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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/26/2006 4:11:23 PM   
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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/26/2006 4:21:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kree

I am amazed that someone can ask a serious question and be held up to ridicule for his tie and his posture.  Perhaps we should dedicate 40% of every thread to a critique of the spelling, grammar, appearance, and apparel of each person who posts a question.  My guess is that we would have a lot fewer questions to consider and a great many people with hurt feelings.  Oh, wait, I forgot the 20 pages of flame wars that would ensue, so I guess we would find something funny to read after all.


You know what Kree, You're right!  Perhaps jumping on the tie is bad form but honestly, it's all in good fun and I hope the OP realizes that.  I think of it more along the lines of being "razzed" by your friends and less like being ridiculed.  I mean c'mon...You gotta admit it does look a little like a pic for an emplyee ID badge.  But hey,  to the OP, I say the tie is greatness!  Keep on doing what You do!  Hope I didn't give You the feeling I was putting you down.  Just having a little good-natured fun. 

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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/26/2006 7:28:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Master2Bindngagu

I dont get how people sign up and are owned the next day or even before.  Do they just take whoever emails them first?  Do they not undertake any discussion with potential Owners/Dominants?  Are people that truly naive about this world?  It really frustrates me to see people who are "owned" after being on here one day.  It really calls into question the nature of some of the Owners/Dominants here and lack of knowledge for people new to this world and makes me feel bad for the submissives and pissed at the idiots here.



Just a reminder that some of them may have come -on- here owned. Our servants are encouraged to read and participate in the forums, should they wish to to so. Especially for servants new to our household, we make it part of their training that they will spend some time reading AT LEAST the LadiesBladewing posts on the boards and in the archives, so they will hopefully be more able to clearly understand how our thought processes work. And we vette our servants carefully, and ONLY in person -- we don't do online collars or email/phone long distance relationships, unless it is with an Enclave servant who is already established and has to travel for work or family business.

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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/26/2006 7:36:01 PM   
LadiesBladewing


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ORIGINAL: LordTemporal

I don't think that the writer of the original post was referring to those that are already owned, when they sign up here...
LT


The OP did not specify that he was excluding previously owned servants -- he DID say
quote:

I dont get how people sign up and are owned the next day or even before.


The only way he could be worried about people who are owned on those terms would be to include submissive individuals who -came- here owned or already on the verge of being so (perhaps they came here and signed up on their potential Owner's command, the day they were to take their collar). If he -meant- unowned submissive individuals who had not been exploring a relationship prior to coming here, who took a collar the same or next day, he needed to be more clear in his expression. Words -do- matter.

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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/28/2006 8:26:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

hehe macdom/mes good one.

but forget the tie, whats with the funny shirt and posture ? is the guy actually standing to attention ?


Ok not cool to attac the OP!!! at least not for that reason :P


Oh my GOD, Lighten up Enigma.  No one is attacking him.  It's really sad that people can't be more light hearted.  The picture is a little dated, the tie, the stance everything....it was an observation...ok the thread was hijacked from the beginning....but he is getting his answers.  I thought we were a community.  Can we not joke with each other at time.  Do we ALWAYS have to be so serious?  Heck Zenofeller looks like Tom Hanks in "The Man with One Red Shoe"  Maybe thats the look he was going for, maybe not...but I am sure he will take this to be a light hearted comment....not an attack.....Stop wearing your feelings on your shirt sleeve....

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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/28/2006 8:42:59 AM   
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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/28/2006 8:44:27 AM   
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nice grass!!!!!


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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/28/2006 9:55:59 AM   
juliaoceania


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Let me preface this with saying I am not owned, but I am exclusive and became so shortly after joining this site. The person who gave me the link to CM is also the dominant I am seeing presently. I did flirt with a few doms when I first signed up for this site and my situation changed quickly and it may have seemed to someone like you that is changed the day after I posted my profile. It in fact took a couple of months of talking regularly and meeting offline before I "took myself off the market" for a dominant.

Some of the people you are critiquing are probably deserving of it, but probably not all of them. You have zero idea of what they do in the real world or who they know or how long they have known them....just my two cents

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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/28/2006 2:56:35 PM   
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It's almost as annoying as someone coming to a new forum and beginning their interactions by bitching about how they perceive things to be or should be. 

Welcome to the board.

Everyone here is an adult and personally responsible for their actions (even if they don't know it).  As long as they're not bringing grief to your doorstep you gotta ask yourself - why does it have enough power over you to upset you so? 







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RE: This is annoying and just bothers me - 6/28/2006 3:28:13 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Master2Bindngagu

I dont get how people sign up and are owned the next day or even before.  Do they just take whoever emails them first? 


No, sometimes, and yes.

I was collared before I joined this website. The only reason I'm on the website is the forums. My one year on this website is predated by five years with Master. So, in my case and in many others, the profiles here aren't always looking for the "One".



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