RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK This is what makes me want to hide under a rock. PEOPLE! THIS IS WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT WHEN WE SAY "girls who think they are fin dommes"! Please do not associate me, or an actual fin domme,with how she acts. Not sure you get to say she isn't "an actual findomme," sorry. I'm sympathetic to fin as a fetish, as you can probably tell from my previous posts. But it's like Muslims saying, "No real Muslim would blow up a plane," or Christians saying, "No true Christian would blow up an abortion clinic." Those people sure considered themselves Muslims and Christians, and they prayed to their god of choice and did other religious-type stuff. So they count as "real" in my book, even if they were real fucked in the heads. Same deal here. If she calls herself a findomme, gets at least one $20 tribute from one sub, one time, how is she not engaging in financial kink? Maybe call yourself something different, because you can't control what she calls herself? "Findomme specializing in long-term relationships," "Money-management findomme," as opposed to camming findomme. Something like that. You can't control how any other woman brands herself.
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