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servantforuse -> Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 6:18:02 AM)

i am currently serving a Dominant Black Woman. i am interested in websites that cater to submissives that believe that Black Women are superior and should own whites as their slaves. i hope any such sites might help me to better serve my owner. i am proud to be "Black Owned". slave michael



CuteIrishM4F -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 6:36:42 AM)

While i think i am unqualified to comment, i am a little worried about what you have said. Feeling subordinate to your preferred sex and preferred choice in the BDSM spectrum is one thing but feeling subordinate to a 'race' is strange to me. i'm not judging, just curious as to why this is. Are you American? If so, you should probably ask yourself: "is this white guilt?" Be very careful not to offend her. If she is cool with it, then happy days, but be careful how you approach her with these feelings. i personally don't think bringing racial superiority into BDSM is a very good idea, but if its your fantasy thaen its your business. i just hope no one else id offended by it.
a.



servantforuse -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 6:43:40 AM)

My Mistress knows of my feelings. We talk often about them. i just feel much more submissive serving a woman of color.



LadyMorgynn -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 6:58:59 AM)

Actually, I have met a couple of black Domme's who were very much into black female superiority, and looked primarily for white (but also Asian) slaves, both male and female. 

BDSM casts a wide net.  The most important thing is to hook up with someone with similar views, wants, needs, desires to one's own.

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ORIGINAL: CuteIrishM4F

While i think i am unqualified to comment, i am a little worried about what you have said. Feeling subordinate to your preferred sex and preferred choice in the BDSM spectrum is one thing but feeling subordinate to a 'race' is strange to me. i'm not judging, just curious as to why this is. Are you American? If so, you should probably ask yourself: "is this white guilt?" Be very careful not to offend her. If she is cool with it, then happy days, but be careful how you approach her with these feelings. i personally don't think bringing racial superiority into BDSM is a very good idea, but if its your fantasy thaen its your business. i just hope no one else id offended by it.
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openmindedslave -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 9:49:40 AM)

I knew one black mistress that was into control in pretty much any form , including humilation and sissification. She said once in a conversation that she would never treat a black man to what she put a white male through. Even thought she enjoys the company of white males more, she just said she could not  do what she does with a man of her color.



RosaB -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 9:54:14 AM)

Can't say I know of any sites, not really able to help you with your plight, but just be careful when you run your fingers through her hair.  We can be very touchy about things like that.

PS

No I don't believe in Superiority of the sexes nor races, but to each their own. and yes I would be offended if my sub/slave partner believed in such a thing beyond role play.



missalice -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 9:56:33 AM)

www.badassblackchick.com <-- My friend, Goddess Dark Angel.... she has links to other Ebony Dominas as well.



mistressrose10 -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 10:03:58 AM)

To each his own.As a Black Dominant, I enjoy white subs immensely but do not consider them submissive because of their race nor do I consider myself to be Dominant by virtue of mine.I find something  visually erotic in the contrast of black and white but find any kind of racial supremacy ideology to be distasteful but if this works for you and your Domme-good for you!



missalice -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 10:14:22 AM)

PS: I consider BDSM to be a healthy way to deal with white guilt..... if you are aware of what you are doing...

I think that black people, genetically, are superior to white people. Stronger and more beautiful.



CuteIrishM4F -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 1:01:40 PM)

i would have to contend with Miss Alice. No 'race' is more beautiful, nor stronger, nor in any way more superior than another.  We are all equals. Individuals may be any combination of superior, but not the race. We all have our individual preferences too, but we are all individuals.
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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/24/2006 5:54:50 PM)

DEAR SAINT MICHEAL;WHAT WOMAN IS'NT TREATED AS BLACK-HISTORY,TO SOME DEGREE ,OVERALL;  IN SOME WAY ;ALL ,OVER THE G. D .WORLD,....SAINT MIKE?;MAYBE YOU JUST LIKE EMPHASIZING THE CONTRASTING SKIN COLORS ,AND ,IGNORING THE MORE OBVIOUS TOP WOMAN LABEL;
WHATEVER....no disrespect intended



MaiadeMilo -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/25/2006 12:19:57 AM)

I am a Black Domme who has had slaves serve me or wish to serve me because of the color of my skin.  Some have felt that Black women are more aggressive and independent than white women; others have believed they needed to sacrifice themselves to make up for what their ancestors did to my ancestors.  Born into a bi-racial family, I was not raised to see color.  I was taught to respect those that respect themselves as a person, and as a people.  This also means respecting a person's right to their own personal preferences.  Do I feel that women are stronger than men? Absolutely--that is my personal opinion.  Do I feel that Black women are stronger than women of another race? No. A strong woman is a woman who gains her power through her life experiences.  If a slave wishes to serve me based on the color of my skin, well, that is his choice.  As my grandmother used to say, "It doesn't matter what color you are because we're ALL Black once the lights go out."
There is one website that I know of that specializes in the history and the culture of Blacks in BDSM: www.blackconnections.com Check it out!  Hopefully you can find some of your answers there.



mnottertail -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/25/2006 4:52:39 AM)

LOLOLOL,

Ain't that the truth.

(my world is round again, thank you for the giggle)

Ronne



IronBear -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/25/2006 5:17:43 AM)

Does it really matter what the race or colour??? I'd hope not. It certainly isn't part of my criteria for friends or slaves and slaves in my collar are friends first. (is this why my circle of friends keeps reducing???? [;)])
Seriously she (either friend or slave) could be any pure race oir colour or any mic as long as they were good honest folks and I got on with them I's happy.... Lovers? Guess that depends again on the person.. If i have a preference and all other thigs being equsl, I have a slight leaning for exotic women but that is so small it doesn't really count. BBW? HELL YES.... Shyte, Neets is a big girl and I'm not exactly tiny (Glares at Big Hairy) in any case.....



servantforuse -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/25/2006 6:30:35 AM)

i am sure it isn't a racial issue with me. i have never had to "top from the bottom" while serving a woman of color. They seem to be more demanding and know what they want from a slave. i think that is what i enjoy most in serving a Black woman. michael



peterK50 -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/25/2006 7:37:28 AM)

I have served a black Domme & the crop feels the same on your behind as from a white Domme believe me. I don't think race matters one bit, it's the individual that matters



GoddessDarkAngel -> Dominant Black Women (6/25/2006 8:49:23 AM)

Thank you Miss Alice for the post.The reality is that submissives prefer Dominants for an array of reasons. Maybe becasue she is blonde, tall or black and the list goes on and on. Majority of the slaves that submit to me do so because I'm a young black dominant. Who they choose to serve and why is their choice.
~ Goddess Dark Angel The BadAssBlackChick
http://www.badassblackchick.com



bustablkboy -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/27/2006 7:13:23 AM)

This really hits home. As a sub black male with like acquaintenaces, I can say that there are a significant number of us (black males) desperate for the attention of ANY Domme. Lucky sub...



collardbottom -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/27/2006 7:38:32 AM)

your first sentence was quite correct.  leave it at that.



collardbottom -> RE: Dominant Black Women (6/27/2006 7:48:03 AM)

there seems to be a lot of intolerance here which i find strange in a site devoted to abherant (sp) behavior.  So, let me say that i hate to see Black Men submissive.  And white guilt is not a bad thing, it is an earned thing.
Personally, i look for racist Black Masters and Mistress's who DO prefer white slaves BECAUSE they are white.
but that is just my opinion, i could be wrong.



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