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Photos - 5/10/2013 2:13:57 PM

Rdy2Submit4U83

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Im looking to get just a general consensus of what kind of photos catch a womans eye on here, for example type of clothing, how much exposed skin or whatever. Any feedback is good and thanks for sharing ahead of time. Haven't had much success on here and looking for some ideas.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 2:30:06 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Greetings and welcome to the forums....LOL

just remember you asked that questions most the women on this side are not shy to tell you their likes and dislike. The other way to obtain the info you seek is do search and type photo in.

Myself I like men to be dressed in clothing that they would wear on a normal day doing something they like doing....ex hiking, boating, skiing....you get the idea.

I will pass over any profile that have any naked pics....just my two cents worth.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 2:39:58 PM

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Well...since you asked.

I'll start out with the no's. Please no penis or headless naked torso or butt/butthole pics. No toy pictures unless we're talking something intriguing and unusual. No scowling, arms crossed, photos like you've been constipated for weeks. No poses with the man-toys of cars, motorcycles, boats, etc. No other people in the picture like family members or past dates. No pics of women or women parts either nude or clothed. No porn or otherwise stolen pics from the internet of cartoons or "erotica".

I'd say the yes's would be anything where you are smiling, engaging in an activity you like doing (tennis, fishing, hiking, etc), with a pet, or otherwise engaged with life. If you can't show your face then turn your head to the side, do a wider shot, try to place your face in the shadows, wear a hat, etc. If you want to show off your body in a tasteful way maybe consider something where you are wearing shorts or whatever and it's a natural pose out at a pool or something. Some Dommes here have expressed liking to see play pics of markings and whatever as long as the intent isn't to display your genitals...I have to say I myself don't really care for that type of thing or seeing it on a stranger.

Let me emphasize one more time....NO PENIS PICTURES. Thanks.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 3:14:10 PM

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Welcome to the forums.

Here is a thread that was written less than a week ago on the subject. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4436606/tm.htm

By the way, I'm not sure of where you are in your state but I've spent some time with a number of lifestyle folks not far from you. Lots of educational opportunities, munches, and events.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 3:39:55 PM

Rdy2Submit4U83

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thank you for the replys. also tasteful ideas to show im in shape and id rather keep my face not shown until i get into an one on one conversation.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 3:50:23 PM

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Personally, I don't mind cock shots as long as there are other photos that show the rest of you.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 3:55:07 PM

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Welcome to the forums,

A person's photos tell as much if not more about a person.

Personally I want to see pics that show who YOU are and what you are about. So if that is a cock shot, you flexing in the mirror, crying in your pillow,your pet or your feet. There are tons of creative ways to NOT show your face in a picture without cropping it off btw.

My biggest picture pet peeve...don't steal pictures and post them on your profile. Granted that says A LOT about you but none of it good.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 5:48:05 PM

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Borrowing from my post on that thread:

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Women are not visual in the same way as men. You show us a dick, we think you're a dick. You show us an asshole, we think you're an asshole. You show us a headless torso, we think you're a mannequin, not a man. If we want to see your dick, we'll ask. Until then, it's only your little friend, and we don't give two figs about it (even if they're yours!). When most women see pictures of other women in your photos, they don't see themselves in her place like 'oooooo, what a lucky woman, I wish that was me instead!" They think 'is that f*cknut going to post pictures of me all over the internet like he did with that unfortunate woman?" Ditto with lameass pictures of toys/equipment. She'll likely think: 'ffs, where has that buttplug BEEN?! Ewwww!!!"

Get someone to take a vanilla, g-rated picture that shows you doing something non-sexual you love. Outdoor pictures are always great. Swing a hockey stick, throw a ball for your dog, or just wave from the beach. There are endless, artistic ways to avoid showing your face if that is a concern. Really put your best efforts into your pictures and narrative.

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RE: Photos - 5/10/2013 5:54:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

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Get someone to take a vanilla, g-rated picture that shows you doing something non-sexual you love. Outdoor pictures are always great. Swing a hockey stick, throw a ball for your dog, or just wave from the beach. There are endless, artistic ways to avoid showing your face if that is a concern. Really put your best efforts into your pictures and narrative.

AKA rip off a Ralph Lauren photo shoot! Duh!

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RE: Photos - 5/11/2013 4:44:00 AM

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Welcome, perhaps you could attach a $100, to your forehead, it works when I walk into a bar!

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