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ORIGINAL: Voltare

After reading recently, it's a little disheartening to see some parts of the boards turning into Jerry Springer attack fests.

Really, some of the questions seem stupid, immature, or childish. What better way to reach their level, by stooping to it?

If a question really is that offensive, isn't it better to pass it by in favor of something more thought provoking? Can't we all get along?

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

How ironic. Your complaint is that we should spend less time complaining and more time posting meaningful topics.

Leading by example is the best way to get the results you wish to have.

- LA

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

How ironic. Your complaint is that we should spend less time complaining and more time posting meaningful topics.

Leading by example is the best way to get the results you wish to have.

- LA

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ORIGINAL: Voltare

When I do post, it's because I like the mental exercise of trying to solve problems and thinking about things in a different light. Posting this particular question, to me, was intended to provoke thoughts on 'am I posting because I need a cat to kick, or do I really have something worthwhile to say.'

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If a question really is that offensive, isn't it better to pass it by in favor of something more thought provoking?

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UNUSUAL BDSM AND KINK WORDS
DEFINITIONS BY MistressDREAD™®©
A
Acarophilia: a sexual affinity for itching
Achluophilia: an intense love of darkness
Acmegenesis: an orgasm
Acomoclitic: a sexual preference for hairless genitals
Acousticophilia: sexual arousal from sounds
Acrophilia: sexual arousal from heights or high altitudes
Acrotomophilia: arousal from seeing or being with amputees
Actirasty: to become aroused from exposure to the sun's rays
Acucullophalia: circumcision
Acyesis: female sterility
Adamitism: going naked for god
Adolescentilism: cross-dressing or role playing an adolescent
Aelurophilia: deriving gratification from cats
Agalmatophilia: attractions to statues or mannequins
Agamic: asexual; parthenogenic
Agenobiosis: married couple who live together without sex
Agonophilia: arousal from a partner pretending to struggle
Agoraphilia: arousal from open spaces; having sex in public
Agrexophilia : arousal from others knowing you are having sex.
Aichmophilia : love of needles and other pointed objects.
Aischrolatreia : worship of filth, smut; obscenity cult.
Albutophilia : arousal from water.
Algolagnia : sexual satisfaction resulting from giving or receiving pain; sadism or masochism.
Aliphineur : person using lotion to arouse a partner.
Alloerasty........use of another's nudity to arouse a partner
Allopellia........orgasming from watching others having sex
Allorgasmia.......fantasizing about someone not one's partner
Allotriorasty.....arousal from partners of other nations/races
Alphamegamia......attraction to partners of another age group
Altocalciphilia...high heel fetish
Alvinolagnia ... stomach fetishes of all kinds
Amatripsis ..... masturbation by rubbing the labia together
Amaurophilia ... preference for a blind/blindfolded sex partner
Amaxophilia .... attraction to riding in cars and motor vehicles
Ambisextrous ... pertaining to a bisexual person
Amelotasis ..... attraction to the absence of a limb(s)
Amokoscisia ... sexual frenzy with desire to slash or mutilate
Amomaxia ...... sex in a parked car
Amphierotism .. capacity of erotic reaction toward either sex
Amphigentic Invert ... an individual who engages in sexual activity with persons of both genders
Amphisexual ... bisexual
Amulierosis ... result of sexual privacy
Amychesis ...... act of scratching partner in sexual passion.
Amychophilia ... deriving sexual pleasure from being scratched.
Anaclitism ..... arousal from items used as infant.
Anacreontic .... erotic.
Analinctus ..... licking the anus.
Analingus ...... rimming or penetration of anus with tongue.
Anasteemaphilia ... attraction to someone because of a difference in height
Anaxiphilia ....... act of falling in love with a loser by someone who should know better
Androgyny ......... having both male and female characteristics
Androgynophilia ... bisexual, bisexuality
Androidism ........ arousal from robots with human features
Andromania ........ nymphomania
Androminetophilia .. arousal by female partner dressing male
Androsodomy ........ anal sex with a male partner
Anililagnia ........ sexual desire for older women
Anisonogamist ...... attraction to older or younger partners
Anocratism ......... anal sex
Anomeatia .......... anal sex with a female partner
Anophelorastia ........ arousal from defiling/ravaging a partner
Anophilemia ........... kissing the anus
Anoraptus ............. a rapist who only attacks elderly women
Antholagnia ........... arousal from smelling flowers
Anthropophagolagnia ... rape with cannibalism
Anthropophagy ......... pleasure from ingesting human flesh
