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perverseangelic -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 12:21:35 PM)

I have to throw in my 2c here.

I -love- nipple peircings. I think they're beautiful. However I have yet to meet someone (in real life) that has been able to -keep- their nipple piercings for more than a year or two.Without exception they've either migrated, or failed to heal, or caused complications. I have yet to meet someone who has had piercings make anything more enjoyable.

I had mine done for just about a year. I LOVED them. They looked great, and when no one was touching me, they felt great. However, first, they weren't friendly with anyone. Touching them at -all- hurt a great deal. Even after a year. (yes, I was very good with my aftercare and have sucessfully healed other piercings). My Owner couldn't play with them. Heck, he could barely play with my breasts at all. Second, after about two months they started to gradually migrate. I had them pierced deep to avoid some migration, but despite that they -still- did. So, eventually they came out. This has happened to everyone I've ever met with nipple piercings.

I'm not attempting to disuade you from it. I've met people online that have had no problems whatsoever. And I -still- think they're beautiful. I'm almost tempted to try to do mine again. Just wanted to offer my experience.

One thing, though, is to make SURE your owner is ok with not messing with your breats at ALL for 4-6 months (which most piercers agree is average healing time). This includes not getting saliva or semen on them. Letting them alone to heal seems to be the best way to avoid problems. I know with my Owner, that's the biggest reason I'm not alloewd to do them again--he doesn't want to not be able to play with them.




aellea -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 12:24:06 PM)

Noah, that was asked so sweetly and with such a sense of humor... to be honest, this was explained to me by my piercer where i used to live in new albany indiana.  he was a real stickler for being precise and went into a lot of verbage that i didn't understand.  i wish i could give you more info but i just don't have it.  i'm sure the muscular striation is a good example and i doubt either if there are many piercings that deeply embedded.  his explanation, from what i understood, went along the lines of what erin posted immediately after what i wrote.  again, i loved the sense of humor




oldnavychief -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 12:35:45 PM)

had a prince albert done may 2005 by a ver good piercer in florida   have streched it to 0 guage   no problems.   heal time approx 1 wkke   bled like a stuck hog for first two days though  was in hospital recently   a hundred questions from two nurses  wouldn't change nothing




Noah -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 12:50:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: aellea

Noah, that was asked so sweetly and with such a sense of humor...


Well, between sweetnessforsir's: " tips on getting through it" and your erstwhile piercer being such a "stickler" this thread has all kinds of smiles to offer.

As for perversangelic's concerns about residual tenderness. Thanks for keep us abreast, perv, but really-- for a Sado/maso couple do you envision any downside?

And I feel compelled to ask oldnavychief: did your top ever reward you with some Prince Albert in a can?




brokenshadowlost -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 12:51:21 PM)

also a lil known tip for cleaning and healing of the nipples  faster and with much more depth than sea salt is a Wound cleaner and medicated  soap.You can Find any Wound cleaner  at sav-on there is one that is in a blue bottle and    the liquid is red, i can Not think of the name right now.But i healing very well and through and through the nipple which is what you want, Most heal in the edges and then the sore insides take forever.But Since there is a hole some Consider it a sort of wound, and it works wonders.Medicated soap seems like ment and its really strong, you can find that at your tatto and pirecing shop( it should be there)its very thick.Good Luck...




jonathan -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 12:55:05 PM)

JessieMe,

i see that you have gotten a lot of good advice. i've wanted a piercing done for a few years and, after A LOT of research and indecision, had it done in late April. A frenum. It healed quickly and i love it. Everyone has raised the two most important things, reputable piercer and migration. my piercer wouldn't do the frenum where i wanted it because the skin was too thin and a small blood vessel was too close. i knew someone years ago who took Her girl to San Francisco to get her nipples done because that was who She trusted. A cross country flight from Manhattan. myself, i took a long weekend to travel to get mine done. She joking called Herself the 'Frenum Queen' because She'd done so many. i don't know where you are, but if you go through with it and the distance is not an issue, my piercer is in Fairfax, Virginia and i'd have Her do another one on me in a heartbeat. i'm new to these boards, so i hope the mods let this link go through: http://www.lbn-tattoo.com/. Ask for Lillian.

