CynthiaWVirginia
Posts: 1915
Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Mriggs Hello I am new to the site but been serving mistresses for years now....the last couple of women who were new to the scene always started the same way. I was wondering if I could get input from the female perspective? They always seem to want to start by finding the largest dildo/ vibrator and sticking it in my ass.....to be followed by when I cum either in a glass or on a plate to me licking up every drop...is this really that popular? It's not that I mind at all because I can tell how excited it makes them but its all they ever seem to want to do and there is so much more available? Just curious Your pic shows a hawt babe with a monster sized strapon pegging a guy in the arse with a magazine lying nearby on the bathroom floor called Anal Justice...I can see why women would think you're into having this done to you. A vast amount of male subs (on the mailroom side of CM, at least) want to be "forced" into eating their own cum. I haven't heard women caring much about this. Personally, it does nothing for me...however...I told bo that if he EVER accidentally ejaculated into my mouth (I detest the taste of ejaculate, lol) that he would be eating his own cum for a long time afterward. Even if it made him gag and puke. As for the large strapon stuff...I wasn't interested in that for a long time. But when I was vanilla and with guys who insisted on anal sex (who didn't know what the H they were doing and they HURT me)...if someone had told me I could return the favor to educate them, I would have strapped one on and plowed into them. Without lube, other than their spit since that seemed to work for them when I was on the receiving end. I would have gotten myself some Anal Justice alright, lol. I don't have any with bumps on it like that...dammit. Maybe those two women used kink to work through some issues they had with past boyfriends...they needed to and learned something from it. Maybe they were just doing what was expected of them (guys hound newbies all the time in private messages in chatrooms and in letters, it's easy to get a skewed view of what goes on within real time BDSM relationships). Myself, I started off with thuddy flogging and blindfolds, because I loved it. Then a certain wooden hairbrush took my fancy and I started spanking guys with it. With another bottom I found out I enjoyed putting on gloves and doing prostate massage and bondage. Several years later I'm into all kinds of "scary" stuff...see...all of this took a while. I didn't start off with being into "everything". If (what you said) has been your experience with women in your area, I think you need to find your local BDSM munch groups and start going to them. Take your dates, these new Dommes, to munch meet and greets in restaurants and then take them to play parties so they can watch others and ask questions. With a friendly bottom...I've never had a problem with one saying, "I enjoy being (add whatever). Would you like to try it to see if you can enjoy it too?" Negotiate.
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