Antipudic ........... the act of covering one's genitals
Antiophilia ......... a fondness for floods
Apellous ............ another word for circumcision
Aphallatia .......... another word for celibacy
Aphephilia .......... deriving pleasure from being touched
Aphilophrenia ....... a feeling that one is unloved or unwanted
Apistia ................ another word for adultery
Apodysophilia .......... a feverish desire to undress
Apotemnophilia ......... sexual fantasies about losing a limb
Arachnephilia .......... sexual attraction to spiders
Arpagee ................ a raped woman
Arrhenothigmophilous ... another word for nymphomania
Arsometry ....... anal sex
Asceticism ...... religious self-denial often including celibacy
Asphyxiaphilia .. arousal from lack of oxygen
Asthenolagnia ... arousal from weakness or being humiliated
Astyphia ........ impotence
Asynodia ........ celibacy particularly due to impotence
Aulophilia ...... love of flutes
Autagonistophilia ... a form of exhibitionism; arousal from exposing naked body or genitals to strangers while on stage or while being photographed.
Autassassinophilia ... arousal from orchestrating one's own death by the hands of another.
Autoerotic Asphyxia ... arousal from oxygen deprivation and the potential risk of dying.
Autogynephilia ... arousal from crossdressing.
Automasochism ... arousal from inflicting intense sensations of pain on one's own body.
Autonepiophilia ... sexual attraction from dressing or being treated like an infant.
Autopederasty ... the insertion of one's penis into their own anus.
Avering .......... begging in the nude to arouse sympathy
Avisodomy ........ breaking a bird's neck while using it for sex
Axillism ......... the use of the armpit for sex
B
Ballock .......... another word for a testicle
Bathycolpian ..... possessing a large bosom
Batrachophilia ... a sexual attraction to frogs
Belonephilia ..... sexual arousal from pins or needles
Biastophilia ... arousal at forcible rape of terrified stranger
Blissom ........ to copulate with an ewe (sheep)
Bromidrophilia . arousal from bodily smells
Brontophilia ... arousal caused by thunderstorms
C
Callipygian .... having shapely buttocks
Canophilia ..... turned on by dogs
Caponize ....... to castrate a chicken
Catagelophilia ..... arousal from a love of being ridiculed
Catamenia .......... another word for menstruation
Catamite ........... young boy used in homosexual relations
Chasmophilia ....... arousal by nooks/crannies/crevices/chasms
Cheimaphilia ....... deriving pleasure from cold or winter
Chionophilia ....... arousal from a love of snow
Chrematistophilia .. arousal at being robbed/charged for sex
Chrysophilia ..... an arousal from gold or golden objects.
Claustrophilia ... a love of being confined in small places.
Climacophilia .... deriving pleasure by falling down stairs.
Commasculation ... homosexuality between men.
Concupiscence .... excessive sexual desire.
Contrectation .... the love play preceding sexual intercourse.
Convertite ....... a reformed prostitute.
Coprology ........... the study of pornography
Coprophemia ......... another word for obscene language
Coprophilia ......... a person who is a fancier of feces
Cratolagnia ......... sexual arousal from strength
Crurophilia ......... sexual arousal from legs
Cyprian ............. another word for being lecherous
Cypridophobia ....... a strong fear of getting venereal disease
Cypripareunia ....... sexual intercourse with a prostitute
D
Dacryphilia ......... arousal from tears in partner's eyes
Dasypygal ........... having hairy buttocks
Dendrophilia ........ attraction to trees
Deosculate .......... to kiss affectionately
Depuscelate ......... to lose one's virginity
Digenesis ........... alternately sexual and asexual reproduction
Digenous .......... this is another word for bisexual
Dioestrum ......... the time when a female animal is not in heat
Doraphilia ........ this is the erotic love of animal skins
Dowcet ............ here's another word for a deer's testicle
Dystychiphilia .... deriving pleasure from accidents
E
Ecdysiast ......... another word for a stripper/nude dancer
Edea .............. a term for the external genitalia
Elumbated .......... weak in the loins
Emetophilia ........ arousal from vomit or vomiting
Emmenology ......... the study of menstruation
Enceinte ........... pregnant
Encraty ............ abstinence
Eonism ............. transvestitism
Ephebophilia ....... compelling need for an older person to seek adolescent partners for sexual gratification
Epicene .......... of or pertaining to both of the sexes
Epigamic ......... attracting the opposite sex in mating season
Epistemophilia ... an abnormal focus on acquiring knowledge
Eremophilia ...... a maniacal desire to be left alone
Ergophilia ....... an unusual love of work and labor
Erotophobia ...... an unreasoning fear of sexual love
Erotophonphilia .. attaining sexual satisfaction from murdering complete strangers
Erythrophilia ..... becoming sexually aroused by blushing
Eunuchate ......... to make a eunuch
Eviration ......... emasculation, castration
F
