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angelikaJ -> RE: Task2. Look from other corner (4/17/2013 4:45:34 PM)
What any of us do is irrelevant, presuming this is about your actual relationship and not just a hypothetical. The question is: Do you share? Are you monogamous and what is your view/definition of monogamy? Did your partner tell you she was monogamous? Her current behavior does not seem to reflect that. If you are monogamous and she is not then that presents a substantial conflict. In my case being monogamous means I do not flirt with other Masters. I have no desire to flirt with other people.

littlewonder -> RE: Task2. Look from other corner (4/17/2013 5:24:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Swordling I continue testing of your patience, sorry for that). But I am curious (?) your replies, even if i don't understand it completely. Task2 You are Top. Your bottom female (very real) dutifully informed you about desire of some Top. Desire/wish to spend time with her in the virtual session. You asked her "Do you need it?" She said, "I do not know. I will do as you say" Do You allow or disallow this? Why do you accept such a solution? I have no idea at all what you mean but I'll try my best to take a stab at it. I would never ask him for this since I have zero interest in playing with others. If for some odd reason I did ask though and I didn't know if I needed it, he would look at me and wonder why I wanted to do it then. I mean, if you're asking for it, you obviuosly want it. If that was the case, he'd either say no or he would sit back and want us to take some time to find out what's missing that he is not fulfilling or what has changed in my life, etc.... If that's not what you mean then I'm clueless.

LadyPact -> RE: Task2. Look from other corner (4/17/2013 5:42:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske LP, do you really think that's true? I myself do not do cyber or phone - says so right on my profile. But I can't imagine breaking up with someone because they have a sexual interest that does not float my boat. I guess I'm halfway there - there are sexual interests and fetishes that if you have them when we meet, we are probably not going further. But only probably. And about half those things I would willingly do for n established partner, if their interest came about after the relationship was established. I would say that it is true in My particular case. There isn't a thing that can be done in the cyber world that can't be orchestrated as a scene in the real world. If people want to play games online, they just aren't for Me.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Task2. Look from other corner (4/17/2013 6:21:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact It's a trick question. Anybody who belonged to Me wouldn't come to ask permission for cyber nonsense. Anybody desiring that kind of crap wouldn't be Mine in the first place. This. ^^^^ All of it. If a sub wants cyber crap rather than real time, he's not for me. If he thinks I'm so lacking that he needs to fill in the gap with cyber crap, again, he's not for me. If he thinks I'm lacking, he needs to tell me, so I can step it up a notch. [;)] NBMG

JeffBC -> RE: Task2. Look from other corner (4/17/2013 6:54:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders My husband wouldn't share. To be honest, I think he'd be annoyed with me if I came to ask him every time someone on the internet wanted to dom me online. Why? Because 99.9% of people wanting to do this would be wanting a quick wank chuckles Man... I'm feeling less vanilla. So I actually DID share Carol with the "fuck me joey" guy specifically for a quick wank. I even went to the trouble to set up the photo shoot and I made a really nice temporary tattoo for the occasion (which Joey didn't like ~sighs heavily~) Carol's standing instructions for anyone propositioning her anywhere -- online or otherwise -- is to tell the person that she'd be happy to check with me and find out what she's to do. Such decisions are mine. LOL, does this make me kinky?

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