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TheLilSquaw -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 3:19:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HaveWhipWillTrav Depending on the situation. But I am going from a pure never met the person before perspective. Even if I have NEVER meet a person before that does not even guarantee my tolerance.

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 3:21:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unsafenonconsent Are you objecting to a world of black and whites because you don't want to stand by your own words? Or is that too black and white for you? If I'm acting like a teenager and you're so much better than me, why is it that you keep responding to my posts? Oh, never mind. I'm looking at your post count and your join date and I've figured you out entirely. Good luck with all that. So I'm curious...what does a post count of 15 and a join date of 12-8-12 say about you if these are indicative of anything at all? Since you brought it up and all.

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 3:26:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unsafenonconsent Arguably, most people show respect for their employers, but it's a lucky few who actually feel respect for them. I am NOT required to show respect to producers or photographers who hire me. In-fact showing them respect wont get me a call back or a good reference. I am required to do my job. I am required to act in a professional manner. These things will get me a call back, it has gotten me repeat gigs. I don't require models that I hire to show me respect. Them showing me respect wont get them a call back or a good reference. I do require them to do the job they were hired to do. I do require them to act in a professional manner. These things will get help them get a repeat gig with me.

DesFIP -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 3:36:04 PM)
Obviously unsafenonconsent will have no problem with a partner lying to him, cheating on him, stealing from him and giving him a std. Because those are the expedient things to do. You ought to rewrite your profile young man, because it's asking for things you are incapable of recognizing, appreciating or returning.

sexyred1 -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 3:40:47 PM)
These questions are rather esoteric. I mean, you could deserve respect from here to eternity and not get it. You could not deserve respect and get it. If the question is on how you view yourself, why would anyone else's opinion about you deserving respect matter when it is within your own relationship and we don't know the story behind it. If you have to ask if YOU deserve respect from how you see yourself, then no one can help you. No matter what horrible things I go through, I know I deserve respect, within and outside of a relationship. Like everyone else, role has nothing to do with it. People get respect if their actions match their words in my mind.

tazzygirl -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 3:47:46 PM)
There is no story behind this. Gesh.... Its a discussion question, one that I have thought about for a while. quote: I mean, you could deserve respect from here to eternity and not get it. You could not deserve respect and get it. I agree, both of those could happen. And? It wasnt if I deserve respect... but how the one side of the kneel views the other within a relationship.

JeffBC -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 4:19:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity So I'm curious...what does a post count of 15 and a join date of 12-8-12 say about you if these are indicative of anything at all? Since you brought it up and all. As if anyone cared what YOU think with your post count of 601 and your join date of 5-29-2012. If you serialize your join date and divide by your post count then add in the month and date of month you end up with 666. Did you REALLY think you were going to be able to hide the truth from us all? PS: Where's that girl who was worried about posting because we sometimes shred newbies? I'm hoping she's reading this thread to see a great way for that to occur. Join the site and decry both honor and integrity then start making mysterious accusations based upon some sort of numerology. Whoever you were, if you're reading this, don't do that :)

tazzygirl -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 4:33:31 PM)
Im falling behind... Im only at 621.... 690909090909090909

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 4:53:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC As if anyone cared what YOU think with your post count of 601 and your join date of 5-29-2012. If you serialize your join date and divide by your post count then add in the month and date of month you end up with 666. Did you REALLY think you were going to be able to hide the truth from us all? Oh noes! My secret is out. Curse you for spilling the beans, man who dares choose honor and integrity over expediency and half-assing it! No one would have ever known. That's it...no invite for you to my 4 horsemen of the apocalypse horse ranch this summer [:D]

littlewonder -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:08:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl Who deserves more respect, the top or the bottom? ~Top - I mean anyone in a dominant role, bottom - I mean anyone in a submissive role... sad I feel I have to point that out, but someone will ask Neither. Both. I don't automatically give respect to people. They get common courtesy. Respect is for those who earn it with me and those are few and far between. I can count the number on one hand who have respect from me. Those people I hold in high regard in my life. I don't see respect as having anything to do with bdsm and everything to do with being an extraordinarily good person.

littlewonder -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:14:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists Neither... Respect is earned not deserved. Deserves doesnt mean demand. As in, someone can deserve a promotion because they earned it. Just because you earned it doesn't mean you deserve it. I can earn a a position at work that pays more but if I came about it in a less than honest manner then I don't deserve it.

tazzygirl -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:18:51 PM)
If you come about it in a less than honest manner, then you didnt earn it.

JeffBC -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:26:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl If you come about it in a less than honest manner, then you didnt earn it. Agreed. In that case you stole it. I gotta argue a bit with KoM though... just because hey, that NEVER happens. I think that one can deserve respect after it has been earned. That formulation makes perfect sense to me. You still may or may not get it but if it's been fairly earned then it is fairly deserved. And yes, this situation can happen. I've gone to some lengths sometimes to earn someone's respect and it turned out to be a person who respected nobody. I still felt like I deserved it so I cut off all contact with such people.

littlewonder -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:30:26 PM)
not necessarily. For example, let's say you scored a perfect score on a test so you could reach a certain level. At this point you earned it. But say there is a tie and you "persuade"someone to choose you over the other. It has now become less than deserving...but you still earned it.

Greta75 -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:32:47 PM)
Both deserve equal respect.

tazzygirl -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:33:03 PM)
I still say you didnt deserve it. If you cannot get the position without tricks or "bribes" then your actions, in my view, are less than honorable and you didnt deserve the position.

GotSteel -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:33:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: unsafenonconsent I'm looking at your post count and your join date and I've figured you out entirely. Good luck with all that. OK, I just gotta ask because I'm dying of curiosity. What have you figured out from my join date and post count? What is it that I need "luck" with? In the interests of full disclosure (and because I am a man of honor and integrity) does it change your calculations to know that I joined a few years before this account and there were a few thousand additional posts? He's making a crack about you spending too much time on the interwebs.

tazzygirl -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:34:09 PM)
Pft... mine is much, much, embarrassingly much higher... lol.. and he didnt make that correlation with me.

JeffBC -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:49:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GotSteel He's making a crack about you spending too much time on the interwebs. Ahhhhh... do people need "luck" to waste time on the internet? I find it rather easy actually. It's not like hitting an inside straight or something.

theshytype -> RE: Respect (6/6/2013 5:59:26 PM)
If I'm with someone, it's because I respect them and they respect me (among other things, like warm and squishy feelings). Without mutual respect, both being equally deserving of it, I could not be in a relationship with that person.

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