Fam ............... to grope a woman
Felching - a seldom seen and extremely unsafe fetish is Felching or licking sperm out of a vagina or anus. The word is so unknown that the encyclopedia of sex gives a 2nd meaning: the insertion of animals like fish or rodents in the vagina or anus.
Femoral coitus .... penis-thigh sex
Fescennine ........ vulgar
Fissiparism ....... reproduction by fissioning
Formicophilia ... enjoying using insects for sexual purposes (Or arousal from having sex on a cheap counter top)
Fricatrice ...... another word for a whore or prostitute
Frotteur ........ one aroused by brushing against clothed people in public places
Fusionism - the wish to be coupled as one during an orgasm.
G
Gamic ........... a term meaning sexual
Gamophobia ...... a fear of marriage
Genicon ......... a sexual partner imagined by one dissatisfied with her actual partner
Genophobia ...... a fear of sex
Geronosexuality ...... an attraction where the object of desire is 30 years older or more
Gerontophilia ........ arousal from having an older partner
Godemiche ............ another word for a dildo
Grapholagnia ......... a maniacal interest in obscene pictures
Grivoiserie .......... lewd and lascivious behavior
Gunzel ............... passive, orally oriented, male homosexual
Gymnophobia .......... the fear of nudity
Gynander ........ a female pseudo-hermaphrodite
Gynandry ........ another word for hermaphroditism
Gynophobia ...... a fear of women
Gynotikolobomassophilia ... .... deriving sexual pleasure by nibbling on a woman's earlobe
H
Hamartophilia ... a love of committing sinful acts
Haptephilia ..... arousal by being touched
Harpaxophilia ... getting pleasure by robbery or being robbed
Heautontimorumenos ... masochist
Hebetic .............. happening at puberty
Hedonophobia ......... a fear of pleasure
Hematolagnia ......... sexual stimulation from blood
Hemipenis ............ the paired sex organ of many reptiles
Hetaerism ............ extramarital sex; communal marriage
Hypnophilia .......... turned on by the thought of sleeping
I
Icolagnia ..... arousal from contemplation of, or contact with sculptures or pictures
Infantilism ... attraction to childhood items
Ipsism ........ another word for masturbation
Irrumation .... another term meaning fellatio (oral sex)
Isophilic ..... relating to same gender affection sans sex
Ithyphallic ... pertaining to the phallus carried in bacchanalian festivals; lewd displays
J
Jocker ........ a term referring to a male homosexual
K
Kleptolagnia - Arousal from stealing.
Klismaphilia - Arousal from having an enema.
Knismolagnia - Arousal from tickling.
Lactaphilia - Arousal from lactating breasts.
Lagnonector - A person that kills in order to have sex with the corpse.
Leptosadism - Mild sadism.
Lygerastia - Being aroused only when in darkness.
Maieusiophilia - Arousal from the sight or presence of pregnant females.
Mastix - A female sadist.
Mastofact - Breast fetish.
Mazoperosis - Mutilation of the breasts.
Meable - Easily penetrated.
Melcryptovestimentaphilia - Attraction to women's black underwear.
Melolagnia - Arousal from music.
Meretricium - A tax on prostitution.
Menophilist - Arousal from menstruating women.
Merinthophilia - Arousal from being bound.
Miscegenation - Sex or marriage between people of different races.
Mixoscopy - The secret observation of a sex act.
Moriaphilia - Arousal from telling sex related jokes.
Mucophagy - The consuming of nasal mucus.
Munchausen's syndrome - Arousal from opening a wound.
Mysophilia - The arousal from handling soiled underwear or foul odors.
Nanophilia - Attraction to short people.
Naphephilia - Arousal from touching or being touched.
Narratophilia - Arousal from telling sex related stories, poems, jokes etc.
Nasophilia - Arousal from kissing, sucking, touching or looking at another's nose.
Necrochlesis - The act of having sex with a corpse.
Necrophilia - Attraction to, or arousal from, corpses.
Necrosadism - Mutilation of corpses for sexual purposes.
Nepiophilia - Adults attraction to an infant of the opposite sex.
Nosolagnia - Arousal from knowing that ones partner has a terminal illness.
Nymphophilia - The love of a female adolescent by an adult.
Nymphotomy - The surgical procedure whereby the inner labia is cut away.
Ochlophilia - Refers to those own find the presence of crowds to bring sexual pleasure.
Oculophilia - Eyeball fetish.
Oculolinctus - The act of licking a persons eyeball for sexual arousal/fulfilment.
Ochlophilia - Arousal from biting.
Odontophilia - Arousal from teeth.
Ondinisme - Arousal from urine.
Ozolagnia - Arousal from odors.
Pageism - Male submitting to a female.
Paizogony - Petting.
Pathicant - A minor who engages in anal sex with an adult.
Paraphilia - Arousal from acts that are generally considered unacceptable by the fetishist (themselves) or society.
Pecattiphilia - Sexual excitement from stealing or sinning.
Pediophilia - Attraction to dolls.
Penotherapy - Regulation of prostitutes as a form of disease control.
Paedophilia - Adult sexual attraction to children.
Phallophilia - Arousal from an erect penis of exceptional dimensions (length or girth).
