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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/20/2013 10:27:39 AM   
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p.s. I just want to clarify something. My stance on diet is about cancer in particular - and really focused on prevention and treatment.

I think using diet and, particularly cardio/high intensity exercise to maintain overall good health is EXTREMELY important. I eat carefully, and work out regularly. I am certainly not encouraging people to lead unhealthy lives and rely only on surgery to cure what ails.

I am speaking very specifically of high risk cancer situations where unfortunately, surgery is often an important part of both prevention and treatment. I look forward to the day when that is NOT true, but we are not there, yet. And until we are there, I think surgical and invasive options will continue to be part of the picture of cancer treatment and prevention.

We are not even at the stage where cancer can be diagnosed without an invasive procedure (biopsy). :(






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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/20/2013 10:28:56 AM   
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Of course, this also reminds me how great it is to live with universalized healthcare. It simply hadn't occured to me to consider that this might not be covered.

And don't forget that "covered" implies "insured" -- which is FAR FAR from a certain thing in the US. I would personally guess there are VAST swathes of US women who could not make the same choice Ms. Jolie did.



It would be interesting to know if Medicaid or Medicare would cover it.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/20/2013 5:47:20 PM   
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Of course, this also reminds me how great it is to live with universalized healthcare. It simply hadn't occured to me to consider that this might not be covered.

And don't forget that "covered" implies "insured" -- which is FAR FAR from a certain thing in the US. I would personally guess there are VAST swathes of US women who could not make the same choice Ms. Jolie did.



It would be interesting to know if Medicaid or Medicare would cover it.


According to this link they do...
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Bilateral prophylactic mastectomy is medically appropriate in patients with no cancer
diagnosis in
any
of the following clinical scenerios that portend a high risk of cancer:
1.
Atypical hyperplasia
of lobular or ductal origin confirmed on biopsy by a
qua
lified pathologist. This diagnosis takes on added significance if atypical
hyperplasia is present in multiple sites in a breast and/or if it is bilateral.
2.
Family history of breast and /or ovarian cancer
in a first
-
degree relative,
(especially a mother or
sister) who is premenopausal and has had bilateral
breast cancer (family cancer syndrome),
with no demonstrative mutation
or
a
known mutation of BRCA 1 or BRCA2 breast cancer susceptibility genes.*
3.
Dense, fibronodular breasts
that are mammographically or c
linically difficult to
evaluate in a patient with either (or both) of the above clinical presentations .
The combination of atypical hyperplasia with a family history of breast cancer
implies significant risk (8
-
l0x) in excess of that of index populations.
4.
Family history of multiple family members with bilateral and/or pre
-
menopausal and/or male breast cancer
may be associated with a familial
breast cancer syndrome. Genetic counseling should be strongly considered,
although prophylactic surgery is appropri
ate in women with a family history
consistent with genetic predisposition and no demonstrative genetic mutation.*




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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/20/2013 7:22:15 PM   
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Cancer is NOT a chronic illness. You cavalierly stating if she followed this type of diet, she wouldn't have needed surgery or gotten cancer is presumptious and silly. A special diet to SUPPORT a chronic illness or even cancer is fine, but it has neither been proven a cure nor an absolute preventative measure.

I doubt many suppose diet can cure cancer. But the idea that diet can prevent cancer is very far from silly.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/20/2013 10:06:53 PM   
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Cancer is NOT a chronic illness. You cavalierly stating if she followed this type of diet, she wouldn't have needed surgery or gotten cancer is presumptious and silly. A special diet to SUPPORT a chronic illness or even cancer is fine, but it has neither been proven a cure nor an absolute preventative measure.

I doubt many suppose diet can cure cancer. But the idea that diet can prevent cancer is very far from silly.


But that is what Aynne88 did say.

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She did not need to have this done, Japanese women have a very large incident of carrying this same gene and one of the lowest rates of breast cancer. We can heal ourselves and while I do not envy being a mother in that position she was in, I would have looked into other options first.


