that, I haven't experienced that (I have to bind my chest with tight sports bras since though I abandoned transition, I had developed big time, and that doesn't go away)...I agree with another poster, before actually trying any of this, you and she may want to talk it through and make sure it is what she really wants, while it can probably be overcome surgically later on, if this is about a fetish that can be served otherwise, might be worth keeping it a fantasy..but that is up to you and her, obviously;)

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