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Charles6682 -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/29/2013 7:50:34 AM)
I can't really say much for the male doms out there because I am not one. But I have heard similar things from Female Dommes, saying that they get "male doms" trying to "convert" them. Thats pretty pathetic too. I have too assue these guys are not "real" male doms either. Guys like DarkSteven seem very well liked and respected. I am sure he is what a "real" male dom would be. "Stereotypes",just another part of society. I don't fall for them though because most stereotypes are bs anyways.

Rasciallymisty -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/29/2013 7:57:57 AM)
[sm=rofl.gif] Yeah it is and to laugh them off and move on is the best thing to do. Plus it saves on your panties from getting all bunched up and chafing us delicate sub's. [:D] misty

thishereboi -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/29/2013 12:12:33 PM)
According to your profile you are looking for pathetic losers. Now you are bitching because you have pathetic losers messaging you. Sorry sweetcheeks but you are simply getting what you asked for. Next time act like a decent human being, treat others the same and maybe, just maybe you might find a decent partner.

Kana -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/29/2013 6:42:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi According to your profile you are looking for pathetic losers. Now you are bitching because you have pathetic losers messaging you. Sorry sweetcheeks but you are simply getting what you asked for. Next time act like a decent human being, treat others the same and maybe, just maybe you might find a decent partner. I raise my glass to you, Sahib

LafayetteLady -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/29/2013 11:44:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi According to your profile you are looking for pathetic losers. Now you are bitching because you have pathetic losers messaging you. Sorry sweetcheeks but you are simply getting what you asked for. Next time act like a decent human being, treat others the same and maybe, just maybe you might find a decent partner. I have a feeling she won't be back to this thread. She didn't get all the support she figured she would get, lol.

ThePrincessKali -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 4:52:40 AM)
I wasn't asking for a judgement on my profile or to be told for the ten thousandth time how awful I am blah blah. And what I was originally referring to wasn't friendly I'd like to get to know you better messages, which is fine. I guess then I get one from someone listed as a Dom who says "hey girl let me holla at you." And tons and tons just like that. So that's the type of message I was referring to. and if someone doesn't like what they see on my profile then that's totally fine they don't have to message me lol. I don't know why everyone gets so aggressive with me everytime I ask a simple question. Jeez Louise. But to those who answered honestly I thank you for your responses!

ThePrincessKali -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 5:04:45 AM)
And no I wasn't seeking "support" I was simply asking a question. No I didn't have time to rush back too are what the responses for because I have a job and a life and don't spend all of my time posting on a message board which is why I don't post too often so excuse the hell out of me for asking a fucking question. It's like high school bullies in here which is ridiculous coming from adults. Grow up.

MstSebastian -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 9:42:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali I feel like as of late, the past few months, I've been bombarded by messages from guys who list themselves as "dominant," which is strange because I'm a fin domme. So I wouldn't be interested in another dominant. I think most of these guys see it as kink=easy sex. Especially because their message don't seem to acknowledge the fact that I'm a domme. And usually go something like, "hey girl! you wanna hang out some time?" I'm not quite sure why there is such a rise in this all of a sudden. When I message them responding I'm a Domme and have no interest in another Dom or that they should read up on the message boards I usually get told I'm being a bitch. Anyone else been having similar experiences lately? And why all of a sudden? The only thing I could come up with, that hasn't already been listed, may have to do with you being a Fin Domme. Now, granted, I do NOT share this opinion, but I have known several people who don't think that Fin Dommes are "real" Dommes. They think of these women as little more than lazy women just trying to sponge off of others, and thus aren't really Dominants at all. So, perhaps, the people who are messaging you like you mentioned are of the opinion that you aren't a "real" Domme and, thus, wouldn't care whether they were Dom or sub, just so long as they have a penis? Just a guess.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 10:43:28 AM)
If "everyone" gets "aggressive" with you, perhaps you should consider what is wrong with your posting style instead of being narcissistic and blaming everyone else calling them bullies. Newsflash chickie, when you post, you open yourself up to comments about not only your post, but your profile as well. Consider your profile reads as something written by an angry high school girl, you really need to get over yourself. Like boi said, you ask for losers to contact you and then get all butthurt when they do. Perhaps you should re-evaluate your profile and start learning how to figure some of this out.

stef -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 11:31:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali And no I wasn't seeking "support" I was simply asking a question. No I didn't have time to rush back too are what the responses for because I have a job and a life and don't spend all of my time posting on a message board which is why I don't post too often so excuse the hell out of me for asking a fucking question. It's like high school bullies in here which is ridiculous coming from adults. Grow up. When you act like a horse's ass you get treated like a horse's ass. If you want to be treated like a princess, try acting like a princess.

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 12:07:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali And no I wasn't seeking "support" I was simply asking a question. No I didn't have time to rush back too are what the responses for because I have a job and a life and don't spend all of my time posting on a message board which is why I don't post too often so excuse the hell out of me for asking a fucking question. It's like high school bullies in here which is ridiculous coming from adults. Grow up. Well, aren't you special? Bless your lovely little heart OP, let me clue you in. Penises are not literate. They do not love the written word, nor are they hooked on phonics. You will not see a penis graduating summa cum laude from Harvard. So it's very likely that the person who wrote to you didn't give one rat's tiny little fuzzy ass about what you wrote in your profile or the boxes you checked.