A proper diet can do many things, but stating emphatically that Jolie didn't need the surgery, and "we can heal ourselves" in relation to cancer is very dangerous and ill informed advice.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/21/2013 4:33:31 AM   
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Of course, this also reminds me how great it is to live with universalized healthcare. It simply hadn't occured to me to consider that this might not be covered.

And don't forget that "covered" implies "insured" -- which is FAR FAR from a certain thing in the US. I would personally guess there are VAST swathes of US women who could not make the same choice Ms. Jolie did.



It would be interesting to know if Medicaid or Medicare would cover it.


According to this link they do...
quote:


Bilateral prophylactic mastectomy is medically appropriate in patients with no cancer
diagnosis in
any
of the following clinical scenerios that portend a high risk of cancer:
1.
Atypical hyperplasia
of lobular or ductal origin confirmed on biopsy by a
qua
lified pathologist. This diagnosis takes on added significance if atypical
hyperplasia is present in multiple sites in a breast and/or if it is bilateral.
2.
Family history of breast and /or ovarian cancer
in a first
-
degree relative,
(especially a mother or
sister) who is premenopausal and has had bilateral
breast cancer (family cancer syndrome),
with no demonstrative mutation
or
a
known mutation of BRCA 1 or BRCA2 breast cancer susceptibility genes.*
3.
Dense, fibronodular breasts
that are mammographically or c
linically difficult to
evaluate in a patient with either (or both) of the above clinical presentations .
The combination of atypical hyperplasia with a family history of breast cancer
implies significant risk (8
-
l0x) in excess of that of index populations.
4.
Family history of multiple family members with bilateral and/or pre
-
menopausal and/or male breast cancer
may be associated with a familial
breast cancer syndrome. Genetic counseling should be strongly considered,
although prophylactic surgery is appropri
ate in women with a family history
consistent with genetic predisposition and no demonstrative genetic mutation.*





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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/22/2013 8:53:20 PM   
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quote:

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Cancer is NOT a chronic illness. You cavalierly stating if she followed this type of diet, she wouldn't have needed surgery or gotten cancer is presumptious and silly. A special diet to SUPPORT a chronic illness or even cancer is fine, but it has neither been proven a cure nor an absolute preventative measure.

I doubt many suppose diet can cure cancer. But the idea that diet can prevent cancer is very far from silly.



Thank you for that I really appreciate it.


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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 5:36:50 PM   
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For those who have missed it, Jolie's aunt (her mother's sister just died from Breast cancer.
http://omg.yahoo.com/news/jolie-aunt-dies-breast-cancer-days-op-ed-002534814.html


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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 6:43:51 PM   
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I heard about that yesterday which made me feel that Angelina did indeed do the right thing. Both her mother and her mother's sister both died from breast cancer which means she definitely has a significant chance of getting it too. I'm glad she was proactive in taking control of her health in such a way. I commend Angelina for this.


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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 6:44:08 PM   
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I thought of this thread when I read that. It's really easy for people to judge others when they don't know the whole story and we never ever know someone else's whole story.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 6:57:10 PM   
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I agree also, she did the right thing for her..

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 7:13:08 PM   
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I don't think what Jolie did was particularly courageous or brave... It was however smart, and the right thing for her to do.

I think it was an easy decision for her to make, knowing she has the resources to enhance her appearance in any manner she desires.

Rock on Angie! Do whatever you have to do.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 7:21:03 PM   
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I don't think what Jolie did was particularly courageous or brave...

Two things strike me as brave about her choice:

(a) Facing a major and disfiguring surgery, particularly when one could play ostrich and think "Maybe it won't happen to me," strikes me as taking some guts. (Bias alert: I'm facing cancer surgery myself, so I have a keen sense of how scary it can be, especially when it means collateral damage.)