On migration/rejection, it's a matter of having enough of the right type of tissue there. Not everyone can have one done anywhere they please. And i have known women who've had perfect success with nipple piercings.

i noticed that almost no guys have posted here, not even the ones that answered the 'male nipples' thread in Ask a Mistress. i've thought a lot about how i'd feel about being told that i'd have to have mine done. i met a guy at a Mistress Luncheon last fall that had a beautiful set, styled just like the "slip on" ones mentioned in another post to this thread, except they were for real. i've always had concerns about interference with NT, and, like Sunshine119, i LOVE NT. i wonder how many submissive men out there have or want to have nipple piercings and aren't posting to this thread because a woman initiated it.

The pain is sharp, short, and exquisite. Followed by a faint lingering burn for a few days. At least that's how it was for me.

Good luck.




saage -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 1:13:46 PM)

i had mine done 4&1/2 years ago.  it did hurt, but not that much.  the second was worse because my brain was ready for it.  they felt hot for the first day most likely from my immune system responding to the foreign objects.  that afternoon was wonderful just riding the endorphines. 

the one instruction i recall was to stay away from antiseptics and alcohol based cleansers because they cause drying which apparently is not good.  i'm sure your piercer will tell you what is best.

as for the healing taking forever, it does.  the tissue in the nipple is similar to whats in your tongue and if you remove the jewelry it will close in a matter of hours.  the inside will never truly heal.  mine formed crust on the edges for 8 months after they were done.  what really helped me was to switch to barbells from rings.  the crusting stopped after a week and has not returned. 




chellekitty -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 2:22:15 PM)

mine were pierced for a second time last Feb 06...the first time they were done they were done wrong (ack!) and one migrated while the other kept getting infected so i took them out....the second time was a much different experience...like others have said it is a hot firey sensation that is over very quick...since then i have had a few painful experiences with them such as a small cane tapping the tip of my nipple and a dogs toe nail catching the ring when he pawed me lol...but they only lasted a few minutes...i guess they are a lot more sensative and stay hard most of the time ... on the subject of longevity, my piercer has hers done twice, horizontally and vertically and has had them in for 7 and 4 years respectively...when ever mine look like they are wanting to get infected or i have let them get further than that i douse them with balsam of myrrh, which is a miracle cure for almost anything, piercings, burns, cuts, pimples...




LadiesBladewing -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 2:39:21 PM)

I had mine done, and my septum pierced at the same time. I've always said that I'd have my nipples done 15 times before I'd ever let anyone pierce my septum again!

That being said, with a good piercer, the experience is intense, but not horrible. The area that the nipples are to be pierced is marked on both sides, and the piercing is done with a smooth, but not abrupt motion. My piercer used a cork on the other side of the nipple to "catch" the piercing needle, and then threaded the ring.

One thing I -can- recommend is that you -not- get the little pointed beads on your capture-ring... The dom I had at the time (the man my Owner willed me to when he died, to share responsibility for me with his FC, SR, until she could get back on her feet from the loss) wanted the little pointed drops, and they were a pain in the butt -- they kept turning inside out and puncturing my breasts any time I wore a shirt or a bra -- which made going to work both dangerous and painful (I have to be very careful about skin punctures). Stick to standard capture beads.

Oh... and nasal septum piercings hurt for MONTHS after they're done. The nipple piercings stopped hurting in about 4 days, for me.

ZWD




LadiesBladewing -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 2:45:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

I have to throw in my 2c here.

I -love- nipple peircings. I think they're beautiful. However I have yet to meet someone (in real life) that has been able to -keep- their nipple piercings for more than a year or two.Without exception they've either migrated, or failed to heal, or caused complications. I have yet to meet someone who has had piercings make anything more enjoyable.



I've had mine for 4 years, though I'm thinking about taking them out, mostly because I didn't get them for myself, and never really wanted them. I'd rather have an eyebrow piercing and a couple more tats.

As far as enjoyability -- we haven't noticed much difference at all. The piercings do mean that my nipples never completely retract, but that hasn't been much of an issue.

I guess the point is that everyone reacts differently, and nobody knows who is going to react how until they go through it.

Also, I recommend surgical steel or niobium rings -- it seems that nipple rings of other metals -do- tend to migrate or have trouble healing. Mine were purple and teal niobium, with the captive bead in the alternating color. I had them switched last year to rainbow titanium, but titanium isn't good for the initial piercing.

