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How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 10:25:35 AM

LoyalBlackSub

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I know this question gets asked all the time, but it still puzzles me. I'm from St. Louis (not a small city), yet on sites such as this, I'll find maybe two dommes that are actually active from St. Louis, most of the time less. My problem is not that I can't find a domme for me, its that I can't find a domme period. Is there a way to spot them in public or is their a site similar to this, because its frustrating to never talk to or meet a domme when you're submissive. Thank you

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 10:26:48 AM

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Have you been attending events in your local community? If I recall correctly, that was suggested to you before.

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 10:40:28 AM

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@LadyPact
Whats an event typically like. I know it will vary, but are there some commonalities? With my age, will I stick out like a sore thumb, or is it usually pretty diverse?

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 10:48:50 AM

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You might be interested in using the search feature and looking up a term called "munch". That will give you a variety of answers from all over.

St Louis has a very active scene, including TNG (the next generation) groups that are specifically for people your age. If you are interested in big, multiple day events, your city is the home of Beat Me in St Louis. It's a huge educational event that has a little bit of everything. (I think you just missed that one, though.)

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 11:07:44 AM

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Go to Fetlife, type St. Louis into the search box, then click on groups or events. You will find a list of groups and events along with their descriptions.

Truly, it's not that difficult to find. It takes a moment of effort.

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 4:40:28 PM

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Hmm, looks like my work here is done. The way I like work being done. By others.

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 6:35:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: LoyalBlackSub

I know this question gets asked all the time, but it still puzzles me. I'm from St. Louis (not a small city), yet on sites such as this, I'll find maybe two dommes that are actually active from St. Louis, most of the time less. My problem is not that I can't find a domme for me, its that I can't find a domme period. Is there a way to spot them in public or is their a site similar to this, because its frustrating to never talk to or meet a domme when you're submissive. Thank you

Ummmmm, didn't we already have this conversation? You started a thread a while back and got the same answers that you're getting now.

I guess you created a new profile, because all of your old post no longer show up in your history. And if I remember correctly, you lived in Chicago the last time you started a thread like this. Did you move?

Regardless of where you live, or why you created a new profile, the answers are still the same. Go to a munch and try FetLife. All that you need will be found in those two places.
Good luck.
-Roch

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/7/2013 6:50:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: LoyalBlackSub

I know this question gets asked all the time, but it still puzzles me. Thank you

I recommend you give up ... it really is hopeless.

Try a dance ... or better ... a munch.

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RE: How do I find a Domme - 5/8/2013 12:50:53 AM

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I suggest you get a dowsing rod. If it vibrates strongly enough you might even be able to get multiple uses out of it. Try going to local events. Poke women with the dowsing rod. If they hit you back they're probably a domme!

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"Beat Me in St. Louis". Ffff.

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