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Subprincess19 -> Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 12:04:34 AM)

Hello! I am pretty new to the lifestyle and this side of CM. With that being said, I would love to meet new, friendly people. (Having a pretty hard time find such on the other side as most want to speak about kink and sex and doesn't want to hold a conversation. (About anything really) Ah, I am rambling, but basically I just wanted to introduce myself. I hope everyone is having an awesome night!



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 12:09:17 AM)

Welcome to the boards, Sp19! Great profile. I hope someone wonderful comes your way!



Subprincess19 -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 12:16:47 AM)

Thank you!

I am glad you enjoyed my profile, as many feel the opposite about it and say I come off as rude.. Lol.

How are you?



lizi -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 3:24:42 AM)

Hi and welcome. It's pretty common as a woman to run across guys seeking instant thrills, they seem to think women are on this site solely for the purpose of gratifying them and they're the ones missing out in the end- they don't seem to realize anything exists other than their own needs.

Just stick to your guns, it weeds out the ones who aren't a match for you pretty quickly.



Rasciallymisty -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 5:16:31 AM)

Greetings and welcome to the forum side where great convos do take place. What a nicely written profile you have and no you do not ask to much. May you find the one you seek....LOL after weeding through the many that do not dissever you.



DarkSteven -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 5:19:05 AM)

Hi there!

Just letting you know - you're bi and open to poly. That's a huge thing here - LOTS of MF couples looking to add a third just like you. I'd expect you get overwhelmed by offers from couples.

Welcome to the forums.



OohAahMrs -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 7:25:50 AM)

Welcome to CM It'll come to you or they'll come to you.



Subprincess19 -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 3:05:36 PM)

Thank you! Glad you think so.



Subprincess19 -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 3:08:44 PM)

You would think so wouldn't you? It is actually quite the opposite as many here are stand offish towards me because whay is written in my profile. Supposedly I am not a 'true submissive' lol.



Subprincess19 -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 3:12:55 PM)

Great advice! Thanks!



MasterCaneman -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 5:52:57 PM)

Hello. I think you have a pretty clear and cogent profile. Welcome and have fun.



DomMeinCT -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 6:33:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Subprincess19

You would think so wouldn't you? It is actually quite the opposite as many here are stand offish towards me because whay is written in my profile. Supposedly I am not a 'true submissive' lol.


Translate that "true submissive" crap you're getting as "Oh, I see new meat on CM and upon reading her profile, realize we're not compatible, so I'll tell her it's her problem instead of mine." When you get those, all the work is done for you: delete and move on. [;)]

Welcome to CM and have fun here!



TNDommeK -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/27/2013 6:41:34 PM)

Hi and welcome. I would think if people are put off from your profile then it saved you time. Your profile was well written and to the point. Which is what some one like Myself or the Hubby would look for. So there are people out there. Good luck to you, hope you stick around and chit chat with us. We have great topics and sometimes we get entertainment from wanderers who happen to stray over to this side. So pull up a chair, it's fun here on the forums.



Subprincess19 -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/28/2013 5:57:23 PM)

I love to read and I would really like to read a book about bdsm since I am so new & would like to know all about the lifestyle, what to look for in a partner, what to expect, how to be safe & so on. Anyone know any good books? Please noone say "Fifty shades of Grey." I loathe that book..



DomMeinCT -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/28/2013 6:10:56 PM)

ResidentSadist's list is what you're seeking: http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm



kookycreature -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/29/2013 2:39:46 AM)

I'm always open for conversation and chitchat!
Two books I've got on that matter are 'BDSM The Naked Truth' and 'The Ultimate Guide to Kink'.



phoenixasubbie -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/29/2013 2:50:57 AM)

Welcome. I have been routinely told that I am not submissive enough, and that what I want is not realistic--except by the one(s) who wanted the same.
Don't pay those people any mind.

Your profile is perfect if it expresses you and what you want. Good Luck to you in your search!



LadyPact -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/29/2013 3:15:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Subprincess19

I love to read and I would really like to read a book about bdsm since I am so new & would like to know all about the lifestyle, what to look for in a partner, what to expect, how to be safe & so on. Anyone know any good books? Please noone say "Fifty shades of Grey." I loathe that book..
Oh, I like you already. Welcome to the forums.

The booklist from Resident Sadist really is excellent. I hope you will find a title there that you will enjoy.




TNDommeK -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/29/2013 10:59:13 AM)

Yes she's a keeper. You'll fit in fine here, op.



Subprincess19 -> RE: Meeting someone new (4/29/2013 5:33:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kookycreature

I'm always open for conversation and chitchat!
Two books I've got on that matter are 'BDSM The Naked Truth' and 'The Ultimate Guide to Kink'.


I am actually really interested in BDSM The Naked Truth. What is your personal opinion on the book?



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