ZWD





jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 3:32:10 PM)

dear jessie
imagination is worse than reality and sometimes makes reality ,so here's an example; a man on a tight rope said he never falls for one reason;he never imagines himself falling ,ESPECIALLY ,when he is learning SOMETHING NEW,or going on the tight-rope- walks;
they demonstrated this with ordinary people by hypnosis;
EACH  person was told to walk a chalk line on the floor ;keeping perfect ballance; which everyone did perfect and easy ,but, when it was suggested that each OF THE SAME persons should imagine the same line ,as a very high wire ,and, not, just a simple chalk line on the floor , they all imagined falling off a high-wire;and ,everyone failed,and  ;they all failed to walk ,the same line, on the floor ,without falling ,or hesitated ,with  fear;they could'nt do what they did so easy before;
altho in reality :it was, just a line on the floor ,not a high wire,they were told to imagine; it was'nt possible to fall off the line on the floor ,or even the suggested  high wire ,at all....
it was the same chalk line ,on the floor;
the one they all  did so perfectly before,
but, the' imagination 'did it all.....
,so the wire walkers 'golden-rule',about the imagination being so powerful ,and, just don't imagine falling ; works ;
so....
i would say :simply don't imagine failure ,when it comes to piercing ;don't even think at all, if all you imagine is making you upset! ,
in this case: it is all your imagination;that's all ....
so imagine the needle going thru smoothly;like they did it a million times before ,or they would'nt be in bussiness,or ,with a good rep.,and, then : you can look at them like a dependent -pet ,or baby in the high-chair would ,IF- they mess up :AS, IN THIS case,& drop the food on it's head ,or something;
,BESIDES:....
it's highly unlikely you would consent to your local fiend anyway ,or pop into position ,for a glutz....
is'nt it ?!




JessieMe -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 3:41:49 PM)

You all are awesome.. thank you so much..

Your input is helping to ease me a great deal and the next time I speak with Master I will ask Him to also read this post. (if He is interested of course).




BuxomGoddess714 -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 4:45:55 PM)

The size of you nipples will have a LOT to do with how long it takes to heal and also the migration problem.  You need to use a RING, not a bar, in the beginning so you can turn it to clean the inside of the wound.  My nipples are so big, the curvature in the ring was causing the migration.  It took over a year for mine to heal.  I had one incident with a very passionate Dom where I had handcuff jewelry hanging from a bar, he took it in his mouth and went a little crazy and tore my nipple a bit.  At the time I was freaked out, but He is special to me, it healed over and I don't mind the little scar reminder of Him  :)  The piercing itself was painful, but over quickly and like others say, the endorphin rush lasts for days so its worth it.  The healing felt to me like someone was constantly playing with them and I had NO problem with that.  I got my best friends peirced for her birthday, and she said the same thing so maybe it has a lot to do with what you expect?  Her husband even thanked me cuz she was so horny hehehe  My last partner removed my jewlry, put it on his keyring because he wanted it to heal and now a year later, my piercing is healed.  I never would have done that unless I thought he was "The One" forever and he totally played me.  I had my piercing for about 5 years and I will probably get it re-done.  I don't want to say I "regret" letting it heal for him because I was just doing what the man I was in love with asked me to do....   But lets just say I wish I had done it for someone who really was in love with me, because it was a sacrifice.  My piercing made my nipples more sensitive and I prefer having my nipples pierced.  I miss it.  It's worth getting it done.  Good Luck.
Goddess




GddssBella -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 5:15:30 PM)

G'evening all:


JM, I've noticed lots of people discussing migration, care, rejection, etc. Not one single person mentioned INFECTION. When a female pierces her nipples, she's also piercing her milk ducts. Now, most gals get lucky and never have a problem. I was one of the those flaky few that ended up with a problem.

After 18 months or so, despite my scrupulous care, the piercing on my right nipple became infected and an abscess developed inside my breast. After seeing a breast surgery specialist, I was told to meet the doctor at the hospital for emergency surgery. The abscess had only been developing for 5 days mind you. During the recovery period in the hospital (my stay was 4 days long), the surgeon gave me a stern scolding. I could have lost my entire breast if it had not been caught in time. I run the risk of recurrence in the future. So guess what my advice is??? You're nuts if you even think about it. No matter how pretty it is, it's insane. Your femininity, your body is not worth your vanity. Nor your master's pleasure. I can supply you with the doctor's information if you wish to verify or follow up.

DO NOT PIERCE YOUR NIPPLES!!!


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...