Philemanmania - Compulsion to kiss.
Philematology - The art of kissing.
Phlebotomy - Blood letting. Often practiced for sexual purposes by Vampyres.
Phobophilia - Arousal from fear.
Phygephilia - Arousal from flight (as in run away).
Podophilia - Foot fetish.
Polyiterophilia - The need for several sex partners before orgasm can occur.
Psychrocism - Arousal from cold, or, arousal from seeking another that is cold.
Psychrotentiginous - Arousal from cold water.
Pygmalionism - Attraction to manikins.
Pygophilia - Arousal from touching, playing with or seeing another's buttocks.
Pyrolagnia - Sexual arousal form watching fire.
Pyrophilia - Sexual arousal from fire.
Raptophilia - Arousal from raping a victim.
Rhabdophilia - Arousal from being flogged, beaten or caned.
S
Sacofricosis ... the practice of cutting a hole in the bottom of a front pant pocket in order to masturbate in public with less risk of detection
Sapphism ....... this is another word for lesbianism
Scelerophilia .. attraction to bad guys or unsavory characters
Scoptophilia ... another word for voyeurism
Scotophilia .... means to be turned on by darkness
Sdrucciola ..... this is another word for copulate
Septophilia .... sexual attraction to decaying matter
Sexcentenary ... not sexual, means the number 600 or 600 years
Siderodromophilia: arousal from riding in trains.
Sitophilia ..... means to derive pleasure from eating
Soceraphilia ... excitement from one's parents-in-law
Staurophilia .... arousal from the cross or crucifix
Sthenolagnia .... arousal from displaying strength or muscles
Stupration ...... this is another word for rape
Stygiophilia .... deriving pleasure from thoughts of hell
Subagitation .... this is another word for copulation
Succubus ........ a female demon who seduces men in their sleep
Supinovalent .... able to fornicate only while lying on the back
Symphorophilia ...... arousal by accidents or catastrophes
Syngenesophilia ..... sexual attraction to one's relatives
T
Taphephilia: arousal from being buried alive.
Taphophilia ......... this means a love of funerals
Teleophilia ......... an affinity for religious ceremonies
Tentiginous ......... this is another word for lascivious
Teratophilia ........ arousal from deformed or monstrous people
Thalassophilia ...... this means a love of the sea
Thassophilia ........ this is an attraction to sitting
Threpterophilia ..... a fondness for female nurses
Thygatrilagnia ...... a father's sexual love for his daughter
Tocophilia .......... a fondness for pregnancy and childbirth
Tonitrophilia ....... this is a love of thunder
Toxiphilia .......... an erotic attraction to poisons
Toxophilia ............ this is an erotic love of archery
Tragalism ............. a term meaning lust; lechery; obscenity
Transfeminate ......... this means to change from woman to man
Traumatophilia ........ an unconscious desire to be injured
Tribadism ............. mutual genital-fondling between lesbians
Trichopathophilia ..... a sexual attraction to hair
U
Undinism .............. associating water with erotic thoughts
Uranism ........... this is another word for homosexuality
Uranophilia ....... sexual arousal by heavenly thoughts
Urolagnia ......... getting sexual pleasure from urinating
Urtication ........ the use of nettles to create extra sensation
Uxoravalent ....... a man only able to attain sex extramaritally
Uxorovalent ....... a man able to have sex only with his wife
V
Vaccinophilia ..... becoming turned on by being vaccinated
Vampirism ..... consuming blood of a partner for arousal
Vicarphilia ... arousal from other's exciting experiences
Vincilagnia ... this means an arousal coming from bondage
Viraginity .... this means masculinity in a woman
Virgin ........ someone who has not had sexual intercourse
Virimimism .... this means the adoption of masculinity
Viripotent .... a term meaning sexually mature
Vitricophilia ... sexual attraction to one's stepfather
W
Wether .......... another word for a castrated ram
Whelp ........... this mean to bear offspring
Whirlygigs ...... another word for testicles
Wittol .......... man who tolerates his wife's infidelity
X
Xenodynamic ..... a man who is only potent with strangers
Xenophilia ...... an attraction to foreign customs, traditions, and to foreigners
Xeronisus .............. the inability to reach orgasm
Xylophilia ............. turned on by wooden objects
Y
Yeld ................... not old enough to procreate
Ylophilia .............. the affinity for forests
Yoni worship ........... the worship of the female genitals
Z
Zelophilia ............. sexual arousal from jealousy
Zooerastia ............. sexual intercourse with an animal

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I've seen many internet 'communities' come and go - vicious cliques that shun newcomers are often part of the deal. I don't see any reason for this site to become one.

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There are also plenty of posts that OPs know that they have the answer to, but simply look to preach to the choir so that they can feel better about their particular position.