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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/24/2006 2:02:23 PM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		ok, i now understand that to give a small gift of substance to my Master at His party would be overstepping my bounds of enslavement. i am fine with this.

so now i need to ask, being that He had spoken a few times of getting a bracelet in the past, so im sure He would love to receive one, would it be unslavelike to present the gift to Him ....say .....a few days after His Party? or after all His guests have gone home?? or not give Him a small token gift at all? or wait till our nilla wedding and give it to Him then??

i found the perfect bracelet that just fits His personality.....classy, solid gold with a few diamonds, but dignified yet understated. and i love the idea of giving it to Him in a fluted crystal goblet.

may i please have more viewpoints?


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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/24/2006 2:10:54 PM   
mtumwawaBwana


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ORIGINAL: LordDominik

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ORIGINAL: mtumwawaBwana

my query:

say this Master is planning a very formal collaring party where all of His closest lifestyle friends (some in governmental positions) will be in attendance. this slavegirl in question wishes to present to her new Master a gift. she wishes it to be a gift He would hold dear to His heart, something He would be proud to keep in remembrance of her. what would You advise this slavegirl as to possible gifts?

would a manly bracelet with her name and collaring date etched onto it be too gaudy?


I think the question you have to ask yourself is would he think the bracelet is too gaudy?  You want to get him something he will like, and that will stand out, but you also want to get him something that will reflect who he is as a person, something that will compliment him.  Perhaps a new outfit for the collaring? 
 
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Master has set out exactly what He shall wear, what i shall wear, what dining arrangements i shall make, etc... i know adding the silk napkins will be ok , as well as the gold napkin rings. what i wish to do is add to the elegance He has already set forth in His demands for His party. i wish to enhance it, add touches of class and elegance here and there. i am sure He will be fine with this, as we have discussed His wishes on many occasions. i am keeping in mind who some of His guess will be. i only seek to honour He who owns me.

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/24/2006 5:20:54 PM   
TolerableCruelty


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I'm not into ceremonial collarings or jewelery... But... since He is, How about presenting Him the gift in the champagne flute before the guests get there ???

that way, it shows the appreciation... and if it He deems it worthy of showing it off to the guests... He can do so, without embarrassment.

T.R.


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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/24/2006 5:56:01 PM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		oooooooo fab idea, thank You Sir

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/26/2006 8:55:15 PM   
MasterCurios


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Status: offline 		many people hold different things dearly when we had our formal public ceremony a few weeks ago although she had actually been collared for almost a year...she presented her srn(slave registry number) registry on gilded paper and framed in gold and a ring .if he wears jewelry(ie..bracelets,rings)than a nice gold bracelet with your name and collaring date would be nice.or perhaps something alittle more closer to the heart perhaps a fine gold chain with a gold minature plate with the engravings on it....only you know what he likes and dislikes  i'm sure whatever you find will be from the heart and thats what counts....

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/27/2006 7:44:54 AM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		thank You Sir for the encouragement You have bestowed upon me

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/27/2006 7:46:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		But we want to know what you did and what he did..........

Get 'er done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/27/2006 10:29:05 PM   
QuietDom


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Status: offline 		I support the general consensus that if you want to give him something, you know what he likes better than we do.  And also that you shouldn't try adding it as a suprise element into his carefully planned ceremony.

However, I'll add that I strongly support your idea of having a gift engraved.  No matter what it is, get it engraved, or customized, or made-to-order, or whatever is appropriate for the type of gift.  You thereby demonstrate that serious thought went into the selection, and you didn't just dart out to the shops at the last minute.

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/28/2006 7:37:11 AM   
mtumwawaBwana


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i will be giving a special gift to Him prior to His party.

and yes, i am having it engraved.

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/28/2006 7:41:41 AM   
mtumwawaBwana


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

But we want to know what you did and what he did..........

Get 'er done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


You wish to know haw His party turns out Sir?
if so, i will need to ask His permission to post here.
seems fitting to me to post at the very least a little something,...afterall, we did meet on the CM.
His party is a few months away. this affords me time to ready myself, and too, for the two of us to continue to learn more about each other.

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 6/28/2006 7:42:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mtumwawaBwana

thank You Sir.

i will be giving a special gift to Him prior to His party.

and yes, i am having it engraved.

Has anyone made the idea yet that she should just ASK the dom how he feels directly?  Sure, it ruins a moment of surprise, but it avoids all this agonizing and worry about propriety.  She doesn't have to ask "IS it ok if I give you this bracelet that I had engraved with the words I love you on it during the ceremony?"  She can just ask "What do you think about me giving you a gift during the ceremony also?"

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 7/2/2006 1:41:09 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		mtumwawaBwana
I am so happy you have found one another how sweet and happy you sound
and to think of giving him something is wonderful Ron ( i am sorry but your name is so hard  for me to spell) but his is a wonderful ideal and he words are so kind good luck dear
on you wonderful collaring i wish you well and all you both do it is hard to find that one person who light the flame of you heart
 
mons

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 7/2/2006 3:12:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mtumwawaBwana

thank You Sir.

i will be giving a special gift to Him prior to His party.

and yes, i am having it engraved.


You could always add a nice leather paddle to the engraved gift so he will always remember the date and have something to warm up your backside with on each anniversary

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 7/3/2006 7:03:39 AM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		thank you, mons, for your kindest of words and thoughts
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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 7/3/2006 7:07:29 AM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		thank You Sir,

and keeping with the thought i am not into pain, i will try to remember Your idea.

for me, unfortunately, Master seems to be quite the avid collector of painful thingies

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 7/3/2006 4:10:58 PM   
WayWardSoul


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Status: offline 		I understand your view, which would make it that much greater of a gift on each of your anniversary's to come.

I wish your Master and you the best for many years to come.

WWS

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RE: may i please have a Master's viewpoint? - 7/4/2006 12:03:34 AM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		thank You for Your kind words Sir

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