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maturecpl -> Suggestions (6/23/2006 2:32:53 PM)

Hello.......my husband & I wish to submit as a couple. Thus far we have had no interest at all from the Collarme.com community. Any suggestions?



LordDominik -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 2:43:06 PM)

Try visiting a local munch, or if you are lucky enough to have one, a club in your area.
 
~ LD



Lordandmaster -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 2:43:54 PM)

There are definitely people on Collarme who would be interested in a submissive couple, but finding someone local isn't always easy.  If you're willing to travel, you should indicate that in your profile.  If not, then it might take some time to find people near you.

Good luck.



Proprietrix -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 2:53:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
There are definitely people on Collarme who would be interested in a submissive couple,


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<---  Yup. There are definitely just such people.



maturecpl -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 2:59:31 PM)

We went to the local Munch, frankly, it is mostly couples who have one Dominant & one Submissive member. The Masters who are interested in male submissives seem to go to the local Leathermans group, a style that does not suit us. We are willing to take a Master or a Mistress but they cannot exclude one for the other. A Dom/Dom couple here for the most part advertises for live-ins.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 3:03:12 PM)

Then it sounds like the problem is that there aren't many suitable couples in your area.  My guess, based on your profile and what you've said here, would be that if you find a single person instead of a couple, a domme would work out better than a dom.  Most male doms won't want direct sexual contact with the male sub.



IronBear -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 3:11:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maturecpl

Hello.......my husband & I wish to submit as a couple. Thus far we have had no interest at all from the Collarme.com community. Any suggestions?


The answer is both simple and complex.. Just get your asses over here to Queensland, Australia. House Iron Bear has vacencies for both male and femal slaves and a couple has always een viable..........



maturecpl -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 3:14:32 PM)

Thank you IronBear Sir, leave a lamp in the window for us [:D]



BreakMeShakeMe -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 3:14:47 PM)

LOL IronBear... got to love your direct comments... makes me just wish I was closer than I am... and sometimes glad i'm not.. for I see myself in too much trouble with you....LOL  [;)]



BitaTruble -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 4:27:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maturecpl

Thank you IronBear Sir, leave a lamp in the window for us [:D]


MN is a whole lot closer than Australia and there's no passport issues.

Let me know if you move up to the North - Midwest Country. [8D]

Celeste



Alumbrado -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 6:51:12 PM)

And Memphis is even closer than those cold 'M' states...[8D]



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 7:05:51 PM)

Indiana may be even closer.... lol
 
Edited to add....
 
Damnit... we aren't discreet!



wwhitetigress -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 7:17:43 PM)

destinys journey is not always short but fate takes time..it will happen

=^..^=



LokisBrat -> RE: Suggestions (6/23/2006 7:51:55 PM)

My mind goes to the old saying "good things come to those that have patience".  My brat and I are no stranger to this problem either.  We have searched on numerous web sites for females and males to join us for a spot of tea.  The problem we continue to run into is diversity and selection.  This is mainly due to the small town area we live in.  For any outside play, we usually have to travel a bit to a more open minded area.

I would suggest locating a club that is within reason distance and pack an overnight bag and explore a bit.


LOKI



peterK50 -> RE: Suggestions (6/24/2006 4:44:34 AM)

Thank you all for your support & input. My wife & I will keep open minds & open hearts in our search.



MHOO314 -> RE: Suggestions (6/24/2006 6:19:38 AM)

Considering you just joined, I'd say patience and give it more time, many have been looking for a year and more---also your profile is very do me centric, it is what you want not what you are prepared to do to make the Dominants life better---I'd suggest starting with the "here is how we can help you" then add your needs as an addendum of likes---also if you are or are not prepared to relocate---net, spiff up the profile, its a resume, not a do-me.



zumala -> RE: Suggestions (6/24/2006 6:33:18 AM)

I'm part of a sub couple also.  I've had a few people express interest after they obviously REALLY read my profile.  Unfortunately none of them live close to me.  Pup and I might be relocating to South Dakota if he gets a certain job, but that's by no means certain.
 
Of course, I very much doubt we'd have any better luck way up there than we do in Texas.  [8|]
 
Just be patient.  That's about the best advice I can give you.  We're in the same boat.
 
zuma



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Suggestions (6/24/2006 7:50:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zumala

I'm part of a sub couple also.  I've had a few people express interest after they obviously REALLY read my profile.  Unfortunately none of them live close to me.  Pup and I might be relocating to South Dakota if he gets a certain job, but that's by no means certain.
 
Of course, I very much doubt we'd have any better luck way up there than we do in Texas.  [8|]
 
Just be patient.  That's about the best advice I can give you.  We're in the same boat.
 
zuma


Talk about frustrating?! Where were all these wonderful sub couples when we were looking for them?
 
Jewel



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