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njlauren -> RE: cuckolding (5/4/2013 5:52:31 PM)
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In theory, yes, it is what the domme wants and the sub just goes along with it. Keep in mind that cuckolding can happen outside D/s, where the hubby has a tremendous fetish about his wife sleeping with other people and in the process, perhaps denying him certain things. It can be in the context of D/s where she as domme tells him "I am doing this because I enjoy it, and then enjoy telling you about it and watching you squirm with jealousy, etc", but there are couples where the hub is not sub, where it is a fetish of his, and often he gets the wife to do it, and it is why I questioned in those cases whether the wife gets off on it or is doing it because she gets turned on he gets turned on....
But I think what the other poster was talking about were subs who tell the mistress "you should put me in chastity, that what cucks do" or 'you should sleep with my best friend, that would be so humiliating", in effect telling the dominant how he wants it to play out..which is topping from the bottom, since how it happens should be up to her. In a non D/s the wife may take the husbands suggestions since she knows it turns him on, it is very different than a D/s relationship. It is funny, at first glance I always thought of this being something between a married couple, but shows how long I have been married, I forget that *duh* a D/s relationship can be emotional but not in a marriage, or boyfriend/girlfriend, SO's, or even in a poly (though that would be interesting, if let's say the woman in a triangular poly where she is the apex does the cuck thing, would it apply to the other two people assuming they are guys? Also, would it work in a poly, though I suppose the other two legs of the poly could get jealous of the outside guy, since he isn't part of the poly..oh, well, just my musing:).
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