(b) With her money, Jolie could probably have the surgery done quietly without our ever knowing. I suspect it took some courage to come out with her story, a decision that may help save others' lives.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 7:23:58 PM   
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I posted the OP on the 14th.  It is now the 27th
almost two weeks.  Over 1025 views and 73 posts.

So far no one has mentioned her partner Mr Pitt.
She did:

""I am fortunate to have a partner, Brad Pitt, who is so loving and supportive.
So to anyone who has a wife or girlfriend going through this, know that you are
a very important part of the transition. Brad was at the Pink Lotus Breast Center,
where I was treated, for every minute of the surgeries. We managed to find moments
to laugh together. We knew this was the right thing to do for our family and that it would
bring us closer. And it has."

I am probably sensitive to this because the battle my partner had with cancer included
a lumpectomy early in the struggle and I know what it took to reassure her even though
we had been together many years.  

All of the reassurance for my woman was necessary despite fact that the thing that brought
us together in the first place was my ability to see more than just her professional dancer's
body and to relate to her as a complete woman. 

So congratulations to Mr Pitt for seeing that Angelina Jolie is more than just her parts.
And for being there for her as her man during a time of extraordinary stress for her
as a woman.  Which could have been mush worse had they not faced it as a couple
who could make time to laugh together.  My belief is that his role has been critical and
speaks volumes for him as a man. 


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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 7:54:12 PM   
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My belief is that his role has been critical and
speaks volumes for him as a man. 


I agree with that, very much.. I think it helps that he has played that role, as it shows women that they are more than their boobs and that a woman that has had that surgery can still captivate a man's attention (a good man, that is, not the douche dudes but who needs that type of guy anyway?)...

I think posters have not forgotten about him and his role, but there is that tangent of "diet" that has sorta shifted the subject somewhat..

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/27/2013 9:12:55 PM   
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Brad Pitt gave an interview that I was watching where he was talking about how he and the children handled Angie's recovery. He was saying they turned it into a game in who could take care of mommy the fastest and who could help her the best and such. I thought it was cute how he did that so that the children were not afraid of something with mommy and it probably helped to cheer her up as well and kept his mind clear so he wasn't as stressed either. I wish we saw more of stuff like this with couples, be they famous or not.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/28/2013 12:36:10 AM   
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My belief is that his role has been critical and
speaks volumes for him as a man. 


I agree with that, very much.. I think it helps that he has played that role, as it shows women that they are more than their boobs and that a woman that has had that surgery can still captivate a man's attention (a good man, that is, not the douche dudes but who needs that type of guy anyway?)...

I think posters have not forgotten about him and his role, but there is that tangent of "diet" that has sorta shifted the subject somewhat..


While I whole heartedly agree that men should think this way, when it comes to Brad Pitt, you can't help but look at the women he has been with. While none of them are *just* there boides, I'm sure (seeing as how I don't know them), all of them have hit the "most beautiful" list for their physical appearance at least once. And Jolie would still be considered beautiful without her breasts. I would be more impressed if he stayed with and gave that support if the person were to become really disfigured to the point of not being able to make that list anymore, say like what happed to Ebert with his thyroid surgery. When he supports a woman who loses have her face and sticks around, I will be impressed.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/28/2013 5:50:57 AM   
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While I whole heartedly agree that men should think this way, when it comes to Brad Pitt, you can't help but look at the women he has been with. While none of them are *just* there boides, I'm sure (seeing as how I don't know them), all of them have hit the "most beautiful" list for their physical appearance at least once. And Jolie would still be considered beautiful without her breasts. I would be more impressed if he stayed with and gave that support if the person were to become really disfigured to the point of not being able to make that list anymore, say like what happed to Ebert with his thyroid surgery. When he supports a woman who loses have her face and sticks around, I will be impressed.

sure but she is no longer "perfect".. and some of those other rich, famous dudes would have dropped her like a rock for just thinking of doing the surgery.. Imo if she was with someone like.. say... George Clooney, he would have been outta there in a shot.. yeah, I think George is one of the shallow dudes.. I am sure he isnt the only one either.. Being rich, famous & in Hollywood it is hard enough to keep a marriage together, so few last as it is.. Not to mention its one thing doing the surgery and another thing making it public.. I wonder how many men (rich or not) said to themselves that no way would they have stayed with her like Pitt has.. but again, who needs the douches anyway..

