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Thanks! - 11/11/2004 4:46:35 PM

aztecdocswhore

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I am very new to this scene, world I prefer, and am still unsure most of the times that I am doing anything right...The Sir that I have has only been displeased with me one time, and for me being such a newbie I am fairly proud of that.
Now that I am done rambling, I just wanted to say thank you for all the helpful insights into this wonderful journey that I have begun.
I never know what to really say for fear of sounding silly...ie not knowing all of the correct terminology and things.
Anywho, thanks for listening and for at some post or another answered many questions I would have been to shy to ask

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RE: Thanks! - 11/11/2004 5:37:44 PM

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We all started somewhere. I'm sure some of my comments when i first joined and even now looked silly to some, but everyone here is very helpful and understanding of newbies. Feel free to ask anything you want or to comment.

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RE: Thanks! - 11/12/2004 12:33:49 PM

inadazey

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I'm so glad things are going well for you! :) I've made both bigger and littler slip-ups with my Master since we've been together, but he's told me a number of times that I do very well for never having been properly trained before him (I'd had doms before, but they were really only tops to me). Few things make me happier than hearing that, that he's proud of me, or that I really please him. So I think I understand how you feel. :)

And I agree with proudsub... don't worry about sounding silly (don't we all sometimes?!), and ask away if you have any questions.

Again, congrats on your relationship! *hugs* ~daisy~

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RE: Thanks! - 11/13/2004 3:18:41 AM

BeachMystress

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As it has been said, we all started somewhere. You don't walk into a math class and be expected to know how to do calculus. Being a newbie is a scary but fun time in the BDSM experience. Enjoy it and don't ever be afraid to ask for fear of sounding foolish. Never be ashamed of not knowing or understanding something. The only shame is in not seeking to learn.

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RE: Thanks! - 11/13/2004 4:18:31 PM

aztecdocswhore

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Thank you A/all for being so welcoming and reminding me that the most wonderful journey starts with one step at a time...My biggest fear is that I will not measure up or dissapoint, but after reading so many posts on this board, I see that I am not alone...Again, thanks for making me feel welcome

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RE: Thanks! - 12/5/2004 1:58:47 AM

Wolfsbabygirlz

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greetings to you ....wanted to say that I too am a newbie, in a new world where I need to learn everything. Ive always been sub with no one to share it with. thank God I finally found the world I belong in. I am so proud and honored to be under collar of consideration, and my Dom and I are a perfect fit. He's so tolerant of my ignorance of knowing the rules and such, even wants to know everything about me as a person beyond my sub role. I had no clue you could fall madly in luv with your Dom, but it's just made me more determined to please him any way possible.
You sound very sweet from reading your messege, would enjoy hearing more from you anytime, now this is rambling, lol
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