curious23
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar To not further derail that thread, here's the new one based on this line of posts: http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4452741 quote:
ORIGINAL: curious23 Well I added more to my answer when I thought about it more if you wanna see my edit above. I would have to trust that the person I am stranded with saw me as a fellow human being and chose to treat me like he'd want to be treated. However I base this initial trust on the evidence I've seen of human nature. In my experience, people want to be treated fairly and thus treat others fairly to get that so it's not a stretch for me to come to the conclusion that N'gumbo here doesn't want to eat my spline. But if I had never come across another human being in my life and knew nothing of ones nature, I would not be surprised if I killed one at first glance for any number of reasons. Competition. A threat. Whatever. Nods, now stop thinking about killing, and think about this: You and N'gumbo are on an island together, y'all ain't going to kill each other, but you have different skill levels, and different assets you landed on the island with. He's got a knife, you don't. He knows how to gather food. You don't. Does he still own the knife? If so, why? Does he owe you a share of his food? If so, why? Does he owe you not to use the knife to rape you under the threat of violence? If so why? It really depends on the nature of our relationship. If I had nothing like you say, I would try and be alley's with N'gumbo because I know my time on this island would be hard without him. I wouldn't steal from him because there are consequences to that. So my thinking isn't "I can't steal his knife because that's wrong". It's "I can't steal his knife because he might steal it back and slit my throat." I'm thinking more about me than him. Does he owe me food? Hell no. The last thing I'd want to wrack up on a tropical island is debt. The last things I have for a stranger is expectations. Now if he offers, I probably wouldn't decline food. As for the last question, as I stated earlier, I'd be coming into this with initial trust hoping that he would treat me as he'd want to be treated. Then minute he starts to treat me as anything less, he forfeits the trust I bestowed on him and I'd probably take him out or die trying.
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