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SubSpace - 5/12/2013 6:54:37 PM

MonicaLeigh

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Has anyone else had any experience with subspace and enjoyed it? This is one o my favorite places to be.. id love hear about other peoples experiences with subspace and aftercare.. and how it affects you. Also subdrop.. have you ever experienced that after a scene? what was it like for you? how long did it last and how did you cope?

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RE: SubSpace - 5/12/2013 8:41:27 PM

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Yes, but only once and I'd twist myself into a pretzel if that's what it took to experience it again.

It was as if my brain disconnected from reality and my body felt nothing as if I were floating instead of laying belly down on a mattress with my arms tied behind my back. It felt like that state where you're falling asleep and really relaxed and your brain feels like it's on another planet.

It lasted as long as it took to count to 22 while delivering a spanking. I really have no idea because I wasn't intent on watching the clock.

When the spanking was over I felt as if a shattered window was on rewind and all the pieces were coming back together fairly quickly. My out-of-body experience suddenly slammed back into reality. I was shaking, I whimpered a lot, I drooled on myself while staring out into space at nothing in particular. He gathered me up and held me against him with my raw ass rubbing against his jeans. That grating sensation is what really brought me back. The rough texture was very real and I was able to gather myself after that. I think that probably took a minute or two. I know he held me for a good ten minutes or so.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/12/2013 10:43:17 PM

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Has anyone else had any experience with subspace and enjoyed it? This is one o my favorite places to be.. id love hear about other peoples experiences with subspace and aftercare.. and how it affects you. Also subdrop.. have you ever experienced that after a scene? what was it like for you? how long did it last and how did you cope?

I experience subspace quite often during long, extended play. Yes I enjoy it but he doesn't always allow it. Sometimes he wants me present and not drifting off into la la land. Subspace for me is the same thing as an adrenaline rush or a runner's high. And because of that, yes I've had subdrop...basically the adrenaline and other chemicals flowing through my body, coming to a stop and dropping. I get really cold and jittery and emotional due to seratonin dropping off. For me it can last anywhere from a few hours to a couple of days. It just depends on what we've been doing and how hard.

As for aftercare, he makes sure to give me a warm blanket, keeps me hydrated and we talk and talk some more and we become very intimate, keeping connected to each other. It's just as important to him as to me.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/13/2013 11:32:13 AM

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Same here when it comes to subspace I also drift of in long periods of time or even during all forms of bondage unless He keeps me focused so i do not drift of. This is especially when we are tiring something new and he wants total feed back from Me. I enjoy it when it does happen as everything just stops I just let go. During that point there is just the moment and I am on such a High and He loves sending Me there as He knows I will go into total relaxation and well the cat in me comes Out. I can't say how long I am in sub space as it will depend on what we are doing because I have been out for an hour or more. When I come out I feel so good, and a little tired, but after a nap I am bouncy and raring to go again if its been a short time in sub space, but the longer ones- now those I tend to wind down. However when I hit sub drop I get chilly and weepy, and then want my stuffie and to be wrapped up in my blanket or cuddled. I have had it hit after play or even up to 2 weeks after play, and if hes gone, then I text Him and let Him know, but then I self soothe myself to get through it if He's not home. Now I am one that does love and at times need the aftercare because for us its a very intimate time for us to connect as well as him being assured I am OK and I am back in the here and now, and we talk about what was done while he makes sure I eat and rehidrate, and at the same time i do the same for Him as he comes down from sending me off and can then wind himself down as well into a more relaxed state.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/13/2013 12:36:41 PM

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Like those above me its how it was for me, a mixture of all three. DJ loved taking me to subspace as much as I loved being there, Brad on the other hand would never allow me to go there. Its the one thing if I had to pick something other than being flogged that I miss the most.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/13/2013 4:52:34 PM

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i could get to sub space just by having her say thank you and touch my cheek beatings and such were wonderfull and needle play rocked but i would do anything just to have her give me any knind of gratitude and a touch of her hand and i was floaty for a week

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RE: SubSpace - 5/13/2013 5:18:26 PM

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In my current relationship I've had it a few times, but not a whole lot. I love going there, but I don't miss it when I don't, either. Whether I hit subspace or not, the Mister always keeps me hydrated and holds me afterwards, and makes sure I get rest if I need it. We laugh and talk, or we just lay there silently together.

In my past relationship, he put me in subspace all the time. Like SomethingCatchy described, it was like my brain left my body and I was just floating in never never land. Problem was, there was NEVER after care - it was up to me to supply it for myself. This became so freaking difficult I almost dreaded play or going into subspace. The crashes (subdrop) weren't always worth the high, and sometimes I'd be an emotional (and physical) wreck for days. One time it took over a week to emotionally recover, and required him to come in and pull me out of my very dark funk.

These days, there's not an attempt to put me there or to keep me from going there. We play fairly lightly, all things considered, so it doesn't always happen. I do love when it does, though.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/14/2013 2:16:02 PM

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Love it when she's in that slo motion moving through jello drop zone.
For aftercare, usually a backrub. Contact is the key. It's the thing that anchors her, pulls her slowly back to reality.
Even then, she's usually a zombie for the rest of the day.
Which I totally get. I used to have this chick, she would come over for some afternoon delight lunchtime play, drop real far, then get up and go back to work. Never understood how she did that.
Fuck, I'd be semi dropped in dom-space, all lightheaded and floaty and she'd be talking about her afternoon agenda.
Blew my mind.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/14/2013 2:47:16 PM

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I love sub space, from both sides of the kneel. Long extended play will put me in, or merely play after some abstinence. Too much pain can bring me out. Lots of physical contact, snuggling, words of endearment, and of course hydration are basic to aftercare (for me). Prolonged sub space can easily take 24-48 hours to recover from.

My (male) also goes into sub space easily. He seems to recover much quicker than I.

For me, sub space is not the *goal* of the session, but it's very nice when it happens.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/14/2013 2:56:06 PM

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I have experienced being in "SubSpace" a few times now.Funny,I was just thinking of this exact topic just the other day.Now that I am owned,my mind has been taking it to another level.Not too long ago,my Domme and 2 of her friends were dominating me.It was unlike any experience I've felt before.The domination was quite intense and lasted quite awhile.The point is,I felt like I was on a natural high better than any substance could ever provide.I've been in subspace quite a few times before but nothing quite like that.

I think submission has taught me a few good quality traits that I try to carry with me in my other areas in life.I think being humble is a good thing,as I have certainly learned to humble myself like never before.The ironic part of submission for me,is that the sexual aspect doesn't even matter to me any me.I feel I get into "subspace" from just the act of being of service.Submission comes in different forms,service subs,pain subs,sex subs,etc.This isn't about whips and chains for me.I just love the idea of giving up control.

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RE: SubSpace - 5/14/2013 3:50:43 PM

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I have experienced subspace many times...there were 2 types, one was mentally...the other was from play...theres nothing like it as far as I`m concened.

I also had the honor of taking others to sub space...I liked that!

Personally I like those that can submit mentally, seems that they are rare in my world.

Sub drop...ya, experienced that, however...that was when I had my time to process alot of *stuff*...sometimes I wanted aftercare...sometimes I wanted to be left alone. I did try my best to provide aftercare to those that submitted to me ~shrugs~ one had no clue what it was about.

Anyhoo...Top space is just as real for me. Just different.

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