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/29/2013 2:43:21 AM   
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While I whole heartedly agree that men should think this way, when it comes to Brad Pitt, you can't help but look at the women he has been with. While none of them are *just* there boides, I'm sure (seeing as how I don't know them), all of them have hit the "most beautiful" list for their physical appearance at least once. And Jolie would still be considered beautiful without her breasts. I would be more impressed if he stayed with and gave that support if the person were to become really disfigured to the point of not being able to make that list anymore, say like what happed to Ebert with his thyroid surgery. When he supports a woman who loses have her face and sticks around, I will be impressed.

sure but she is no longer "perfect".. and some of those other rich, famous dudes would have dropped her like a rock for just thinking of doing the surgery.. Imo if she was with someone like.. say... George Clooney, he would have been outta there in a shot.. yeah, I think George is one of the shallow dudes.. I am sure he isnt the only one either.. Being rich, famous & in Hollywood it is hard enough to keep a marriage together, so few last as it is.. Not to mention its one thing doing the surgery and another thing making it public.. I wonder how many men (rich or not) said to themselves that no way would they have stayed with her like Pitt has.. but again, who needs the douches anyway..


Actually, she is stil perfect, in fact more so since she cared enough for her family to do this. She is having her ovaries removed soon as well.

Neither of you know how Brad Pitt feels or can make assumptions on what famous people would do if their partners were to do the same thing for the same reasons.

Instead of bashing a brave woman who made a tough decision and her partner who clearly loves her, his kids and who are both very philanthropic, you should be applauding them.

Cancer and medical decisions are no laughing matter, I can tell you first hand. And anyone with a supportive partner, famous or not, is lucky.

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RE: Angelina Jolie had a "preventative double mast... - 5/29/2013 5:38:47 AM   
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While I whole heartedly agree that men should think this way, when it comes to Brad Pitt, you can't help but look at the women he has been with. While none of them are *just* there boides, I'm sure (seeing as how I don't know them), all of them have hit the "most beautiful" list for their physical appearance at least once. And Jolie would still be considered beautiful without her breasts. I would be more impressed if he stayed with and gave that support if the person were to become really disfigured to the point of not being able to make that list anymore, say like what happed to Ebert with his thyroid surgery. When he supports a woman who loses have her face and sticks around, I will be impressed.

sure but she is no longer "perfect".. and some of those other rich, famous dudes would have dropped her like a rock for just thinking of doing the surgery.. Imo if she was with someone like.. say... George Clooney, he would have been outta there in a shot.. yeah, I think George is one of the shallow dudes.. I am sure he isnt the only one either.. Being rich, famous & in Hollywood it is hard enough to keep a marriage together, so few last as it is.. Not to mention its one thing doing the surgery and another thing making it public.. I wonder how many men (rich or not) said to themselves that no way would they have stayed with her like Pitt has.. but again, who needs the douches anyway..


You could be right, but I disagree for a couple of reasons. I don't think Clooney is that shallow. Yes, he is a playboy, but he seems to always date those less famous than him, but still celebrity, which makes for a difficult relationship in Hollywood.

There is also the publicity factor. Brad Pitt's popularity rating is pretty high (as is Clooney's). That would plummet for anyone who dumped her, and that would not be beneficial to them. I'm not saying that is what is making Pitt stay, since in other interviews (before this happened) he talks about how much she means to him. But he certainly would lose his popularity almost 100% if he dumped her, which also means he would be unable to get any work, because no one would want to see his movies (I currently don't care to see his movies anyway).

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