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searching4mysir -> RE: Ideas for humiliating/dominating a sub? (5/17/2013 9:24:42 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Hollyucinogen
Really? By asking you to relate your own experiences, I'm demanding that you do my job for me? I literally asked what do you like to do, what do you like @ subs, and do you have any advice because I'm new to this and I don't know if I'm doing it properly or if I'm totally barking up the wrong tree here. I guess I just assumed that you would be willing to give me advice since both of the other communities I've been to so far were very obliging in answering my questions about how things work, so I guess I took it for granted that Dommes were willing to share their experiences without being paid for it (at least on here). Then again, I pretty much got told by everyone else not to bother coming here, but my experience with other Dommes has been so positive so far that I guess I just assumed they were like that everywhere.
Here's the thing, cupcake. IF you are the dominant, then YOU are the one that is in charge and it is YOU that you should be worried about pleasing. If it is online only bullshit, then you don't really need to worry quite so much about "doing it properly". It's all fantasy and a wank session for them. Don't tell them to do stupid shit that might result in a loss of circulation (like tying up their cock and balls). Other than that, humiliation is personal.
If you want to play with the adults (and this is an adult website) then act like one rather than throw a tantrum.
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