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help!!! - 4/25/2013 12:13:41 PM   
willingtoserve62


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Joined: 9/24/2012
Status: offline 		Hi,
well i am an inexperienced slave and need some serious suggestions on how can i approach a domina so that i can make her feel that i can serve her in real without being a pain in her ass.

plz help!!!
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RE: help!!! - 4/25/2013 12:41:08 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		Read the FAQ at the top of the forum. Your question has already been answered. A good submissive does his own homework.

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RE: help!!! - 4/25/2013 3:07:14 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		To some, the term 'inexperienced slave' is an oxymoron. If one has never been a slave, then they aren't being accurate in calling themselves a slave.

Sure, there will be some who say that you can call yourself whatever you want. That is your right. Just don't expect everyone to take you sincerely when you do.


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RE: help!!! - 4/25/2013 8:06:25 PM   
peppermint


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Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		Ask her on a date, or

Take her to dinner, or

Spend the evening having a great conversation with her,

Invite her on a picnic, or

Take a drive to see the fall colors. 

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RE: help!!! - 4/25/2013 8:09:04 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: willingtoserve62

Hi,
well i am an inexperienced slave and need some serious suggestions on how can i approach a domina so that i can make her feel that i can serve her in real without being a pain in her ass.

plz help!!!


Will, don't listen to these putzes....I'm here for you bud....

Here's how you do it:

You find a Domina (Domme/Dominatrix/FemDomme, etc.), you walk up to her plaintively and (cautiously) say...."Hey bitch....what's shaking hon?"

(Carry a weapon...occasionally this is not as effective for some).

It could take a few times.

Never give up.

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RE: help!!! - 4/26/2013 7:36:59 PM   
absolutchocolat


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Different dommes want different things. Some women like the direct approach, and other dommes want to approach a potential submissive instead of the other way around. If you find yourself interested in someone on the other side, READ her profile carefully. If you fit her requirements, are within her search area, and have similar tastes to hers, message her. I cannot tell you how many messages I delete from asshats in some far-off locale saying "i want to be your bitch", even though my profile says I am looking for friends and am engaged.

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RE: help!!! - 4/26/2013 9:02:56 PM   
FrostedFlake


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RE: help!!! - 4/26/2013 11:35:09 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		Find a female dominant you like, with (or without) a kink list you can submit to, and approach her respectully, being a gentleman, and remembering she is simply a lady.
Good luck, and welcome to the boards, M

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RE: help!!! - 5/1/2013 5:01:03 AM   
willingtoserve62


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Status: offline 		Thank u so much ma'am... but the thing is that... india has a sheer deficiency of real domina. :(

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RE: help!!! - 5/1/2013 5:02:17 AM   
willingtoserve62


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Status: offline 		Thank you ma'am....

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