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Choline -> what is a...? (5/15/2013 3:12:13 PM)

Chipper Dom?

Talking to a new guy and he said he was a chipper Dom. I asked what that was, to which he replied, I want to use you, abuse you and degrade you. I asked how that differed from a regular Dom and he never replied with an answer. Tried goggle, nothing. I ask because he seems to be a judgemental asshole... Is it someone who chips away at their subs self esteem?

Thanks!



hlen5 -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 3:13:37 PM)

For a moment I was thinking of the movie, "Fargo". Shudders.......



RumpusParable -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 3:31:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Choline

Chipper Dom?

Talking to a new guy and he said he was a chipper Dom. I asked what that was, to which he replied, I want to use you, abuse you and degrade you. I asked how that differed from a regular Dom and he never replied with an answer. Tried goggle, nothing. I ask because he seems to be a judgemental asshole... Is it someone who chips away at their subs self esteem?

Thanks!


First: Never heard that label before, so I've no clue about that bit.

Second: There really isn't a "regular dom". Many love using, abusing, and/or degrading. Many have zero interest in any of those. Some like specific combinations and amounts of those. Some have no set pattern of what they like as their desires shift depending on the partner, relationship, and/or situation.



Choline -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 3:37:12 PM)

I am well aware that every Dom is different.

Perhaps I should have phrased my question differently such as: How is "chipper Dom" different than a "Dom" or a "Daddy Dom"?



Rawni -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 4:05:12 PM)

[:D][:D][:D][:D] A chipper dom? Oh... pound my chest... I'm a chipper dom, been a chipper dom for twenty years. Respect me, kneel and let me chip you. When you ask me what the difference is between a dom and a chipper dom, I will run away because we can't let things get too complicated, I only want to use and chip you. Shut up... don't ask questions, you are below my intelligence!

A chipper dom sounds really stupid to me.



littlewonder -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 5:00:58 PM)

To me the word "chipper" means happy, skipping along the road of life with a smile on your face, likes to laugh and have fun.

So I guess it's a happy dom?



Choline -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 5:10:25 PM)

Actually he seems hateful and not happy.

Rawni described him most accurately. Other than the higher intelligence thing. He seems quite ignorant actually.


Its probably just a word he made up... Or perhaps an auto correct?



LafayetteLady -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 5:20:54 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

To me the word "chipper" means happy, skipping along the road of life with a smile on your face, likes to laugh and have fun.

So I guess it's a happy dom?



First thought that came to my mind too. Second was that he likes to involve a wood chipper in his scenes.



NuevaVida -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 5:41:48 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

To me the word "chipper" means happy, skipping along the road of life with a smile on your face, likes to laugh and have fun.

So I guess it's a happy dom?


I thought this, too!

But from the sound of it, the dom in the OP sounds like one I would stay away from.



DarkSteven -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 5:43:03 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Choline

I asked what that was, to which he replied, I want to use you, abuse you and degrade you.


There's your answer. He's an idiot who coughs up platitudes. Likely he used the term "chipper Dom" as a mistaken effort to say something else.



chatterbox24 -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 6:03:15 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Choline

Chipper Dom?

Talking to a new guy and he said he was a chipper Dom. I asked what that was, to which he replied, I want to use you, abuse you and degrade you. I asked how that differed from a regular Dom and he never replied with an answer. Tried goggle, nothing. I ask because he seems to be a judgemental asshole... Is it someone who chips away at their subs self esteem?

Thanks!


He told you what it was. Use abuse degrade. He is making up his own terms to describe himself, because other terms are not original enough. I would say he wants to make you feel like a dung pile. LoL. Of course that's just my guess, but based on what you said about him, high probability its a close description.



SeekingTrinity -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 6:48:25 PM)

~FRing it~

Been around he block a time or two and I've never heard the phrase "chipper Dom" before either. Frankly Im thinking dude has no fucking clue what he's talking about.

I'll admit that I too thought of Fargo when I saw the word chipper too [:)]



littlewonder -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 6:55:54 PM)

urban dictionary has lots of ideas on what chipper is in different regions. You may get a laugh out of some of them.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=chipper



muhly22222 -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 8:00:01 PM)

FR

Wait, where was the guy from? Maybe he was just telling you his name. I bet he was from Atlanta. You might have been speaking to Chipper Jones. Sweet Jesus, you might have speaking to freaking CHIPPER JONES!!!!

Go back and find out if that was the case. Because if it is...dude has a lot of money and all kinds of time to give you "attention."

Yeah, ok, sorry...I couldn't resist. Back to being serious...he was probably just making up some term to sound "original" to get chicks to talk to him.



MasterCaneman -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 8:54:39 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

To me the word "chipper" means happy, skipping along the road of life with a smile on your face, likes to laugh and have fun.

So I guess it's a happy dom?



First thought that came to my mind too. Second was that he likes to involve a wood chipper in his scenes.


Remember to quote that on your list of hard limits.



LafayetteLady -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 9:13:57 PM)

Honestly, if someone ever told me he was a "chipper dom," I would ask why he was so happy all the time. Then again, I'm leaning more towards my dominant side these days, so either way, he likely wouldn't talk to me again.



sexyred1 -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 10:15:59 PM)

Maybe he was speaking with an accent and he meant he was a Cheaper Dom.

In that case, stay away. I hate cheap Doms.

And Doms who use wood chippers who are cheery every minute.




Choline -> RE: what is a...? (5/15/2013 10:26:32 PM)

Well I have decided not to pursue things any further. He kept calling people/things retarded. I have a little brother with down syndrome so it was highly offensive to me. Of course the first time he said it I asked him to stop and explained why. He kept doing it, I think on purpose to piss me off. Which is a douche nozzle thing to do.

And no, not from Atlanta, from Chicago. Which would also explain some of his douchyness.



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: what is a...? (5/16/2013 1:29:03 AM)

A Dom that is feeling rather Chipper? LOL



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: what is a...? (5/16/2013 1:33:16 AM)

Hope this breaks the illusion that all Doms are smart, intelligent all knowing beings walking the earth, wielding the wisdom from years of experience, and are the key holders of arcane secret knowledge. :P



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