[:D]


Bella




JessieMe -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/24/2006 6:04:24 PM)

Bella,

Thank you for your post. I really appreciate you giving me a reality check and will definitely keep this in mind as Master makes His decision regarding this.

I do have to say though.... considering your post.. I really did get quite a chuckle over your signature line... [sm=flowers.gif]




LadiesBladewing -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/25/2006 6:27:35 AM)

GddssBella,

It was wonderful of you to post a caution, and I can certainly respect you not getting yours redone, but I really think that it is an over-reaction to tell others never to get theirs done because -you- got an infection. The reality is that, with a body-mod aware physician, depending on where the infection was, you may have been able to -keep- your piercing. When a piercing gets infected, in most cases one of the -worst- things you can do for the piercing is remove the jewelry -- this can allow the outside of the wound to heal, and trap the infection inside the body, where it can spread, unchecked. It sounds like your doctor opened up your breast, which may also have been an unncecessary invasion. most breast abcesses that I've dealt with as a midwife were handled by local anesthesia and a simple needle draining. I'm curious about why your doctor had to be so invasive. I've dealt with breast abcesses for -years- as a midwife that had nothing whatsoever to do with piercings, and, because I prefer to work with alternative-lifestyle households, I've also worked with women who -had- piercings, but developed the abcess due to breast-feeding. I never had a woman who had to stop breast-feeding OR remove her nipple piercing over an abcess. Their doctors and I worked with them with antibiotics (occasionally IV), drainage, and continued nursing (I won't kid you, nursing with a breast infection or abbcess hurts like a royal BEAR... I had one with my first baby and wanted to die!)

Several years ago, I was driving my car and the mat came up from the floorboard and the little metal piece they put on to keep the carpet from fraying on the corners sliced the side of my foot. I developed an infection called cellulitis, that grew under my skin. It was horrific, painful, and I spent 10 days in the hospital trying to find an antibiotic that would work to kill the infection (which turned out to be an antibiotic resistant form of staph). The experience was traumatic, but I certainly wouldn't tell peple never to drive again (in fact, I actually drive myself).

I also developed a breast abcess when nursing my 1st child. I spent 3 days in the hospital, while they cleaned out the abcessed duct and ran IV antibiotics. We caught it quickly, because, like most infections of this caliber, I felt like CRUD. I developed a fever and my breast ached worse than it's counterpart by orders of magnitude, even before there were any signs on my breast of an infection. Having been a midwife, though, I recognized the common symptoms, and got treatment -- and even then, not soon enough to catch it before it abcessed, but I have a tendency for infections to get nasty very quickly. Again, while extremely unpleasant, and potentially dangerous if not treated (like any infection), I certainly wouldn't use this as a reason to recommend that NO woman ever breastfeed again... in fact, the only clients I would take for a homebirth was a woman who had already decided to breastfeed.

I think that it is important to have full information on which to make a decision -- I also think that we're all adults here.

  • Check your piercer's sanitation. Make sure the piercing tools are properly cared for, and, preferentially, sterile and NEVER re-used.
  • Make sure that the piercer (for nipple piercings) marks the nipple far enough back.
  • Do your home-care, and avoid oral contact with the healing piercing (my piercer recommended a -minimum- of 6 months without having oral contact, but said that a year to 2 years was more realistic for many women, since the nipple tends to heal slowly).
  • Don't use ointments, salves, massage oils, or creams on the nipples while they're healing (6-12 months), because these are excellent breeding grounds for bacteria and the lotions, ointments and salves can get caught inside the hole of the piercing or be pushed there by the ring and build up a little "bacteria hotel".
  • Practice good personal hygiene, and make sure others do as well -- wash your hands thoroughly before playing with the breasts until they're fully healed (to be safe, at least a year).
  • If you have a breast piercing and develop a fever and flu-like symptoms, with or without major breast pain, see your doctor
  • (while you're waiting on your piercing, talk to your current health-care practitioner and see how knowledgeable he or she is about piercings -- if s/he's not, ask your piercer to recommend a good, body-mod friendly, health-care practitioner. I've even had surgery with my piercings. The first time, they taped my piercings (day surgery) , the 2nd time, I had acrylic spacers put in to replace the metal piercings (open, inpatient abdominal surgery).