Charles6682 -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 4:10:21 PM)
I never did think to consider that perhap's, some "vanilla" guys think that maybe coming to a site like Collarme, that it may be easier for them to get laid? I don't know. I doubt they would seek a Female Domme. But maybe they may seek a Female submissive for that reason. Only,I'm sure if this does happen, these guys find out real quick what this Lifestyle is and isn't about.

searching4mysir -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 4:40:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I never did think to consider that perhap's, some "vanilla" guys think that maybe coming to a site like Collarme, that it may be easier for them to get laid? I don't know. I doubt they would seek a Female Domme. But maybe they may seek a Female submissive for that reason. Only,I'm sure if this does happen, these guys find out real quick what this Lifestyle is and isn't about. Oh definitely. I had some 20-yr old guy friend request me on the other side for sex. I asked if he read my profile and he, essentially, told me to cheat on my Master with him. I told him I only submit to one man, so if he wanted to have sex with me, he would have to bend over like a good little boy and take my razor-studded strap on up his ass using only his blood for lube. Shockers, he disappeared after that.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 4:46:13 PM)
~FR~ There are lots of men on this site who list themselves as doms, but really have no interest other than getting laid. And, there are lots of women on this site who list themselves as doms but really have no interest other than getting paid.

MasterCaneman -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/30/2013 9:49:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I never did think to consider that perhap's, some "vanilla" guys think that maybe coming to a site like Collarme, that it may be easier for them to get laid? I don't know. I doubt they would seek a Female Domme. But maybe they may seek a Female submissive for that reason. Only,I'm sure if this does happen, these guys find out real quick what this Lifestyle is and isn't about. Oh definitely. I had some 20-yr old guy friend request me on the other side for sex. I asked if he read my profile and he, essentially, told me to cheat on my Master with him. I told him I only submit to one man, so if he wanted to have sex with me, he would have to bend over like a good little boy and take my razor-studded strap on up his ass using only his blood for lube. Shockers, he disappeared after that. Was he...an 'Arab prince', by any chance...? [;)]

searching4mysir -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/31/2013 9:38:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I never did think to consider that perhap's, some "vanilla" guys think that maybe coming to a site like Collarme, that it may be easier for them to get laid? I don't know. I doubt they would seek a Female Domme. But maybe they may seek a Female submissive for that reason. Only,I'm sure if this does happen, these guys find out real quick what this Lifestyle is and isn't about. Oh definitely. I had some 20-yr old guy friend request me on the other side for sex. I asked if he read my profile and he, essentially, told me to cheat on my Master with him. I told him I only submit to one man, so if he wanted to have sex with me, he would have to bend over like a good little boy and take my razor-studded strap on up his ass using only his blood for lube. Shockers, he disappeared after that. Was he...an 'Arab prince', by any chance...? [;)] No, he was actually from about 2 hrs away from me.

LadyPact -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/31/2013 9:43:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstSebastian The only thing I could come up with, that hasn't already been listed, may have to do with you being a Fin Domme. Now, granted, I do NOT share this opinion, but I have known several people who don't think that Fin Dommes are "real" Dommes. They think of these women as little more than lazy women just trying to sponge off of others, and thus aren't really Dominants at all. So, perhaps, the people who are messaging you like you mentioned are of the opinion that you aren't a "real" Domme and, thus, wouldn't care whether they were Dom or sub, just so long as they have a penis? Just a guess. I was absolutely waiting for someone to put forward this opinion so I could thank them for saving Me the keystrokes. I knew I couldn't be the only one thinking it.

littleclip -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (5/31/2013 5:13:32 PM)
if they dont have a penis they make attachments for that

MasterCaneman -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (6/1/2013 6:05:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir quote: ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman quote: ORIGINAL: searching4mysir quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 I never did think to consider that perhap's, some "vanilla" guys think that maybe coming to a site like Collarme, that it may be easier for them to get laid? I don't know. I doubt they would seek a Female Domme. But maybe they may seek a Female submissive for that reason. Only,I'm sure if this does happen, these guys find out real quick what this Lifestyle is and isn't about. Oh definitely. I had some 20-yr old guy friend request me on the other side for sex. I asked if he read my profile and he, essentially, told me to cheat on my Master with him. I told him I only submit to one man, so if he wanted to have sex with me, he would have to bend over like a good little boy and take my razor-studded strap on up his ass using only his blood for lube. Shockers, he disappeared after that. Was he...an 'Arab prince', by any chance...? [;)] No, he was actually from about 2 hrs away from me. Ahh. I thought I saw that one of the groups (that shall not be named) over on Fet. I must have misremembered (is that a word?) it.

MstSebastian -> RE: Is it just me or is there a huge influx of people who want nothing to do with any kinks on here? (6/4/2013 7:09:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: MstSebastian The only thing I could come up with, that hasn't already been listed, may have to do with you being a Fin Domme. Now, granted, I do NOT share this opinion, but I have known several people who don't think that Fin Dommes are "real" Dommes. They think of these women as little more than lazy women just trying to sponge off of others, and thus aren't really Dominants at all. So, perhaps, the people who are messaging you like you mentioned are of the opinion that you aren't a "real" Domme and, thus, wouldn't care whether they were Dom or sub, just so long as they have a penis? Just a guess. I was absolutely waiting for someone to put forward this opinion so I could thank them for saving Me the keystrokes. I knew I couldn't be the only one thinking it. Happy to help, LP. [:D]

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