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Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/9/2013 9:42:59 PM

SubMale4FtoTrain

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not been around these chat rooms for awhile. In the lifestyle for over fifteen (15) years, collared five (5) to Ms Lee and both are wanting to get back chatting. Not sure how to get chatting in the rooms anymore, or looking at the profiles of individuales who want to chat. Can someone please inform us both here. Humbly submitted,

sub terry....

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RE: Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/10/2013 1:16:12 AM

iamwhoiamabc123

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Just respect everyone and their perspectives, don't ever assume your right on a question as people on this site will bash you for it, over and over again. Never use the wore bitch ever as it sends the wrong message across. In fact if you want a tut on how not to act on the forum just look at my thread "how to be a perfect straight sub." Dont do what I did and you should be just fine!

Good luck posting!

Cheers!!!!!

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RE: Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/10/2013 7:02:45 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Greeting Terry, the chatting that goes on this side is actually discussions on a wide range of topics. If you are looking for chat rooms to get into that happens on the other side of Collarme. If you go back to where your profile is, on the left side is a list of things, the third one down is where you will find chat rooms. Click on that and you will see all kinds of chat rooms open up, pick the one that looks like you may want to chat in. I have never been in the chat rooms but have heard some of them can be good ones.

Some will complain about the forums, (this side of the site), if they have not come here and been greeted in away that they may have thought they should be. But if your pleasant and open to what others opinions maybe you will find a bunch of friendly very knowledgeable people.

Good luck to you both and hope to see you join in on some of the discussions here and that you find that in which you seek.

kar

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RE: Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/10/2013 9:46:02 AM

SeekingTrinity

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~FRing it~

I haven't been in a chat room for many many moons now, so there unfortunately isn't any advice I can give on getting back into them again. I wish you and yours luck.

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RE: Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/11/2013 1:20:12 AM

MaamJay

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Hi terry,

First thing I would suggest is changing your screen name which makes it look like YOU are available for a female to train. Your profile is not the clearest (too much ancient history and fractured English) but I finally worked out that you and your Domme/wife are looking for another sub as your health is not the best. Given the lack of Dommes and the oversupply of sub males here, as a couple you would have more success if She was here and looking, rather than you. However, if She wants you involved in the process, you definitely need a new name here.

Someone else explained how to get to the chat rooms so good luck there.

And before LadyPact chimes in with this ... get to some events and meet real flesh and blood people!

Good luck,
Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/11/2013 1:41:23 AM

LafayetteLady

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Damn, I hadn't read the profile because the question was so simple. I couldn't get past the first paragraph with the color of the background and text, the partial sentences and incorrectly spelled words. Props to you MaamJay for getting through it.

To the OP: I assumed you were a sub just because of the section you posted in. While you didn't ask, just a couple suggestions to aid you and Ms Lee in your search. A couple looking for a third has the odds against them. The few people that are interested in joining an established household have their pick of possible households. So you and your partner need to be appealing to them and present yourself as a household they would want to be part of. Some far fetched lengthy, six page questionaire is not going to be appealing. They aren't applying for a job after all, plus you can get your questions answered during conversations without presenting it as forms to fill out.

Change your profile background and text colors. Bright backgrounds are hard on the eyes. Add bright text and it is a migraine waiting to happen. Make all the font the same. Your profile appears more like journal entries. Tell people who you and Ms. Lee are, ie. what you both enjoy vanilla and kink, what you are looking for in a beta. Not dated entries, those are for your journal. Make sure you spell check your profile, people DO notice that.

Again, while you didn't ask, they are just some suggestions to maybe help you find that third person you are looking for.

Finally, best wishes on the successful surgery and your continued recovery.

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RE: Chat rooms and Profile look ups - 5/11/2013 9:05:11 AM

MisterP61

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaamJay

And before LadyPact chimes in with this ... get to some events and meet real flesh and blood people!

This made Me smile. She would get a kick out of that too. :D

Oh yeah welcome too. I second the name change BTW it does lend itself towards you are looking to be trained, and perception in online forums goes a long way. Have fun and good luck.

< Message edited by MisterP61 -- 5/11/2013 9:06:35 AM >

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