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sexyred1 -> RE: The Single Subbie Survival Guide (5/11/2013 9:30:38 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
I despise the words "subbie" or "sub". To be fair, I despise the words "submissive" or "dominant" when used to replace the words: "lady" or "man".
I am NOT a dominant and I don't have inter-personal relationships with submissives. I am a man who is dominant who has relationships with ladies that are submissive.
I think when people use even (what some might call) the less offensive words, they desensitize - even dehumanize people who happen to have submissive or dominant traits (or personalities, if you will).
To paraphrase and expand on what someone has already said: when a lady writes to me, talking about "I'm looking for a dom that can ..." or "I hope you're the type of dom that I can ...", I either ignore them completely or I send a reply along the lines of: "Good luck finding that perfect dom. When you're looking for a man, please let me know".
Peace and comfort,
Michael
While that is a nice point, on, on sites like this if you are seeking someone and you have a prediliction for being submissive or dominant, just putting a profile up that says you are a lady or a man is likely to get anyone writing to you, agreed?
To me, the label is just target marketing, not the essence of a person. If a man says he is a dominant person or he says he is a Dominant, it makes no difference to me; it only makes a difference if we click.
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