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LadyPact -> RE: Ideas on making my slave toping unpleasant for him. (5/2/2013 1:46:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DalekMaster
In this case I wanted to explore ideas that would be physical.
I knew my use of tpe was going to be poked at, I'm just so tired my vocabulary isn't quite as vibrant. Ill make it powerless or giving up total control. And as to the icy hot thing, I needs put out like a bdsm wide bulletin, I've talked to dozens of people doing that. Appreciate the heads. ( sounds sarcastic but I'm being sincere).
Yes, I think you might be exceptionally tired. I tend to make more typing errors and poor phrasing when I'm tired as well.
Perhaps when you are a bit more rested, you might be in a better position for thinking things through. For all of those physical sensations that you are thinking about to make his experience unpleasant, I suggest to you that you play the tape to the end. For example, start with idea X. Then, at the end use these two phrases:
"And then the condom breaks/tears and idea X has now been inserted anally."
"I feel competent to engage in idea X because I KNOW (not think, not read it on the internet, but honestly KNOW) the potential risks are A, B, and C."
From there, you assess the risks compared to the potential benefit. It's your slave and your tail that's on the line. It's entirely up to you if you engage in hazardous activities or not.
One last word for you to think on. You don't know Me from Adam. I could have been a person that knew zilch about BDSM and just thrown an idea at you that, if it didn't sound terribly outrageous, might actually sound like a "good" idea, even if I secretly didn't know if it was safe. It happens every day. People do carry scars because something sounded like a good idea and they read it on the internet without doing additional research. Please don't be that guy.
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