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littleone35 -> Away (4/16/2013 2:05:20 PM)

My Master had to go away until Sat i know it is not that long but i miss him. I mean i do try to keep myself busy and productive. That works to a pont it is at night that i get kinda lonely and sad. I mean i have trouble sleeping without him. I got very used to it. He gave me one of his shirts that i wear to bed and that also helps to a pioint.

Any ideas on what else i can do so i that will help me help me not miss hm so much?

Matt's littleone




ARIES83 -> RE: Away (4/16/2013 2:20:00 PM)

I sympathise, but I think your screwed.
You could try doing things to take your mind off it.




NuevaVida -> RE: Away (4/16/2013 2:42:35 PM)

Go to the gym, or long walks/bike rides, and tire yourself out.

Catch up on movies/books you've been meaning to enjoy.

Call or visit a friend you haven't seen in awhile.

Do some spring cleaning and donate items and clothes to a shelter or Salvation Army, and donate old blankets to your local animal shelter.

Plant some flowers.

Contact your local Meals On Wheels and see if there's a volunteer orientation this week that you can attend. Over here, there's a waiting list to sign up for meals because they are so short on drivers.

Stay busy and productive. The time will pass quickly and you'll feel good about how you spent it.




poise -> RE: Away (4/16/2013 6:53:54 PM)

Get an encyclopedia, preferably the M one (for Matt) and take it to bed every night.
Trust me...it only sounds kinky. Saturate your brain till your eyes can't take it anymore.




littlewonder -> RE: Away (4/16/2013 7:25:54 PM)

Master is away all week as well. He goes out of town like this periodically for work.

Yes, I miss him when he's away but we make sure we keep in contact through little text messages all day long and phone calls and such but to be honest, I have work that keeps me busy, school work and studying, coming home and catching up on chores so that when he comes home I won't have to be doing those instead of spending quality time with him and by the time I get all of that done, it's time for bed.

I used to have a lot of trouble sleeping when he isn't here but now that I get up every morning for work at 5am, I'm usually out like a light by 10am.

I still suffer from my insomnia though sometimes, like tonight but even with that, I'm never up past midnight.

Maybe find a hobby to keep you busy. If you work, keep busy with thinking of stuff you can learn to help your career further along. Read books, write, take a walk, exercise, hang out with friends or family, have your Dom give you stuff to do to keep you busy.Learn to do something for him that you know he has always wanted or you have always wanted.




lilcracker -> RE: Away (4/17/2013 2:13:19 AM)

The dog gets happy when the man is away because she gets to sleep in the bed because he kicks her out and I don't. It's rare he is not here so it's especially anticipated by the dog. Having her in the bed to snuggle with helps. I sometimes enjoy the 'me' time when he is away. I lived solo for so long, I got used to the 'me' time and having that from time to time is nice.




littleone35 -> RE: Away (4/17/2013 10:58:08 AM)

Thank you all for the advice i wil let you know if it helps.

Matt's littleone




kalikshama -> RE: Away (4/21/2013 5:17:27 PM)

So did it help? [:)]

If I'd been on time for the party I would have suggested cardio. This time of year is good for Spring Cleaning and gardening.

You could also get a big body pillow and put some pillow cases on it that he has slept on.




littleone35 -> RE: Away (4/23/2013 11:37:30 AM)

It did help a little but i am so very gkad he is home. Cuddling with him i mych then cuddling my stufed tiger ( a gift fron him) . Thank you for youe help.

Matt's littleine




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