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jtboss -> Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 4:28:03 PM)
Just curious ... this is to the people with some experience in this. If i'm not really into the whole pain and humiliating thing. Are there master's who aren't so intense or is this site not cut out for me.

SoulAlloy -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 4:41:46 PM)
You'll find a whole range on any BDSM site really, from hardcore sadists to gentle sensory play, and even those who get off the control more than any physical sensation.

TwoHeartsBeatOne -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 4:58:13 PM)
These are different concepts. There are differences between dominance and sadism and topping & submission, masochism and bottoming. Sadist - likes giving pain Masochist - likes feeling pain Top - the one who is "doing" the actions Bottom - the one who is "receiving" the actions Dominant - one who likes being in control Submissive - one who likes being controlled Any of these "labels" can be used to describe an intense experience. If you are looking for kinky sex, then the vanilla sites are great for that. Or, just use the "hook up" sites. Others are also seeking kink and sex. If you are curious about "lifestyle" relationships, then it's time to do a LOT of reading. It's useful to have a BDSM glossary open while you read because there really is a different language here. Terms that you already know may have different/multiple meanings in the lifestyle. I'm telling you this because if you don't acquire the vocabulary, then you will be misunderstood and you will misunderstand others. It's not very easy to ask questions on a BDSM site thread until you have read about the basics. I suggest you begin here: http://www.angelfire.com/ms2/BDSMINFOPAGES/Chapter2.html

jtboss -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 5:00:58 PM)
Thank you for the tips much appreciated

OsideGirl -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 5:17:08 PM)
BDSM = Bondage/Discipline/Sado-Masochism D/s = Dominance and submission. You can engage in BDSM and nver engage in D/s. You can engage in D/s and never engage in BDSM.

jtboss -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 5:20:02 PM)
Alright thank you ... yea looking more into the D/s

lamale -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 5:22:57 PM)
Outstanding answer to a newbie, TwoHearts. Makes me think there's some hope for the "attack and savage the newbie as a rabid group" wasteland this board normally is when responding to inexperienced people. R

absolutchocolat -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 8:01:23 PM)
BSDM exists on a spectrum. What you define as "hardcore" may be par for the course in the lives of some folks.

littleclip -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 8:13:39 PM)
the spectrum runs from light slap on the butt to cutting so find your interest and see where it goes, wax needles and staples OOH MYY!!

DarkSteven -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/8/2013 9:24:37 PM)
There are even some forms of service that have nothing to do with sex or sensation play. Some people are into high protocol, which is following numerous formal rules, for example. The entire field of Gorean is basically protocols, which may or may not include play.

RaspberryLemon -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/9/2013 2:37:30 AM)
You've been given good advice in this thread. And yes, there are people who are not interested in pain or humiliation. My Master is one of them, and I am the same, which makes us compatible. There are tons and tons of people out there interested in all sorts of things--there is bound to be someone into the same things, the same way you are. Good luck!

jtboss -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/9/2013 5:37:20 PM)
Appreciate the advice

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/9/2013 7:13:50 PM)
~FRing it~ OP...the beauty of WIITWD (what it is that we do) is that there is something for EVERYONE here. Its a spectrum and we all fit in somewhere along that line. All you do is find your counterpart who falls in the same general area as you and shares your view. You will fit in just fine. I promise. Good luck in your search

jtboss -> RE: Hardcore interaction (5/9/2013 8:11:21 PM)
Thanks

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