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KinkyAspieDavid -> Aspie Kinkster (6/24/2006 10:30:59 PM)

Hi, everyone!

My name is David and I am Canadian. I am still a virgin (24) and I am self-diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. You can read up on it here: http://en.wikipedia.org/Aspergers.

I have had fantasies of being a dom since I was 16 or 17. I am a very kinky individual and I love the ladies.

I wonder how many other people here are Aspies? Many Aspies are into BDSM by what i've heard...




orlandopatch -> RE: Aspie Kinkster (6/24/2006 10:47:14 PM)

Corrected Link

Ok, I just had to respond to this as my mother is a psychologist and my cousin has Aspergers so I know a fair bit about it. I would HIGHLY recommend not doing any sort of self diagnostic for any sort of serious psychological disorders. I'm not saying you don't have it by any means as I don't know you but there are a lot of geeky people I know trying to say they have it to explain away why they are antisocial and just want to try to be like Einstein. This isn't one of those simple to diagnose disorders and is very closely related to other things like Autism and Schizophrenia.




KinkyAspieDavid -> RE: Aspie Kinkster (6/24/2006 11:28:40 PM)

Hi!

Thanks for correcting the link! I was going by memory and forgot the 'wiki' part of the URL.

Anyways, when I stated that I was self-diagnosed I should add it as tentative as I consider it highly likely that I do indeed have Asperger's Syndrome. However, it has only been recognised by the psychiatric community since 1994 (except for Germany and Austria) and since it is relatively new, many psychiatrists are unacquainted with Asperger's Syndrome and thus, there is a long wait to see a diagnostician for Asperger's Syndrome. I have been in Canada for only a year and before that lived in South Florida before that.

I don't meet the popular Einsteinian stereotype of math and science savant. In fact, save for arithmetic, my math skills are indeed very poor. I have been unable to grasp algebra nor geometry. My areas of interests include computers and IT, politics and history.

As for how I came to the conclusion that I likely have Aspergers:

Well... I have been diagnosed with OCD (a co-morbid disorder). I first came across the very term of Asperger's Syndrome early in 2005 on an online political group. I typed in "Aspergers" in the search box of Wikipedia and read everything there on it, and then moved on to other sites such as OASIS. I read the diagnostic criteria and met all 6 of them and also fit more of the subcriteria than necessary for each criterion. Altogether, I meet all but one, or maybe two, at most, of the subcriteria. Logic therefore suggests I very likely do have Asperger's Syndrome. "Walk like a duck, talk like a duck..."

As to the other conditions that are closely related:

Autism - I am able to function socially, at least in a professional setting. I do come across as shy and reserved, perhaps even wooden, but I do interact with other people. I do prefer to be with a closed-circle of friends however. Asperger's in on the Autism Spectrum albeit much milder, relatively speaking than "classic" or Kanner's autism.

Schizophrenia - I do NOT hear voices in my head and think logically and rationally. I am grounded in reality, perhaps too much, in fact. I also don't freak out in social settings, even though I might be nervous or uncomfortable if it's unfamiliar to me. I would like social interaction albeit it is very difficult for me as reading body language and many facial expressions are beyond my grasp. I tend to be 'gauche' socially and prone to making gaffes.
All this combined and my life experiences all point to Asperger's Syndrome, both by fitting almost all Asperger's criteria plus not fitting the diagnostic criteria for related disorders.

In my opinion, I believe logic and the process of elimination point to my social and inter-personal travails being caused by Asperger's Syndrome.

Please respond with your thoughts and comments.
-- David




orlandopatch -> RE: Aspie Kinkster (6/26/2006 4:05:17 PM)

You do seem to have gone through things fairly logically, and I think from what you said you probably do have a rather high chance of being an aspie. I know through my interactions with my cousin, he is EXTREMELY wooden and tends to talk an annoying amount, but I am not completely sure if that is related to the aspergers or not. In fact, the only person I know that thinks he has it is my mom as everyone else diagnosed him with autism well before the latest DSM came out (he's in his 40s or so).

Anyway, I wasn't trying to come across as not thinking you had done your research or suggesting you had other things but mostly just as a warning against self diagnosis as I know plenty of doctors who hate people coming in thinking they have the bird flu every week cause they saw a dead bird as they drove by. I also know too many geeks as I explained earlier who use aspergers as an excuse for their social shortcomings. I don't get on their case when I probably should and just being around them for 10 minutes you can tell shyness is the case.




sophia37 -> RE: Aspie Kinkster (6/26/2006 4:33:24 PM)

I guess I should simply say welcome! You will most likely have some very intereting things to add to any discussion.




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