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Platonic Friendship - 5/15/2013 5:56:29 PM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		Hello to all,

i know there is different strokes for different folks and the relationship that i have with my Master may not be your cup of tea but it works for us. my Master doesn't see me as a slave first but as lori the woman who would like to have a friendship and yes at times even perhaps a mentor who has had the same feelings and emotions at this stage in my life. i believe in the creed and promise to help other submissive's who's journey and path in life may just be beginning. The other side seems to be leaning more toward the sexual and i am hoping that the boards may be filled with more thought provoking discussions. Anyway, i'm a new kid on the block and all i ask is that you don't step all over my new white sneakers.
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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/15/2013 6:42:20 PM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		Greetings and welcome to Collarme and the forum where discussions take place. Nice intro, I like your new white sneakers and hope they will stay that way here. LOL sometimes this side can become full of brutally honest peeps, a thick skin works well. Hope to see you join in on some of the discussions. Welcome aboard.

misty

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/15/2013 7:48:40 PM   
MasterCaneman


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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/16/2013 5:44:33 AM   
OohAahMrs


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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/16/2013 12:47:18 PM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		Thank you very much for the warm welcomes.

"l"

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/16/2013 1:04:00 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Hi, welcome to the site. I'm afraid I've never heard of the creed, but there are some good discussions to be had round here, I hope you enjoy your stay.

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/16/2013 4:44:08 PM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		Thank you AthenaSurrenders. I was speaking of the submissive's creed. It is a very good read with words to live by

"l"

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 2:11:58 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I didn't realize there could be such a thing, since we all have such different ideas on what submission is to us. I'm glad you've found something that speaks to you.

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 4:21:17 AM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		The Submissive’s Creed

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I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits and experience. I realsie that failing to do so will not only prevent my Dominant and I from having the best experience possible, but it can also lead to physical and emotional harm.

I will try not to manipulate my Dominant. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. In other words, I will not Top from the bottom.

I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not comfortable with and on expanding my limits. I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.

I will accept the responsibility for discovering what pleases my Dominant and will do my best to fulfil Their wishes and desires.

I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. I know that being a submissive does not mean being a doormat.

I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. I will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where I have been. I will take time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.

I will be responsive to my Dominant. I will not try to hide what my mind and both are feeling so that I may assist Them in their responsibilities as my Authority. I know Dominants are not telepaths and I will not expect my Dominant to know thoughts or feelings which I do not share.

I will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. I will not place total blame on my Dominant when it is not warranted simply because They are the Dominant. I realise things may not work out as they should at time and will try my best to put it behind me and move on.

I will give my submission only to those who can responsibly accept it and desire to receive it. I will not place anyone in the position of Dominating me non-consensually, nor will I give my respect to someone who has not earned it.

I will be obedient to my Dominant even if I disagree with what They are requesting. I realise They have my best interests at heart and often know better than I what I need in a particular situation.

I know that my actions reflect upon my Dominant, and will do my best to help others to see Them in a positive way. I will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.

Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honour. I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub-human. I will take pride in who I am and will never show myself in a negative way.

When I was in D/s chat rooms, back when I was first intro to D/s, I saw this passed around a lot.

misty

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 4:23:57 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Ah I see. I was never really into the chatroom scene so I have never seen this. I'm not entirely comfortable with the idea of a submissives' creed but I suppose that's a topic for a different thread. Thank you for educating me!

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 4:39:19 AM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		Real life is so much better and your welcome.

misty

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 5:02:47 AM   
garyFLR


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Status: offline 		Hi Lori, & welcome to CM.

I like you're rationale. We're a friendly bunch here, by & large, I shall keep away from your new white sneakers .
Best wishes, Gary.

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 6:07:40 AM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		Thank you gary and like i wrote different strokes for different folks. i am very dominant in every aspect of my life except in my relationship, and what we choose to believe and do as two consenting adults to give ourselves balance is ours to share. Because i choose to believe in the submissive's creed does not mean that i am not living a real life ( as a matter of fact i just pinched myself and it hurt like hell, so yes, i'm in the real world) it means that i read something a while ago which made sense. It's not so much the words but the content therein. It's a reminder to communicate and to be honest to yourself and your partner and that's whether you are in a so called "vanilla" relationship or whatever. To me it's like learning to walk, putting one foot in front of the other, after the basics are in place what each person does after that is their very own technique. It's what gives us our style and personality.

l

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 6:30:10 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I don't think anyone meant to suggest that your belief in that piece of writing means you're not living in the real world. I was explaining why I didn't know about it, and I assume misty was just trying to tell me I wasn't missing out by not having been into chat rooms.

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Being your slave, what should I do but tend
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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 7:08:55 AM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		No harm, no foul. i found it a few years ago when i was looking for some reading material but i can imagine that it was passed around in chat rooms. As in anything it can be used for good or not so good intentions. i think that because i stumbled upon it myself and it wasn't shoved down my throat as it sometimes is that i have a different view of it and was able to adapt it to fit me.... that's all.

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 8:01:47 AM   
ResidentSadist


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From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline 		I see you are a believer . . . it is nice to see someone with a good social sense. I see you're a fellow Floridian, do you attend the local MAsT meetings?

As far as the forums go, you'll find everything from thought provoking discussions to total lunacy. Hope yo enjoy yourself here. Best wishes and welcome aboard.





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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 8:43:36 AM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		Thank you. i believe in myself and i believe in what my Dominant and i share, i also respect the views of others and what they have decided is right for them. To think otherwise would make me a hypocrite.

Fairly new to Florida but we would be interested in what the area has to offer.

l

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 9:20:29 AM   
Rasciallymisty


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Status: offline 		Sorry yes that was my intent. "l".... I started learning all about D/s from being in a chat room, meet my first Dom there. Most on here are real life such as yourself and as you said have their own ways as you have yours. We went real time and I highly suggest it when ever possible. That was all I meant by real life is better. Sorry for any confusion.

misty

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 9:33:24 AM   
girlandherDaddy


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Status: offline 		Rasciallymisty, i apologize for my end of the confusion. This is my first experience with any type of "computer" interaction be it chat rooms or forums. As for real life i will give it a hearty "Hell Yes!", i can't imagine it any other way.

l

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RE: Platonic Friendship - 5/17/2013 9:34:27 AM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		Welcome!! I think you just go smacked everyone by being so normal! We get a lot of the "all my experience is from porn videos" and WE are the ones usually pointing out that submissive women are women first and still require the same stuff vanilla women do...it is just we have fun in a whole different way than the vanillas! Well, hopefully we will see you around the discussions.

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