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he is back - 6/24/2006 3:13:31 AM

mons

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greeting to all

I post sometime ago about a submissive who have stood me up '
for dates i finally wrote here and i was given the best advice a mistress could get. I let him know this was not something i wish to have in my life and let him go.

Now here come the fun part as i let thing go and just decide he was
playing games here comes my submissive now after much talk and no warning just letting him no i was not intrerested at all. He beg to come back on knees and he wrote a pledge after much speaking and coming to terms with what i wanted from him and what i will never put up with he had turn to a wonderful slave and i would had told anyone i would had never thought he would learn what a lose meant, he has not i am now very happy with this slave and well i do thank all of you for you help i listen and did not act like i know everything i listen to so well minded dommes and mistresses who know we do not know it all everyone can use help from time to time. I hope i can help someone someday too

thank you so ladies and man yes he was scared as some say too
mons/jane

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RE: he is back - 6/24/2006 5:48:01 AM

MHOO314

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I wish you well mons and all the best, however, a word of experienced caution---a leopard does not change his spots. Be careful this time.

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RE: he is back - 6/24/2006 5:58:28 AM

LadyMorgynn

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I agree with MH. Also, during this time period that you didn't hear from him, he was probably off trying to schmooze his way in with another Domme and when she finally figured him out and cast him off, he turned back to you.

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I wish you well mons and all the best, however, a word of experienced caution---a leopard does not change his spots. Be careful this time.

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They ALWAYS come back - 6/24/2006 6:31:40 AM

MizSuz

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Especially if they're the sort to always look for the greener grass on the other side of the fence, or that next best thing. They get out in the world and then remember that it wasn't so easy finding someone when they are one submissive in a sea of submissives. They get a taste of what's actually out there and usually come running back.

I'm pretty firm about not taking someone back as a sub under these circumstances, but I'm not averse to being friends. I prefer not to let someone else's journey to find what they think they are looking for be the cause of my being a leaf in the wind.

I hope this all works out well for you, mons. I agree with MH, too. Take it slow and don't invest too much of yourself until you've had time to take it on a long test drive.

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RE: he is back - 6/24/2006 9:29:39 AM

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I'm with the other ladies here... if you sense that this one is pulling away or checking out other options again... give him a swift kick & send him on his way.

I hope things work out for you...

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