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I ask for a Woman's opinion - 6/7/2013 6:56:29 AM

captivebeast2

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I have been involved with my Lady for over 4 months now. She is vanilla in her lifestyle, She is also from the Caribbean. She has led pretty much a simple life in her country. I am the first caucasian man she has been with. We plan on marrying in the very near future. Though vanilla, she is very Dominant in her ways. Knowing somewhat of her past relations that failed her. I am teaching her through my actions of how a Lady should be treated and adored. When she is in financial need. Ill bail her out. She is a very hard working Woman. She is on her feet constantly, working double shifts as a Nurse. She is also a mother of two. Though we live an hour from one another. I will cook and prepare meals and deliver them. The time we spend together, Ill massage her till she sleeps. If we go shopping for shoes, Ill kneel and remove her shoes and put the others on for her to try. If we are in a public setting having drinks Ill put her feet on my lap and massage them. Though at times it does attract attention, it doesn't bother me. And she doesn't seem to mind either. I always tell her that She is my Queen and I would do anything for her, as long as it's in my reach. In our times of passion, I perform for her in an oral manner with little regard for my own satisfaction. When I wake up to leave in the morning I kiss her feet to say goodbye. All this feet activity is not so much the fetish as it is more of my love and adoration for her. She just believes that I am a wonderful man. She has no idea that I love Female Led relationships and Female Domination.
My question is. Do I tell her I am submissive? Do I tell her of my beliefs and lifestyle? Or do I just stay the course and continue what I am doing. I just need the advise from The Ladies on here. Hopefully there will be some input from Island Women as well to enlighten me if I am on the right track. I love this Woman and do not want to risk losing her. I feel the way I do not fully understand the Caribbean culture and her way of thinking. She may not understand me and this lifestyle. It's not all about the kink. Its about deep Love, affection and appreciation for Her.
I hope to get some good advise without the nasty feedback.

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RE: I ask for a Woman's opinion - 6/7/2013 7:05:48 AM

theshytype

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If you're being who you are, and she loves it, I don't see any reason to have a discussion with her about who you - she already knows and there is really no reason to put labels on it.
But, if you're itching to have a discussion with her, which I'm thinking you are since you posed the question here, then talk to her about it. Especially if you plan on marrying in the future, you should feel comfortable enough with her to discuss what's on your mind.

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RE: I ask for a Woman's opinion - 6/7/2013 8:13:46 AM

LafayetteLady

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I read your profile and considering the things on your "lives for" and "loves" list, if you don't talk to her, those things are never going to happen.

So yes, talk to her.

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