njlauren -> RE: Could an aetheist do this? (6/2/2013 1:29:14 PM)
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ORIGINAL: cordeliasub Not Catholic here, Baptist (and we are supposed to be the worst of the worst depending on who you talk to) Our pastor did a month long study of Song of Solomon extolling the beauty of sex. He was very open, and I remember him using that verse about the marriage bed being undefiled and saying that if what is done in that bed is pleasing to both people then God smiles on it. He even said "even if that means the couple wants to swing from chandeliers and wear handcuffs." Of course, I was about 21 and not married yet and had never even heard of BDSM or anything, but I remember a 50 something year old lady sitting in the back with her husband shouting "AMEN!" And before anyone asks, no, he did NOT address homosexuality at all. That wasn't the point of the sermon series, and the couple in Song of Solomon are a man and woman, so no...it was neither pro nor anti gay...it was a study of Song of Solomon. So no....not all religious people and churches are uptight about sex,,,even kinky sex. Intelligent people are capable of NOT generalizing. And I'm still looking for a crucifix on that dollar bill. nope, not all are, but I think you also have to look at the broader picture to understand that religion has had a lot of trouble with sex and sexuality. Put it this way, there are Catholic priests, some of whom I have become friends with, who basically outright tell their flock that the vatican is full of a bunch of old farts who don't have a clue what sex is, how powerful it is, it is all theoretical to them, and that their stance on birth control and on non vaginal sex is not scripture, but rather was based in a very, very negative view of sex passed down through the centuries of the church, going back to church fathers like Jerome and also based in neo platonic ideals of ascetism and stoicism.......and what they tell their married couples is if it furthers their love for each other, go for it, and that he doubted God cared if they used birth control...... Saying all religion or all religious are prudish or backwards is going to fail, as most 'all' statements do.....but that doesn't mean that religions role with sex has been a a positive one, much of what you are seeing is of recent origin, in part because the people in the churches have come to their own understanding.
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