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DeadlyReign -> New dom from PA (5/15/2013 2:09:49 PM)

Hey everyone. It's really nice to find this website. I have been here for a few weeks, and I enjoy knowing there are people around who are also into this stuff. I'm on here looking for a female sub that lives nearby. It's been a while sine my last sub had to leave because of work, and I wish to find two new sub/slaves to replace her.

It's hard to find people wanting to talk and even harder to find someone who wants a 24/7 TPE with little to no limits. I hope to find someone like that soon. Not really good at long introductions so I'm just gonna stop here. :)



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 2:21:41 PM)

[sm=welcome.gif]



DeadlyReign -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 2:23:03 PM)

Lol thanks, but I'm not the submitting type. :p



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 2:25:36 PM)

No worries, my dance card is full. Besides, this is the discussion side of the site, not the personals side. Everyone here is equal. Except the Mods. They are our Supreme Overlords and require daily sacrifices of chocolate and alcohol. [;)]



DeadlyReign -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 2:33:44 PM)

Thanks. Though I wish I knew how to find someone though. Starting to feel like my ex is paying people to not be interested.



Rasciallymisty -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 3:35:10 PM)

Greetings and welcome to Collarme and the forums, the discussion side of the site. The unicorns that you seek will not be found on this side, that takes place over on the other side. You may want to jump down to the poly thread where more folks like you hang out.

Um I just read your journal ........you played and collared someone you just meet on the first meeting??? That says very little about her and not so much about you. Plus you have been here a little over a month and complaining because you can't find a second sub? Maybe the rest are a bit smarter and have read your journal.
( I know mods I am supposed to stay nice and I am trying).

The first meeting should be just that a meeting and getting to know someone. What would have happen if after you .." bound her hands together using authentic police handcuffs (none of that safety latch plastic crap), as well as bind and gag her, then continued to whip her tits with a riding crop until they were sore, and then at one point had her get out of the car and get on her knees in the middle of the garage. I then allowed her the pleasure of orally satisfying me which she did quite well. She decided to call the cops to say you abused her and raped her???? OR that some person walked by and saw you doing so, since this took place in parkining garage and decided to call the cops????

There is a great thread going on right now you should really read. Protecting yourself from false allegations ......its under General BDSM Dissussions, by LadyPact and there is also another one. There another one is by DarkSteven "What actions , if any, should I take" ? That one is under sub/slaves thread.

Sorry I can not wish you luck in finding that in which you seek because I do not think you are SSC.

misty (awaits my gold letter)



MasterCaneman -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 3:41:20 PM)

Hello and welcome. (no gold letter for me)



Rasciallymisty -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 3:43:21 PM)

LOL well I did give some advice too [:D]



MasterCaneman -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 4:01:47 PM)

That you did. You mean well, Misty. And OP, best of luck in your search. OP, I took the liberty of looking over your profile, and I think I see the problem right here,"....Your existence is to only please me in whatever way I can think of..."

Look, I know that's your dynamic, and it's good sometimes to be upfront about these things, but that statement is almost guaranteed to make them pass your profile by. Try toning it down a little, give a potential partner more of a reason to approach you. Show them you're a well-rounded individual outside of kink, and you'll get more takers. And the last item on the preselected list? About finding the local community? Do it. You'd be surprised at how close your next partner may be to you already...Again, best of luck in your quest. Use the 'Search' function here to look up questions you may have. And above all else, patience. It may take some time.



DeadlyReign -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 4:05:27 PM)

Thanks Caneman, your response was more insightful and honest in a nice way. The meeting wasn't meant to happen until weeks later, but she has some work to do out of the country and asked if I wanted to see a movie. It was meant to be just a date, but we were naturally attracted to each other. Is it wrong to go full throttle on the first meet? probably, but I don't really regret it. It was a fun night and a fun birthday gift. Since then, we have been talking and she felt that if I wanted two subs than that would be fun and fair.



MasterCaneman -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 4:21:39 PM)

No, it isn't wrong to go full throttle on the first meet at all. Back when I was more active, most of my scenes occurred on first or second dates, but you have to know that I was working in an environment where women that were deep into the scene hung out. But you can't count on it happening all the time, therefore, you have to adapt to the situation when it calls for it.

I just posted this for another Dom here in Introductions Profile Help.

It will take some time, but scan through those and see what the others have to say. Yeah, a lot of them involves male subs wanting to attract dommes, sorry, but the same principles apply. You can convey who and what you are in a manner that will draw eyes to your profile, rather than drive them away. Remember, there are more of Us than there are of them, and you need to stand out over the other Dom-types that post.

Just for shits and giggles, go on CM (this is CC), and browse through the other Dom profiles and ask yourself, "Self, if I were a single, submissive female, which one of these would I respond to? Which one makes me want to run screaming into the night?" I do this exercise about once a week, mainly for the amusement factor, but each time I pick up a little more information. And that's what this side is good for.



DeadlyReign -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 4:57:30 PM)

Thanks for the thought. I changed my profile and tried to make it more understanding of who I am.



MasterCaneman -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 7:47:03 PM)

The profile is a bit better. Don't be afraid to alter is as time goes by and as you wish it to.



DomMeinCT -> RE: New dom from PA (5/15/2013 8:42:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman
browse through the other Dom profiles and ask yourself, "Self, if I were a single, submissive female, which one of these would I respond to? Which one makes me want to run screaming into the night?" I do this exercise about once a week, mainly for the amusement factor, but each time I pick up a little more information. And that's what this side is good for.


This is very good advice.

Best in your search, OP.



OohAahMrs -> RE: New dom from PA (5/16/2013 5:43:18 AM)

Welcome, hope you can snap someone up, who lives nearby!



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