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First day here - 6/2/2013 3:17:39 PM

priap55

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Hello Everyone, I am Priap55 and I would like to understand how to get involved with this lifestyle. I am submissive, married, wife isn't into any of this but is aware of my interest, in my late 50's. I am from Grand Forks, ND and would like a Mistress from there to teach me the ropes so to speak.

I guess I really don't know what else to say right now. I don't know if you want me to get into my fantasies or not, so I wont until I hear differently.

Thanks in advance for all your help in getting me started in this lifestyle.

Priap

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RE: First day here - 6/2/2013 3:23:17 PM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Welcome to CollarMe forum.
Check out the forums in "Ask a Mistress", discussions you find there will help you fine tune your profile to make it more attractive and you will also find helpful advice on how to APPROACH a Domme (and how NOT to approach one)

Good luck in your search!

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RE: First day here - 6/2/2013 3:43:46 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Since the demand for Dommes is so great, you may want to get involved in your local "scene". I found "gateway" organizations in my area which means they have programs for the "newbie".

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RE: First day here - 6/2/2013 5:28:20 PM

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Hi there, saw your intro and went to your profile which prompted you to send me an email asking to be friends. When I turned you down saying that in my experience, men who tell me that never stick to it, you responded by sending me a picture of your dick. Thanks for proving me right and all that.

I sincerely hope that any Domme who considers getting involved with you sees this thread and crosses you off her list for being an idiot.

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RE: First day here - 6/2/2013 7:28:44 PM

FrostedFlake

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Let's do a little critical analysis.

You say submissive in a way that leaves your wife unimpressed. You are aging in such a way as to be reluctant to post a photo. But you are willing to mail a close-up. And you live as far from everyone else as is possible in the lower 49.

Thinking that over, I wonder if you have considered seeing a pro.

Thanks for not bringing up your fantasies right away.

Best wishes and good luck.

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RE: First day here - 6/3/2013 12:40:45 AM

garyFLR

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Hi Priap,

Welcome to CM, best wishes, & good luck

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Gary.

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RE: First day here - 6/3/2013 3:08:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: esmee

Hi there, saw your intro and went to your profile which prompted you to send me an email asking to be friends. When I turned you down saying that in my experience, men who tell me that never stick to it, you responded by sending me a picture of your dick. Thanks for proving me right and all that.

I sincerely hope that any Domme who considers getting involved with you sees this thread and crosses you off her list for being an idiot.

Well, now we know that his user name is based on "priapic".

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RE: First day here - 6/3/2013 3:57:40 AM

garyFLR

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quote:

ORIGINAL: esmee

Hi there, saw your intro and went to your profile which prompted you to send me an email asking to be friends. When I turned you down saying that in my experience, men who tell me that never stick to it, you responded by sending me a picture of your dick. Thanks for proving me right and all that.

I sincerely hope that any Domme who considers getting involved with you sees this thread and crosses you off her list for being an idiot.

Ladies mail boxes are full of idiots like this one, thanks for the heads up.

Withdrawing my welcome message.

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RE: First day here - 6/4/2013 7:22:34 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome priap.

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RE: First day here - 6/4/2013 8:58:10 AM

searching4mysir

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quote:

I would like to understand how to get involved with this lifestyle. I am submissive, married, wife isn't into any of this but is aware of my interest, in my late 50's.

Well, it is good that you are honest that you are married. Any domme worth her salt will want to speak with her themselves in order to know if she is on board with you submitting to another person (they aren't going to take your word for it).

If you and your wife aren't willing to do that much, then you are best off seeking out a pro, but that won't be cheap.

ETA: After reading the thread, here is a word of advice: if someone wants to see your dick, they will ask you for a picture of it. Being women, we generally don't give a rat's behind about genitalia until we actually care about the person. We'd rather see your face and a fully-clothed picture of you doing a hobby that you love.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 6/4/2013 8:59:41 AM >

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