Even taking precautions, piercings (any piercings, including the common ear piercing) are a potential entry into the body for bacteria. Use common sense. If it makes you feel any more safe, though, aboriginals have been piercing with sticks, rocks, and shards of bone, with NO sterilization techniques, for thousands of years. Take good care of your piercings and the risk of infection is REDUCED. We do a thousand or more things in a day that could result in an infection. The risk is with us all the time. Weigh the risks carefully, but don't let risk or someone else's panic make the decision for you.

ZWD


quote:

ORIGINAL: GddssBella

G'evening all:

You're nuts if you even think about it. No matter how pretty it is, it's insane. Your femininity, your body is not worth your vanity. Nor your master's pleasure. I can supply you with the doctor's information if you wish to verify or follow up.

DO NOT PIERCE YOUR NIPPLES!!!


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...


[:D]


Bella




GddssBella -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/25/2006 7:12:58 AM)

G'morning all:


Obviously, someone failed to read a portion of my post.
quote:

ORIGINAL: GddssBella
Now, most gals get lucky and never have a problem.
Now realize, losing your breast is a worst case scenario, but it can occur. The surgeon had 2 other women in the hospital for the exact same surgery that night. If it sounds invasive, it's because simply draining the abscess was no longer an option. Luckily, the surgeon was tops in her field and made minimal incisions to reduce scarring (1 above and 1 below nipple). It's a lot more common than ~you~ think.

Piercing and breastfeeding are not analogous to each other. We're talking about artificially introducing a piece of metal into a nipple over a normal body function. Very different situations.

Panic? *chuckles* Ok, call it what you will. I had a reality check from the doctor. I just passed on my experience to an interested party, as she requested. It's a public forum, expect opinions that contradict your own.

To the OP? - I copied my signature tag from another poster many moons ago. It certainly fits my outlook. [:)] Keep in mind, no matter how much care you may take with a piercing? The risk is always present, even years later. That's straight from the doctor's mouth. Someone licensed and knowledgeable.


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys, w/ others...


[:D]


Bella




Samwhiplash -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/25/2006 8:05:22 AM)

Hi Jessieme

It took me two years to finally get the nerve together to go and get my nipple pierced. Honestly - it was nowhere near as bad as I had imagined, and in fact made me realise that I had been torturing myself about it unnecessarily. I took two painkillers an hour before I had it done.

The initial pain of the needle being pushed thro (followed by the actual bar) lasted no more than 5 seconds. Yes, it was intense, but it was over so unbelievably quickly. I had absolutely no pain afterwards, nothing whatsoever. When I sat back up I did get dizzy - but that is purely the adrenalin rush and is to be expected. You must clean your nipple piercing twice a day - what to clean it with varies from piercer to piercer bt for me it was boiled cooled water wth seasalt on cotton buds.

One thing to note tho, for 8 wks after you need to not touch it apart from cleaning it. No playing wth it.... so for this reason, you/your Master will need to consider the fact that if both are done at once they will be off limits for quite a while. I decided to get one done, then wait for at least a year (which is the full healing period) before getting the other done. I could not go 8 wks wthout any nipple playy - even if it was a solo effort ;-)

I ADORE my nipple piercing and fully intend on getting the other one pierced also.

Good luck with it - Im sure you and your Master will LOVE them :D




Sunshine119 -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/25/2006 2:56:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Samwhiplash

One thing to note tho, for 8 wks after you need to not touch it apart from cleaning it. No playing wth it.... so for this reason, you/your Master will need to consider the fact that if both are done at once they will be off limits for quite a while. I decided to get one done, then wait for at least a year (which is the full healing period) before getting the other done. I could not go 8 wks wthout any nipple playy - even if it was a solo effort ;-)



I am especially thankful to you and Bella for much of the information given.  It will be very difficult to consider this procedure, even though it may be beautiful and show ownership.  Migration is one thing.  Infection???  Won't go there!  A brand, tattoo or scar, in a place that won't be played with to both of our pleasure sounds like a safer option.

Now I just have to convince him!  [8|]




doll -> RE: Nipple Piercings (6/25/2006 10:41:03 PM)

Well...to add to the many others that have given great advice here.  Both of my sister's have their nipples pierced and my twin sister's fiance does as well.  None of them have complained of anything going wrong.  My twin sis said that the pain is minimal and doesn't last long and the soreness afterwards doesn't last long either, her breasts were sore for a few days and that is it.  She also had barbells put in because the piercer said he didn't have rings big enough for her nipples, but later changed to rings and prefers them.

I am planning on getting mine pierced in the near future, but I totally relate to the apprehension.  Good luck.




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