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Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 3:03:31 AM

Mellissande

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I sometimes have the most random of thoughts, so be warned. lol

So I was idly pondering life the other day and a question popped into my head that I haven't been able to shake; do men like when a woman gags while deep throating, or do they find it to be a lack of experience and therefore do not enjoy it?

I know every man is different and so would have different views; so I would love to hear your thoughts on the matter.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 6:39:07 AM

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Not a guy, but I know one that loves to gag and the sounds, the other hates it and doesn't see the point in it..

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 7:35:23 AM

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quote:

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Not a guy, but I know one that loves to gag and the sounds, the other hates it and doesn't see the point in it..

I guess it will always be a to each his own kind of thing. And I probably should have specified. It is perfectly fine for anybody to answer the question. I would like to hear all opinions on this.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 8:11:43 AM

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Given that I am not a sadist why would I like the sounds of Carol's distress? No, I don't want to hear her gagging.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 8:14:58 AM

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I would enjoy having a girl deep throat me and gag on it..just for a few seconds at a time if its constant then it's too much I would think

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 8:46:17 AM

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Very respectable reasoning there Jeff.

Sam, the men I have been with tend to feel the same as you.

But the question now becomes: is it a sadist quality to enjoy the sound of her gagging occasionally? Most of the erotic stories I read the men seem to gain satisfaction in the sound. That is to say it seems to be a manly reassurance thing I think? Or maybe it it just part of the struggle... Most of the stories I read are on the rough side.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 9:16:51 AM

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Gagging is the sweet, sweet sound of sacrifice. It is the measure of how far she will go for your pleasure. The only sound sweeter is gargling and snorting cum out her nose. Sometimes sadists love life most when it's 'not pretty'. I shall not recount the stroies of my encounters with nausea but rather just say, it enhances the illusion of nonconsensuality like pissing yourself in fear, tears and crying do. Gagging is just fine by me.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 9:26:18 AM

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Gagging is the sweet, sweet sound of sacrifice. It is the measure of how far she will go for your pleasure. The only sound sweeter is gargling and snorting cum out her nose. Sometimes sadists love life most when it's 'not pretty'. I shall not recount the stroies of my encounters with nausea but rather just say, it enhances the illusion of nonconsensuality like pissing yourself in fear, tears and crying do. Gagging is just fine by me.

This must be a lot of the reason why I come across stories like that. Most can be found in the non consent/ reluctance categories.

I also thought that even in non forced fellatio, it shows something of determination. Spitters are quitters, but gaggers can learn lol

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 10:31:57 AM

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I don't think my husband likes it, especially after telling him a story that had happened to me one time.
Thankfully, my reflex has improved but if he's jamming it hard enough and hears me, he'll let off a bit.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 10:54:04 AM

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I absolutely love to hear a woman gag on my cock. Especially if she is doing the deed enthusiastically despite the gagging. In the same respect I like to be smothered when I eat pussy. It's less a "I'm disrespecting you type kink and much more about "holy shit! You must really want to please me thing".

That's also prob why tying a lady up and whipping her is hot. The turn on for me is that she willingly submits. That's really a big honor.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 8:39:12 PM

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Depends on his mood. Sometimes he likes it when he is being a sadistic fuck. Other times he gets annoyed by it and most of the time he's indifferent and just tells me if I make a mess I'm the one cleaning it.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 9:53:32 PM

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The Man likes it. Not because it indicates that I'm in distress and he's enjoying it. But that I'm willing to go that little bit out of my comfort zone to make sure he's having a lot of pleasure. However he also gauges by it as to when to pull back and let me breathe.

Dealing with a gag reflex is one thing, making someone panic that they're suffocating is something else.

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RE: Ok, this question is for the men - 6/7/2013 11:12:41 PM

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I like it. No need to elucidate further.

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